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Ways To Please Your Wife (islamic Perspective) by yazach: 6:15pm On Nov 05, 2015 |
Ways To Please Your Wife 1 - Make her feel secure- don’t joke about divorcing her, this will put a hole in your marriage. 2 - Always greet her whenever you arrive 3 - Your wife is a fragile vessel so take care of her- In this vessel there is a lot of goodness so treat her in a gentle manner. 4 - Advice her in privacy and the best timing. Don’t advice her in the presence of others, it can be a type of humility 5 - Be generous with her 6 - Move out of your way for her, when she’s coming to sit get up and let her sit on your seat tell her: ‘here honey sit I warmed up the seat for you’ 7 - Avoid anger. 8 - Look good for her and smell great. 9 - Don’t be rigid, you will broken- just because you are a man doesn’t mean you have to be harsh hearted 10 - Be a good listener 11 - Say yes for flattering and no for arguing. 12 - Call your wife with the best names she likes to hear. i.e: the prophet (Saw) used to call Aisha- A’ish! 13 - Surprise her secretly. Ex: Bring her a watermelon when it’s not the season of watermelons. Pick and choose in surprising her, be an artist in surprising her pleasantly. 14 - Preserve the tongue. 15 - Accept her shortcomings/ everyone has one. 16 - Show your appreciation to her. 17 - Encourage her to be in touch with her kin relations. 18 - Speak topics of her interest. 19 - Speak of her goodness in the presence of others 20 - Shower her with gifts. The prophet (saw) said: give gifts and you’ll love each other’ MML It’s doesn’t matter how cheap or expensive the gift is, it’s the thought that counts! 21 - Get rid of the same old routine once in a while, scrub the rust. Ex: Buy her ticket to a vacation cruise or something that she will enjoy. 22 - Think good of her- husn althan- 23 - Ignore some of the words/actions you don’t like 24 - Add a drop of patience- It can go a long way- i.e: at her time of pregnancy, menses…etc 25 - Expect and respect her jealousy. 26 - Be humble 27 - Don’t put a price on her happiness. 28 - Help her around household chores just like the prophet (saw) did. 29 - Help her respect and love your parents and you also love and respect her parents 30 - Show her that she is an ideal wife; each and every wife is an ideal wife in many ways, so make her feel that. 31 - Make dua’a for her and always remember her in your dua’as 32 - Leave her past to Allah swt 33 - Don’t show her that you are doing favors by doing your duties 34 - Shaytaan/Satan is your enemy NOT your wife! 35 - When eating, don’t only feed yourself, feed her TOO! – Not only does it go to the stomach but to the heart too. 36 - Look at her as a precious pearl, treat her and take care of her like a precious pearl 37 - Speaking of pearlsà show her YOUR pearlsà SMILE! Don’t put your smile out-of-service when you reach home! Don’t be rigid, smiling is Sadaqah 38 - Don’t hold grudges. Deal with the littlest matters and don’t ignore them, it will build up and will create a wall between you and your wife. 39 - Avoid being harsh hearted and moody. 40 - Respect her thinking; her thinking strengthens you. 41 - Help her discover/develop her skills and her success within 42 - Respect the boundaries of the intimate relationship- it’s a fragile matter. 43 - Help her with the children; it’s not only her job it’s yours too! 44 - Complement her!-give her the gifts of the tongues- 45 - Don’t be a stranger to her meals, know your wife’s meals, and eat her food. 46 - Let her know when you are traveling don’t just disappear, and also let her know about your arrival. 47 - When arguments arise, deal with it and don’t run away from it. 48 - Don’t share your home secrets with your friends. Keep your privacy, and don’t make it a garage sale. 49 - Encourage each other to worship/obey Allah swt – Go for umrah together, listen to a lecture/recitation.- 50- Engrave her rights in your heart and in your conscious 51 - Treat her with kindness through happiness and sorrow 52 - Don’t jump on your wife like a ball!, in fact polish your love with many kisses- A kiss is a messenger- alqubulah rasool 53 - When disputes happen between you and your wife, don’t go and share it with the whole world.-don’t leave your wounds open for the germs- 54 - Show her that you care for her health. 55 - Don’t think that you are right all the time!-No one Is perfect but the prophet (saw)- 56 - Share you happiness and sorrow with her. 57 - Have mercy on her. 58 - Be the shoulder she can lean on! 59 - Accept her as is, she’s a bent rib so don’t try to straighten it. *Side note: A dear friend once said: “a bent rib cannot be straightened, and in fact the beauty of it lies within its curve!” 60 - Have good intentions for your wife – alniyaatu atayibaah. 118 Likes 26 Shares |
Re: Ways To Please Your Wife (islamic Perspective) by yazach: 6:19pm On Nov 05, 2015 |
Both maclatunji and Lalasticlacla may save a family by letting people know their duties to women honestly 6 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Ways To Please Your Wife (islamic Perspective) by money121(m): 12:02pm On Nov 06, 2015 |
Aliamudulilahi 5 Likes |
Re: Ways To Please Your Wife (islamic Perspective) by Sasuwa(f): 12:03pm On Nov 06, 2015 |
Up op 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Ways To Please Your Wife (islamic Perspective) by MKO4ever(m): 12:05pm On Nov 06, 2015 |
Hmmmmm, it is not easy to be a man! 2 Likes |
Re: Ways To Please Your Wife (islamic Perspective) by kimond101: 12:05pm On Nov 06, 2015 |
Ma Sha Allah May Allah make it easy for us all. 4 Likes |
Re: Ways To Please Your Wife (islamic Perspective) by SuPeRq(f): 12:05pm On Nov 06, 2015 |
Jazakummullah khayran op 2 Likes |
Re: Ways To Please Your Wife (islamic Perspective) by taiyesoul(f): 12:05pm On Nov 06, 2015 |
Nice article OP.Please post the male version with the caption " Ways to please your husband" as well. 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Ways To Please Your Wife (islamic Perspective) by ibro2much(m): 12:06pm On Nov 06, 2015 |
Jazakum lah khaeran |
Re: Ways To Please Your Wife (islamic Perspective) by justwise(m): 12:07pm On Nov 06, 2015 |
Only 60 ways? That list should be longer 5 Likes |
Re: Ways To Please Your Wife (islamic Perspective) by bettercreature(m): 12:10pm On Nov 06, 2015 |
You can't please a woman 15 Likes |
Re: Ways To Please Your Wife (islamic Perspective) by Cvesta(m): 12:11pm On Nov 06, 2015 |
Such a long list is only meant for Mr Perfection 2 Likes |
Re: Ways To Please Your Wife (islamic Perspective) by ashjamu(f): 12:12pm On Nov 06, 2015 |
Alhamdulillah, @ op may Allah continue to bless ur household 1 Like |
Re: Ways To Please Your Wife (islamic Perspective) by geesilver(m): 12:15pm On Nov 06, 2015 |
This is fascinating........how I wish our men understand and follow all this, women would be seen as a precious as Gold......I love my woman. 3 Likes |
Re: Ways To Please Your Wife (islamic Perspective) by numericalguy(m): 12:15pm On Nov 06, 2015 |
Our women in Islam are Queens and Princesses 1 Like |
Re: Ways To Please Your Wife (islamic Perspective) by kelvincoke(m): 12:19pm On Nov 06, 2015 |
nice advice bt he plenty small 2 Likes |
Re: Ways To Please Your Wife (islamic Perspective) by Nobody: 12:26pm On Nov 06, 2015 |
100 ways to please a woman... 100. U can't please a woman! 2 Likes |
Re: Ways To Please Your Wife (islamic Perspective) by mmabubakar(m): 12:28pm On Nov 06, 2015 |
That is just the way ISLAM (the religion of peace) says should treat our wives. Whoever u see treating his wife the other way round is not practising the true teachings of ISLAM and as such should not be considered as what ISLAM says regarding the treating of one's wive. Btw, Jumu'ah Mubarak to u all 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ways To Please Your Wife (islamic Perspective) by LuckyLadolce(m): 12:29pm On Nov 06, 2015 |
JAZAKUM |
Re: Ways To Please Your Wife (islamic Perspective) by Justicealh3(m): 12:32pm On Nov 06, 2015 |
She's Ur end & Ur begin, Even when U lose, U are winning. Behonest. |
Re: Ways To Please Your Wife (islamic Perspective) by ayodejys(m): 12:34pm On Nov 06, 2015 |
Is a good way to treat one wife.But who will misbehave will definitely misbehave. |
Re: Ways To Please Your Wife (islamic Perspective) by OboOlora(f): 12:43pm On Nov 06, 2015 |
Don't THREATEN, advocate, or encourage violent acts against any religion, person, tribe, race, animals, or group. 1 Like |
Re: Ways To Please Your Wife (islamic Perspective) by Revolva(m): 1:13pm On Nov 06, 2015 |
what about giving her the right size of cucumber or bannas to eat |
Re: Ways To Please Your Wife (islamic Perspective) by Nobody: 1:19pm On Nov 06, 2015 |
May Almighty Allah reward you here and thereafter. yazach: |
Re: Ways To Please Your Wife (islamic Perspective) by AppaAliApsah(m): 2:03pm On Nov 06, 2015 |
nice write up |
Re: Ways To Please Your Wife (islamic Perspective) by Nobody: 2:03pm On Nov 06, 2015 |
since the prophet called Aisha, Aish. Then my neighbour should call his wife(iya shakira) iya shaki . jazaka Allah khairon, have a blessed jum'at. |
Re: Ways To Please Your Wife (islamic Perspective) by jomoh: 2:53pm On Nov 06, 2015 |
All this for a woman. Who says islam is repressive? Islam is beautiful. 1 Like |
Re: Ways To Please Your Wife (islamic Perspective) by McBrooklyn(m): 4:18pm On Nov 06, 2015 |
Nice One OP |
Re: Ways To Please Your Wife (islamic Perspective) by chakula: 4:33pm On Nov 06, 2015 |
I wlll share with friends because it is worthy for the marriage people to set their eyes upon this educative article. |
Re: Ways To Please Your Wife (islamic Perspective) by Nobody: 4:40pm On Nov 06, 2015 |
jomoh:Yeah! You can said that again my brother! @ops, Jazakumunllahu Khairan! |
Re: Ways To Please Your Wife (islamic Perspective) by Jaydee009: 5:58pm On Nov 06, 2015 |
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Re: Ways To Please Your Wife (islamic Perspective) by Kazrem(m): 5:59pm On Nov 06, 2015 |
How many i won remember? Just be good to your wife, summarily |
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