May be you both got married because of the pregnancy and he is feeling tied down.Just focus on your pregnancy.When you put to bed you will be more preoccupied with motherhood and will have a companion.wish u safe delivery and don't worry too much.

I am shocked. When I am past the shock phase, I will be ROFLMAO

Ginaz:
Men and their wahala, God pls give me a caring husband

Most likely ur potential caring husband is permanently in ya friendzone .

fem29:
Hi dear I'm so sorry you are going through this. As someone already asked, are you legally married to him(no judgment). Right now the most important thing is your baby. You need to reduce your stress levels. It's not good for you or baby. Please try to remove all thoughts about his girlfriend from your mind right now. Wait till after you give birth before you hash it out. Focus on trying to get money from him for baby stuff and hospital bills for now. No fighting him for now, you are in no condition. If he doesn't bring the money, do you have family and friends that can help you out?.

Also is your mum or sister available to come and stay with you for a while?. You need someone to lift your spirit right now. It will get better in Jess name. Just pretend as if he doesn't exist for now.

Do u mean JESUS or Jese?sweet pls dnt abbreviate our saviours name

BABANGBALI:
edwife just dey pour petrol for the matter,kai you wicked o

She's actually correct.
Babe3 maybe consider that.

At least give both sides a chance to defend themselves.

BABE3:


dyt, see me see trouble o. God deliver us from fùckboys. He's so going down.

why would he even threaten me with releasing nudes on the internet if he's not terrified?

a woman just told me now behind the scenes that she dated him too for 2 years (probably while he was dating me), and he scammed her as well.

please the ladies that he has scammed, lets all speak up. The more the evidence, the better/stronger the case against him.

hmmmmmmmm na wa o,the guy deaerves an award from all the ladies here and not condemnation

5minsmadness:
And this made Frontpage
Is it any doubt now nairaland is just a biased institution for settling petty scores?
Of course the mod will say s/he didn't read the whole thread before taking it to frontpage o.


Cc Pickabe.au1
Din.achi
Li.lmax
Timb.uktou

lalasticlala read just the first page

BABANGBALI:
edwife just dey pour petrol for the matter,kai you wicked o

I want everyone to defend themselves without the interference of kids on FP.

jusRadical:




After co-habiting?

yes now,wont you test drive the car you want to buy?

BABE3, I would like to ask you a question if you don't mind.

Why were you sending him money? And is giving money to someone you are with or a family member not a gift that you give out voluntarily?

call him nd talk to him to know what is in his mind.
if it is lik that pobably he is not ur husband, he don't love you. is lik u gonna go with ur pregnant because he do hav a plan over u, try nd look for ur way because he can kill u over night.
that's why It's not good to rush anything marriage.

BABANGBALI:
yes now,wont you test drive the car you want to buy?

go and sit down jare

Ginaz:
Men and their wahala, God pls give me a caring husband

**prayer answered**

**Make sure you marry permsec, he is the one for you**

cococandy:

She's actually correct.
Babe3 maybe consider that.

At least give both sides a chance to defend themselves.

Thanks,they are both people i respect and interact with more often and it will be fair to give both a chance to defend themselves without taking side.

airmark:


For tagging me , i will try to leave your bayern thread for the rest of this month Thanks, as if i knew , studying coogar's comments on sport section gave me the conviction he is a fraudster and never-do-well. I am happy i read all these exposee this evening.







Jesus kristi

I will need more info about this coogar, the fraudster.

See thief! You dey happy say dem don dash you endless personals like wackrebel type abi? Lmao!!!

edwife:


It is a shame really,even the woman story should not be on front page,as the mods know that it's full of kids and they can't give her any advices she seek.

As for coogar matter,we should have talk about in the privacy of family section,this is crap!

Ma'm.
Lost faith in nairaland a long time ago due to the actions of a biased mod.
The allegations leveled against coogar were very serious and should have been sorted out discreetly at the very least not so as to hide anything but so as not to make a mess of things.

But no. Some grudge mod gleefully threw it to front page.

No offence to BABE3 but if she and coogs had a relationship in the past that didn't end well then it wouldn't be surprising if she still holds some malice and vice versa. They are most likely prone to throwing threats at each other. That's by the way.

The bone of contention is Is Coogar a fraudster? If yes what's the proof? If no then the detractors should be banned according to nairaland laws.

But we all know those laws don't work for everybody

edwife:


I suggest you open a thread on family section because this is not going anywhere as the thread has gone to the bin.What do you think?

I want this to be a fair deal and also give both party the chance to defend themselves.

Wrong approach since it's not going to achieve much other than few deactivations

Blackmail threats should be taken seriously hence they should go via the legal option rather than a public court of opinion

Ginaz:
Men and their wahala, God pls give me a caring husband

i am right here baby. I am big,strong and reliable

lofty900:
He's not healthy for close to a year but he has the strength to bang another gal with viagra. Stop pitying him, he doesn't deserve you.

If he's taking Viagra then it means he doesn't have any strength. True strength cometh not from Viagra.

lofty900:
He's not healthy for close to a year but he has the strength to bang another gal with viagra. Stop pitying him, he doesn't deserve you.

See them, marriage counsellor. In any marriage, there must be ups and downs. It is the ability to weather the storm that makes you truly married.

lofty900:
He's not healthy for close to a year but he has the strength to bang another gal with viagra. Stop pitying him, he doesn't deserve you.

See them, marriage counsellor. In any marriage, there must be ups and downs. It is the ability to weather the storm that makes you truly married.

yoksy:
I've not really reached the point of being suicidal because I know my future is bright and the baby in my womb is more of a comforter to me. I have been married for close to two years now.

My hubby has not been very healthy for close to a year now, we just leave like roommates, hardly any sexual activity, but it was a blow to my face when I came back from church on Sunday and saw a pill of Viagra 100 on my matrimonial bed and when I checked his phone I saw his chat with a girl inviting her to his guest house and denying he is married.

After confronting him, there was no remorse not even an explanation. He is just pretending to be nice (meanwhile am heavily pregnant but he cares less, I care for my pregnancy and buy my babies stuff. Hee sometimes even tells me he is not responsible for my pregnancy)

Please, I need candid advice on what to do. thanks.

need to hear the man side of the story before any further advice.

You WOMEN can just come here and cooked up lie blaming the guy for everything

Maybe he knows you have once cheated on him and wanted to pay you back!

Remember! Revenge is best serve when it is cool and chill

This is what happens when you think the guy that gets you pregnant is meant to be your husband or is a responsible guy.

Walk away dear, your unborn baby deserves more than an irresponsible flirt for a father.

upendime:
God can change his heart towards you through prayer

God cannot change it!! cos the man partially contributed to the pregnancy and really knows what he's doing. Bleep Bleep lady, when you de do your own de misbehave, you no no say ehim go pay u. This is just the beginning ,stupid lady. Make l see u here again.

Coogar and Babe3? .......

Cc Debosky A40

Charlestii:
go and sit down jare

i have told you my own o,not that you marry finish you start complaining of low performance or non performance at all at all

5minsmadness:


Ma'm.
Lost faith in nairaland a long time ago due to the actions of a biased mod.
The allegations leveled against coogar were very serious and should have been sorted out discreetly at the very least not so as to hide anything but so as not to make a mess of things.

But no. Some grudge mod gleefully threw it to front page.

No offence to BABE3 but if she and coogs had a relationship in the past that didn't end well then it wouldn't be surprising if she still holds some malice and vice versa. They are most likely prone to throwing threats at each other. That's by the way.

The bone of contention is Is Coogar a fraudster? If yes what's the proof? If no then the detractors should be banned according to nairaland laws.

But we all know those laws don't work for everybody

So on point mehn. U couldn't have said it better

Efejoku ni o (dancing) skibo!! if i comment, now the moderators will ban me say i dey post fake news comment reserved

Ginaz:
Men and their wahala, God pls give me a caring husband

I'm here waiting for you

E go vex me if the root of this issue is not gotten to
That is Coogar being exposed beyond any reasonable doubt if indeed he's guilty or those trying to bring him to disrepute being equally dealt with for false accusations/defamation or whatever

Bottom line is it'll be a pity if this issue is left hanging

cococandy:

I think it's not nice. But hey I'm not a MOD.

Anyway what's so funny sir?

Nothing funny.
No sarcasm smiley

And this doesn't cover it.