Earlier this week, I received a message on the popular messaging application, WhatsApp.

The chat that followed suit ensured that I broke up with my beautiful and adorable girlfriend (name withheld). This was whom I shared everything with, whom I loved dearly, whom I felt would be the final girl I would date after having experienced what doesn’t exist in most relationships (We both loved ourselves in equal measures).

What led to the break up was SIMPLE; she is ready to settle down and I am not. I would not mention her name as she’s highly popular on the internet.

I had earlier thought that our love, care, emotions and all would cover up for that but alas, it blew up in my face.

Why this story is significant is because, as much as we love ourselves, we care for ourselves, we both value the relationship and other factors, we took a decision that, we both will continually be proud of; we broke up in good terms (mutual agreement some may call it).

We as humans must face and decide relationship issues based on prevalent realities and not some fantasies that may be banging in our veins!

Many a times, we tend to find ourselves entangled in the web of love and in the dilemma between leaving him or her and moving on. The truth is, as much as more people may advise that you follow your emotions, it surely may lead to heartbreak later on and all.

Decisions in Love should be based on realities and not fantasies of hope.

That was how I lost love but I have moved on nonetheless.

It is all good news because I have found another woman :-)

https://ladispeaks./2015/12/10/how-i-lost-love/

hmm.

My brother tales by moon light.

U gonna pay for my mb i swear. Cos u jst wasted it.

Yawn*

Wonderful! I feel for you OP! Nice write up sha, you are a blogger?