BABANGBALI:
pls help call iyangbali too,she likes this kind gossip pass food

Even if I stand on the top of Kilimanjaro and scream IYANGBALI, him no go hear

jaybee3:


Wrong approach since it's not going to achieve much other than few deactivations

Blackmail threats should be taken seriously hence they should go via the legal option rather than a public court of opinion

Yes blackmails are disgusting and i hate that,but coogar has been accused here on NL it's a public forum.So how do we know who is saying the truth?the only person talking here is babe3.

TeaLovinModella:
I decide to open Nairaland on a random Saturday morning. And what do I see? People spilling tea like no tomorrow. Gahd knows how much I love this kind of tea.

Y'all telling me Coogar is a 419er? Odiegwu really!

Psst... Don't a coward by using alt monick

5minsmadness:

Nothing funny.
No sarcasm smiley

And this doesn't cover it.

oh I see

BABE3:


dyt, see me see trouble o. God deliver us from fùckboys. He's so going down.

why would he even threaten me with releasing nudes on the internet if he's not terrified?

a woman just told me now behind the scenes that she dated him too for 2 years (probably while he was dating me), and he scammed her as well.

please the ladies that he has scammed, lets all speak up. The more the evidence, the better/stronger the case against him.

Alutacoogs wont come and voice out how he scammed you too, its airing day for NAIRALAND PLAY BOY!

Babe3, there may be other victims presently too who are yet to know what they are in for. He has been soaring on you guys silence.

We have just heard the one side of the story, but there are always 3 sides of a story, her part, d hubby's part(which we have not heard) and the truth..so lets not judge now and crucify the husband.

5minsmadness:


Ma'm.
Lost faith in nairaland a long time ago due to the actions of a biased mod.
The allegations leveled against coogar were very serious and should have been sorted out discreetly at the very least not so as to hide anything but so as not to make a mess of things.

But no. Some grudge mod gleefully threw it to front page.

No offence to BABE3 but if she and coogs had a relationship in the past that didn't end well then it wouldn't be surprising if she still holds some malice and vice versa. They are most likely prone to throwing threats at each other. That's by the way.

The bone of contention is Is Coogar a fraudster? If yes what's the proof? If no then the detractors should be banned according to nairaland laws.

But we all know those laws don't work for everybody

Exactly,what's the proof?

BABE3:


dyt, see me see trouble o. God deliver us from fùckboys. He's so going down.

why would he even threaten me with releasing nudes on the internet if he's not terrified?

a woman just told me now behind the scenes that she dated him too for 2 years (probably while he was dating me), and he scammed her as well.

please the ladies that he has scammed, lets all speak up. The more the evidence, the better/stronger the case against him.

I can bet there are more and many like him
Chai see duping of innocent ladies


Oya ooo
Make all of una come out to share your ordeal with these terrible men on NL oo
I had dated too sha but never ended on a sad note
I want to read stories ooo

Awon oloriburuku okunrin

BABE3:


dyt, see me see trouble o. God deliver us from fùckboys. He's so going down.

why would he even threaten me with releasing nudes on the internet if he's not terrified?

a woman just told me now behind the scenes that she dated him too for 2 years (probably while he was dating me), and he scammed her as well.

please the ladies that he has scammed, lets all speak up. The more the evidence, the better/stronger the case against him.

Who are these women contacting you offline that cannot come and finish him here? You've been asked to provide proof and all you've done so far is present insinuations. You and these women should bring your information and evidence individually, after all he didn't scam you collectively, did he? We have been waiting since last night for this convincing info and you're more interested in reaching out to people you don't know than exposing this person who you claimed has defrauded you. Abeg, make we hear word.

NewBorn2:

Don't ever argue with him. Ask him for regular upkeep, if he refused, look for work and take care of yourself. Don't despair dress well and look delicious. People around him will draw his attentio n to his stupidity. Remain a good wife. Remember don't argue with him. There is no good husband out there.

I beg to disagree with your last line;the fact that you have not met one does not give you the onus to discredit all even the few ones that are good deserve some commendation in my honest opinion

sorry he doesnt love u

olu4life:

Psst... Don't a coward by using alt monick

yoksy:
I've not really reached the point of being suicidal because I know my future is bright and the baby in my womb is more of a comforter to me. I have been married for close to two years now.

My hubby has not been very healthy for close to a year now, we just leave like roommates, hardly any sexual activity, but it was a blow to my face when I came back from church on Sunday and saw a pill of Viagra 100 on my matrimonial bed and when I checked his phone I saw his chat with a girl inviting her to his guest house and denying he is married.

After confronting him, there was no remorse not even an explanation. He is just pretending to be nice (meanwhile am heavily pregnant but he cares less, I care for my pregnancy and buy my babies stuff. Hee sometimes even tells me he is not responsible for my pregnancy)

Please, I need candid advice on what to do. thanks.

If you're beautiful, run to another man (make sure he is Rich and caring)

Mznaett:
Men?? Fear them

women run from them!

jaybee3:


Wrong approach since it's not going to achieve much other than few deactivations

Blackmail threats should be taken seriously hence they should go via the legal option rather than a public court of opinion

Bvllshit. Babe3 should come and present whatever evidence she claims to possess and let us know the kind of person Coogar really is. We should know who we're dealing with or determine if it's just a case of sour grapes.

GHoJes:
Best Thing Ever!
Cc FrancisTony

What happened? Seems thread is juicy. Let me read from the beginning.

Mznaett:
Men?? Fear them

i jus dey look u. am nt defending am only sayin u shud nt continue wit dis ur mentality, change ur mindset to change ur situation

Timbuktou:


Who are these women contacting you offline that cannot come and finish him here? You've been asked to provide proof and all you've done so far is present insinuations. You and these women should bring your information and evidence individually, after all he didn't scam you collectively, did he? We have been waiting since last night for this convincing info and you're more interested in reaching out to people you don't know than exposing this person who you claimed has defrauded you. Abeg, make we hear word.

You should know not every of them has the guts babe3 has/had
She couldn't take it no more
She was done with the threats
Its a diff thing to be love scammed
Another take away your most precious and then still take advantage of you


His likes needs to be exposed
Some of the ladies could either be married or a known member so the laying off on NL

#rageofawoman#
Coogar is going down
I have heard stories too
As I like amebo

yoksy:
he has a broken leg so he always say he is not strong, I don't know wat caused it maybe it's his nature wch I neva saw we've not stayed 2geda we work in diff state but his condition is d reason he is not at his duty post. when I confronted him he told me notin no apologies but started acting as if he cared by asking me wat was wrong if I had discomfort due to my present state.

He obviously knew he messed up, just chill, deliver ur baby safely, and then sit him down and talk...

coogar:
as much as i appreciate you standing for me last night, i really don't want you to say much about what is in the past. when i give, i do it without looking back or seeking to chest-beat about it. once it's done it is done. don't let these goats push you to reveal what you need not.

the tactics is to throw some chaff & hope someone would bite it and open up private details. if and when they are ready, they will bring the 4 old women i scammed/screwed and then we can take it from there.

Noted!
Thanks for taking your time to tell me the full story from head to toe. I can now see where all these came from.

Mindfulness:
BABE3, I would like to ask you a question if you don't mind.
Why were you sending him money? And is giving money to someone you are with or a family member not a gift that you give out voluntarily?

Very good question. I have been communicating with the accused in the past 2 hours. While it is true that BABE3 sent some money to coogar it was coogar's money that she was sending to him bit by bit from the money she borrowed from him.

Coogar has refused to come here and wash dirty linen in public but he told me this much that he lent BABE3 close to $8,000 to buy business flight tickets from ATL to LDN on 3 different occasions. He did not give it out at once but we should ask BABE3 whether it is true she flew airlines with Coogar's money and whether she promised to pay him back in instalments.

There's more to this than it meets the eye. It's a case of if he spends money, it's a gift for her. If she spends money it's a loan that he must pay back. Coogar is adamant there is no scam involved. He only took back what she loaned from him concerning her 3 different visits to the UK. If this is a lie, BABE3 should tell us how she paid for her trips to the UK.

NewBorn2:

Don't ever argue with him. Ask him for regular upkeep, if he refused, look for work and take care of yourself. Don't despair dress well and look delicious. People around him will draw his attentio n to his stupidity. Remain a good wife. Remember don't argue with him.

There is no good husband out there.

There is no what. .. Well, may it be your portion if you are not married, but if u are married, and it's already ur portion, may it remain so, .. .. Until u retract ur statement.

To the young lady with this challenge, God can still give ur husband sense, no matter the fault on a lady side, no man, In his right senses, should play away match. ..

Timbuktou:


Bvllshit. Babe3 should come and present whatever evidence she claims to possess and let us know the kind of person Coogar really is. We should know who we're dealing with or determine if it's just a case of sour grapes.

Okay!

Timbuktou:


Who are these women contacting you offline that cannot come and finish him here? You've been asked to provide proof and all you've done so far is present insinuations. You and these women should bring your information and evidence individually, after all he didn't scam you collectively, did he? We have been waiting since last night for this convincing info and you're more interested in reaching out to people you don't know than exposing this person who you claimed has defrauded you. Abeg, make we hear word.

Lmaoooo... Bros aswear my patience dey dwindle for here. Waiting for evidence but none so far

Babe3
U are a smart lady and u know online disclosure of offline matter never ends well


Its a relationship that ended badly.....maybe there is some bitterness..that is normal but this approach is not d best


Let it end that way

swagloverss:


Noted!
Thanks for taking your time to tell me the full story from head to toe. I can now see where all these came from.



Very good question. I have been communicating with the accused in the past 2 hours. While it is true that BABE3 sent some money to coogar it was coogar's money that she was sending to him bit by bit from the money she borrowed from him.

Coogar has refused to come here and wash dirty linen in public but he told me this much that he lent BABE3 close to $8,000 to buy business flight tickets from ATL to LDN on 3 different occasions. He did not give it out at once but we should ask BABE3 whether it is true he flew airlines with Coogar's money and did she promise to pay them back in instalments.

There's more to this than it meets the eye. It's a case of if he spends money, it's a gift for her. If she spends money it's a loan that he must pay back. Coogar is adamant there is no scam involved. He only took back what she loaned from him concerning her 3 different visits to the UK. If this is a lie, BABE3 should tell us how she paid for her trips to the UK.

Really? Story e haff change again, na y e good to hear from both sides. Babe3 o ya come out

I don't think you guys are legally married...

BABE3:


ibime, he did not go to Manchester for Uni. o. Na OAU he went to o. NO be manchester o. Please take note. In case you want to rap-battle him. I'm giving you personals free of charge. OAU, obafemi awolowo, not manchester!

Coogar nah brah you need to come defend yourself.

I have known coogar as far back as I joined
And I could say I knew when he came along with Babe3
It all started from the romance section
I was close to him too but maybe we were same in love scam so we didn't have nothing

I never agreed with babe3 as we were always on each others throat

I am not here supporting her cos she's saying
I am here behind her, backing her every claim cos I knaw they had a really sweet relationship
Coogar wasn't fair on her
He dished out her Nude pictures
He said to people what he did and took from her
That's so low

I give it to her for the courage
She's a great woman


BTW babe3
Have you grown meat on your ear?

pickabeau1:
Babe3
U are a smart lady and u know online disclosure of offline matter never ends well


Its a relationship that ended badly


Let it end that way

There is more to it and she appears not to be the only victim.... That's a big concern!

swagloverss:


Very good question. I have been communicating with the accused in the past 2 hours. While it is true that BABE3 sent some money to coogar it was coogar's money that she was sending to him bit by bit from the money she borrowed from him.

Coogar has refused to come here and wash dirty linen in public but he told me this much that he lent BABE3 close to $8,000 to buy business flight tickets from ATL to LDN on 3 different occasions. He did not give it out at once but we should ask BABE3 whether it is true he flew airlines with Coogar's money and did she promise to pay them back in instalments.

There's more to this than it meets the eye. It's a case of if he spends money, it's a gift for her. If she spends money it's a loan that he must pay back. Coogar is adamant there is no scam involved. He only took back what she loaned from him concerning her 3 different visits to the UK. If this is a lie, BABE3 should tell us how she paid for her trips to the UK.

I asked this question before I discovered that the allegation being made is that he blackmailed her into sending money to him.

If you decide to give your boy-/girlfriend money voluntarily, don't call it a spam when the relationship goes sour BUT if your (ex-)partner blackmails you into giving him / her money then it is a different case and it is punishable by law.

Stories like this makes me scared of getting married? Are you for real? No remorse after asking him? Geez! You just need to sit him down(at d timeu can talk 2 him) and ask him what he needs from the marriage. I can't imagine what u ar going through. All the best sis