Hi Nairalanders, please you advise is needed to help a brother who has found himself in a very tight situation


So, a blog reader sent in this for advise, He really needs advise on the right thing to do so as not to break his family.

Please help me, My wife is really upset right now and my home is tensed up and I don’t know what I should do. Before I got married to my wife, I had a son with someone else whom I dated for about a year but broke it off because things weren’t working out between us. I have been responsible for my sons welfare ever since. My wife and I have no children yet but she accepts him as hers. My son’s mother recently lost her apartment and she asked if she and our son stay at my place till she can get someplace else. I talked to my wife about it and she only accepted that my son stay and not his mother.

My son’s mum begged me and I don’t know what happened but I let her in my home. My wife has been so upset ever since. I know I went against her wishes but I just think it’s only for a while and the only relationship I have with her is because of my child. What do I do now please.


Source; http://www.juicygossips.com.ng/2015/11/please-help-housing-my-baby-mama-is.html
Lalaticlala Please, help to help a brother

How can he accept his baby mama in his matrimonial home

I think you are married to two women now.

Accepting your babymama into your matrimonial home is silly of you and it still shows your relationship with her is still on.


I advice you rent her a house quickly though I believe your own side of the story is not complete

You brought this upon yourself.

What king of man will bring his babymamma into his matrimonial home?

You made a terrible mistake pls! Why did you allow your baby mama to move in to your house? Na you go bring trouble enter your house.

K

If m ur wife no p i wud move out i keep sayin a woman having a man's child has upper hand dan d one without his child dat bond is always there

Mehn its painful i feel for d wife she wud b regrettin it goin against her wish simply means u put ur baby mama above ur wife just free ur wife let her go in paeace imagine it was ur wifr who invited her baby daddy wud u b happy??


Relationship nd marriage sucks m fed up of it