In the bedroom, there are three major kinds of sexual activities that can take place between a man and his wife. The category you fall in will show if you can be called an irresistible husband.

1. Marital Rape. Some husbands force their wives to bed. They force themselves on their wives without their wives’ consent. I call this marital rape. It is not all right to sleep with your wife by force; every sexual relationship must be with her consent. It is crude and barbaric to beat her, threaten her or injure her because of sex. You must be a lover not a fighter. s*x is a love game not a fight-to-finish affair. Be a man not an animal; be a friend, a gentle man.

2. Animal Mating. Another s*x that normally takes place in marriage is “mating”. Like animals, it takes place in the bedroom without love, care, emotion, passion and attention. All some men want is s*x not love or romance. They believe women are good for the kitchen and the bedroom only. They don’t believe women should enjoy sex, because it is only meant for men. In fact, they believe women were created just to give men pleasure. Many men want s*x but hate pre-intimacy; they want intercourse but not love play. Some of them grab their wives the way a cat will grab a rat. Anytime you sleep with your wife selfishly without love and affection, or anytime you have her without love talks, love play and pre-intimacy, you’ve just “mated” not made love. Anytime you bark orders at her because you want to have s*x with her: “Remove your bra, now! “Remove your skirt fast!” “Are you a fool? Don’t you know you are supposed to have removed your pant by now?”, “Open your lap wide idiot”, “Won’t you hold me foolish woman?”, etc all you are doing is mating.

3. Love Making. What God created s*x in marriage to be is “love making”. “And Adam KNEW EVE his wife…….. (Genesis 4:1). God does not want s*x in marriage to just be about “laying together” but about “knowing each other”. Love making should involve love, sharing, patience, pleasure, communication, communion, enjoyment, giving and receiving. Let her enjoy s*x with you. The man must not see himself just as a receiver but also a lover. You are not a horse rider. You must have appropriate knowledge of what s*x in marriage should be and develop yourself to be the best. Don’t ever think of getting sexual satisfaction outside your marriage; it is dangerous, selfish and unrighteous. Look inwards and get righteous s*x at home. Satisfying yourself through another woman will lead to your death and eternal damnation.


culled from Secrets of Irresistible wife available on konga.com .......http:///Jk433W

Is the kind of sex in which you are not putting your spouse into consideration if she is fulfill. you just release and go away.
they use to call people like that a sparm donor

rexkexmilan:
Which one Is "Animal" Mating Biko

How can men of these days know their wives when Ik,Tunde and Ishaqu have known them since they were 12.
These leads to lack of interest and intimacy from the wife to the husband leading to battering and rape thereby making the man a sperm donor cuz they are only mating...