hi guys
there is this my friend who has been dating a girl for more than two years, both of them base in F.C.T, unfortunatly they break up last five month, the girl was posted to kebbi State where she was doing her youth service, two months of her service she hucks up with a guy over there not knowing that the person she hucks up with is Elder brother to her Ex-guy, now the guy promise the girl to marry her which both of them agree to go and see the Guy people,

eventualy last week the Guy took her to his village to see his parents, not knowing that My friend is in the Village, when they arrived my guy was suprise to see them, but he kept silence, behave that he dont know the girl, after all set and done, they went back to Kebbi State, now they preparing for the traditional marrage on july, so my guy is now pundering over the issue eighter to reveal the secret to his Elder brother or not,

But he said that he cant allow his brother to marry his ex- to avoid future, complete ths story

hmmmm

Thats good news to ur friend, tell him to keep quiet, meaning he can always get frequent congo, while the secret last

justwise:

Thats good news to ur friend, tell him to keep quiet, meaning he can always get frequent congo, while the secret last

JUSTWISE NA WAH FOR U O!!!!

Not a wise idea at all!

justwise:

Thats good news to ur friend, tell him to keep quiet, meaning he can always get frequent congo, while the secret last

Quite Hmmm
no no , you know what that will cause in the future

dabriggs:





JUSTWISE NA WAH FOR U O!!!!

Not a wise idea at all!

please tell him

whao,don't even know what to say
How come she neva knew the guy's family before,any it really doesn't matter she can still get married but i think it's better she tell the guy she about to get married to herself.

dabriggs:





JUSTWISE NA WAH FOR U O!!!!

Not a wise idea at all!

Think about it, for the girl to keep quiet even when she knew that these pple are related means she is bad herself. She should have told her new bf what is going on, that will break the ice.Keeping quiet means she is looking for dirty b/z

Bim4u:

whao,don't even know what to say
How come she neva knew the guy's family before,any it really doesn't matter she can still get married but i think it's better she tell the guy she about to get married to herself.

as i msaid that both of them base in city, she have not been in her Ex village,
Pleas what do you mean by the girl to tell the guy that she is getting marry to her self

justwise:

Think about it, for the girl to keep quiet even when she knew that these pple are related means she is bad herself. She should have told her new bf what is going on, that will break the ice.Keeping quiet means she is looking for dirty b/z

i guss the girl is confused, she dont know what to do, is like she dont want miss the opportunity of this marriage.

scantee:

i guss the girl is confused, she dont know what to do, is like she dont want miss the opportunity of this marriage.

I get ur point but keeping the secret will make it even worst, its better to clear the air now and start with clean slate.

iice:

How come she didnt know he was her ex's older brother?

And all these secrets especially between family (or soon to be family) is just

is better the her ex-reveal the secret to his elder by himself

scantee:

i guss the girl is confused, she dont know what to do, is like she dont want miss the opportunity of this marriage.

is true, but what of is the music change? that may be the fear of the young girl

You'd expect her to tell the guy she's dating that she dated his younger bro, but whether or not she talks, the younger bro needs to inform his elder bro ASAP. He has the right to know what he's getting into, its up to him to continue or retreat but he should know.

whitelexi:

You'd expect her to tell the guy she's dating that she dated his younger bro, but whether or not she talks, the younger bro needs to inform his elder bro ASAP. He has the right to know what he's getting into, its up to him to continue or retreat but he should know.

They both have the duty to review it, not just the guy

Your tenses sweet oh!
Anyways, i enjoyed ur story, but tel ur guy to talk to his brother about his past affair wit his (brother) potential wife, cos if dat gal can keep such kinda record to herself, then she's a slot.

@Poster,
I have a feeling it's you so I'll advise you(like some others have done) to tell your brother immediately.

I don't understand why people tend to make their lives harder than it is. your friend should tell his brother or better yet, let the girl in question tell his fiance. It will be much worst if the big borther hears about this after the wedding.

slimfine:

I don't understand why people tend to make their lives harder than it is. your friend should tell his brother or better yet, let the girl in question tell his fiance. It will be much worst if the big borther hears about this after the wedding.

Hmm (your right)

Hollysmile:

Your tenses sweet oh!
Anyways, i enjoyed ur story, but tel ur guy to talk to his brother about his past affair wit his (brother) potential wife, cos if dat gal can keep such kinda record to herself, then she's a slot.

what do u mean by your tenses sweet.
any way thanks for your advice.

IFELEKE:

@Poster,
I have a feeling it's you so I'll advise you(like some others have done) to tell your brother immediately.

lol
no be me abeg oh
well i will tell my guy to tell his bros oh.

whitelexi:

You'd expect her to tell the guy she's dating that she dated his younger bro, but whether or not she talks, the younger bro needs to inform his elder bro ASAP. He has the right to know what he's getting into, its up to him to continue or retreat but he should know.

Nice talk

its his responsibiity to tell his bro,
whatever the bor decides after that, is entirely up to him.

izeek:

its his responsibiity to tell his bro,
whatever the bor decides after that, is entirely up to him.

couldnt agree more!

they should discuss it and tell the elder bro together - he has a right to make an INFORMED decison on the woman he is about to comit the rest of his life to - he needs to know and decide whether he can deal with it or not.

it also depends on what kinda r/ship the girl had with the younger brother - was it sexual? was it intimate? or was it just courtship - that will help decide the way in which the older brother behaves.

i'm sure if things were reveresed the girl would want to know if it were her sister - so why keep it from him?

luxoire:

they should discuss it and tell the elder bro together - he has a right to make an INFORMED decison on the woman he is about to comit the rest of his life to - he needs to know and decide whether he can deal with it or not.

it also depends on what kinda r/ship the girl had with the younger brother - was it sexual? was it intimate? or was it just courtship - that will help decide the way in which the older brother behaves.

i'm sure if things were reveresed the girl would want to know if it were her sister - so why keep it from him?

their friendship was so intimate, they had all things together, nothing left.

then the older brother needs to know from BOTH of them

luxoire:

then the older brother needs to know from BOTH of them

SECONDED!!!!. . . Ah. . .werin cum b d big ISH dere?

without proper disclosure, the marriage is a disaster-in-the-waiting

come to think of the possible scenarios;
the younger brother has been 'there' before and would want to be there again
elder brother may get to know accidentally. it doesnt giv a good feeling.

there is no point hoarding such information just as there is no basis arguing that the marriage should not take place