A lot of couples these days find love through their own personal choice, by meeting people with shared interests, beliefs, and values either at work, at school, or at play. Along the line, they date, court and then decide if they are right for each other and if they can agree to live together and maybe get married.

Arranged marriage on the other hand involves the parents and relatives of those involved. Most times, there's marriage on the cards from the get go and it often happens within a short time after meeting. I want to think that these days, arranged marriages may involve some coercion and pressure but not force.

I have found that younger people are more gung-ho about making their own personal choice, but the older a man or a woman gets, especially if they have made the rounds of their social and dating circle with no luck, the more likely they are to be open to an arrangement by their parents or older relatives to meet new people and get married quickly.

What do you think? Which has more pros in your opinion?

I think both hav their own problems..but its better to choose for yourself tho.. Hence marriage by personal choice still remains the best

You trippin bruh?
Ain't nobody got time for arranged marriages.

Personal choice has more pros

Arranged marriage ke?

Who is still doing arranged marriage nowadays? Everybody prefer to choose by himself and that's the best. My opinion though

M actually waiting to see who will arrange marriage for me

Well 100% of arrange marriages are successful, while only 20% of choice marriages are successful, d rest percentage are divorces.

Experience, research and analysis has shown that for 30+ singles, matured single or anyone who sway through service year without a serious relationship, a referal kind of relationship is strongly recommended.

The reason is, the time constraint wouldnt permit you to treat relationships properly and the chances of mistake and vulnerability is high. The middle person, if honest enough would know both of you so should know the best paring and compatibility

These days personal choice inclined relationship has registered a monumental degree of failure.