God originated marriage. He arranged the first on in the garden of Eden. He made the Woman to support the man and the man taking care and loving the woman like himself. It was supposed to be like that for ever but the woman fell for the devil's deceit.
We won't blame her cos the devil is a higher spirit but he didn't force her, did he? No. He just showed her that "hey woman, you can be better than your husband" and she grabbed it - she ate the fruit and when her husband returned, she placed his head on either her laps or bosom and fed him the forbidden fruit. But No, we can't blame her but God was furious and cursed the woman, He said "Your husband will Dominate you"

This is where I'm am going to.

God said your husband will dominate you but no woman is ready to be completely dominated. Those married won't enjoy the married if they fail to accept God's pronouncement. And solely cos of this, some women don't want to get married.

The truth is, no matter how much a man loves a woman, that curse is still there, he will still want to dominate you. Some men are worse but it's not them, it's the curse. Who brought it about? We aren't blaming but the Woman caused the curse. And now they don't want to dance to the music they produced.

God is ever faithful, he didn't remove the curse but out of pity he gave us the Bible where he instructed men and women on how to manage each other till he remove the curse. Are these people even using this Marriage manual - the Bible? The Bible never said a man should submit to his wife cos God can never contradict himself. He said a woman should submit and have deep respect for her husband and the husband in turn should love his wife deeply and treat her like a fragile vessel.

Today, our women wouldn't submit, they are fighting for equal rights, in fact I once saw Women church. I mean strictly women.
This is one of the reasons some women will never get married because they don't and will never submit themselves to a man.

This takes us to the second reason. In the quest to topple man's dominion, they amass wealth for themselves. Except someone reacher than you, there no chance that a man, I mean a man with balls will come close to you for marriage. If one comes, he's there either to Bleep you or take part of your money.

These things are evident out there.

To our men, married, don't take this as an excuse to treat your WIVES lesser. You can't live without THEM, they make us thick. And in a normal world, a woman isn't complete without a head, a crown, a MAN.

So, if you're still single at 30 and you're not ready to accept this simple facts, help yourself, reduce yourself and ask God to find you a good man. There re fools out there calling themselves men. Just accept that a man naturally must sometimes or always want to dominate you. God has placed you below him. Stay there and if he's a Good man, you will be happy forever. He will dominate you but not always. In fact he will respect you and sometimes even submit to you. But first, put yourself down. Please do.

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Hate me or love me, I've said my own.

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Op no let them swear for you

A lot of them are currently online

God is watching

Omotayor123:

Say your mind

Horseshiit.
Garnished with goat fart.

Mtcheeeeeeewww

Does it mean that God's curse was wrongly allocated?

What happened to the dominance of those men who does the whole laundry at home, cook, and run errands for their wives?

Did they encounter a default-mode-dysfunction?

Targaryen:
SHUT UP and read to understand

Goat

A bit true though. . But marriage isn't meant for everyone.

Wait so are u saying women shouldn't be rich or amass wealth? Una's mentality sickens me at times like I actually feel like vomiting

I was here.

MrsPhyno:
Wait so are u saying women shouldn't be rich or amass wealth? Una's mentality sickens me at times like I actually feel like vomiting

that is not what he meant, what he is saying that its a man's world and women should learn to be submissive to their husbands irrespective of the wealth she may have obtain.

@OP ure 100% correct but unfortunately they wnt agree.

cococandy:
Horseshiit.
Garnished with goat fart.

Remind me of ngozi chimandas speech again


She was absolutely referring to men like you

Inferiority complex... Imagine asking women to "reduce" themselves so they can get married. ..wetin we no go read


A real man knows how to command respect from his wife likewise a woman....Respect is earned! It's not your birth right.

The parts of Christianity that are supposedly "oppressive" are mostly taken out of context passages that urged early Christians to respect the temporal/natural order as understood at the time in the physical world and not to defy the existing social structure two millennial ago. This is 21st century and you need to make adjustment to the reality of life: That men and women are equal and at such, respect is reciprocal to both sexes.

PresVA:
Inferiority complex... Imagine asking women to "reduce" themselves so they can get married. ..wetin we no go read


A real man knows how to command respect from his wife likewise a woman....Respect is earned! It's not your birth right.

You are identified. Continue competing. Carry yourself up soooooooo high.

coolzeal:
The parts of Christianity that are supposedly "oppressive" are mostly taken out of context passages that urged early Christians to respect the temporal/natural order as understood at the time in the physical world and not to defy the existing social structure two millennial ago. This is 21st century and you need to make adjustment to the reality of life: That men and women are equal and at such, respect is reciprocal to both sexes.

Woman wrapper identified. Just listen to yourself talk.

lol

Maximus85:


Woman wrapper identified. Just listen to yourself talk.

Sorry, my approach and yours are quite different(our differences makes us unique as human right) but that doesn't make my ideology any lesser. I know my role as a man.

coolzeal:

Sorry, my approach and yours are quite different(our differences makes us unique as human right) but that doesn't make my ideology any lesser. I know my role as a man.

Who is the head of the family? Or do you have two heads in a family?

PresVA:
Inferiority complex... Imagine asking women to "reduce" themselves so they can get married. ..wetin we no go read

Humility is a rare gift.

coolzeal:
The parts of Christianity that are supposedly "oppressive" are mostly taken out of context passages that urged early Christians to respect the temporal/natural order as understood at the time in the physical world and not to defy the existing social structure two millennial ago. This is 21st century and you need to make adjustment to the reality of life: That men and women are equal and at such, respect is reciprocal to both sexes.

Two kinds of respect I know. One, I respect you by identifying that you're the head, boss, father, mother, elder etc.

Second, I respect you as a person, I respect you opinions, I don't want to do anything to hurt you cos I know you would do the same.

So, which respect is reciprocal here? The first one is by nature and should be recognised and men should maintain it and never Lord it over their women.

Maximus85:


Who is the head of the family? Or do you have two heads in a family?

The headship issue is an issue of order not who is better or more important. The husband is the head of the wife in the family, and he has the responsibility of guiding his family...
On the contrary, This headship is not about having the upper hand, nor is it to mean that a woman has no rights or is a slave. I think you misunderstood my quote..

Maximus85:


Two kinds of respect I know. One, I respect you by identifying that you're the head, boss, father, mother, elder etc.

Second, I respect you as a person, I respect you opinions, I don't want to do anything to hurt you cos I know you would do the same.

So, which respect is reciprocal here? The first one is by nature and should be recognised and men should maintain it and never Lord it over their women.

Respect allows you to accept another person’s point of view whole-heartedly. Consider and value your spouse’s perspectives or suggestions. Let your partner know that your respect and value for him or her supersedes the specific issue you are discussing. In other words, communication is the mortal of every solid relationship.