We hooked up since my second year and it's been real good since. But the weed thing feels not so good to me coz so far she's the only person I'm thinking when I'm thinking marriage.

I'm kinda like the quiet one while she's more high spirited and we love each other for we who we are, but I've told her to cut down on the green and though she keeps saying she's trying, I know she really is not.

Leaving her is so not option now coz there'll not be air enough to breathe if I do that. I don't know what else to do, but I know if the mother of my kids smokes green like she does, then it can't be good.

Ah, Nawa oo, If the mother's of ur kids smokes green. It means the whole family is in trouble even if she loves you, she might beat you up whenever you mess up.

if u cant change her u might eventually join her,

biola44:

if u cant change her u might eventually join her,

funny. he can never change her. only her can change her. when quietly re-read the thread i just felt like the poster has already a position and he may never change it. that position is: to stick with her thru thick and thin. my advice: green will destroy ur family sooner or later.

eddy1977:

funny. he can never change her. only her can change her. when quietly re-read the thread i just felt like the poster has already a position and he may never change it. that position is: to stick with her thru thick and thin. my advice: green will destroy ur family sooner or later.

kids learn frm wat they see & they'll luv 2 be better than mama, so dont mind them tryin crak

Like biola said,if u cant stop her then u join her. But u better be careful cos a lady like her would trade ur kids for drugs one day,when d money for her dope is runnin at deficit. Make hay now while d sun shines,stop her now while there's still chance or better still settle for a better girlfriend. Its not in dis days that u find naive men lik u who cant talk.Be a man and talk to her,else dump d f**k and move on with life,before she puts fire on your head and smokes u like weed