This is what I like to call the
value chain. This is your overall
strategy to get your ex girlfriend
back. The number 2 part after
the no contact rule is texting and
after text messaging is phone
calls. Basically we are trying to
move from no contact rule to
text messages to phone calls.
What is the purpose of text
messaging? The purpose of text
messaging is simply to build
attraction. The second purpose is
to move from text messaging
portion to phone call portion.
Basically transitioning. Now how
do you go about doing that?
I’m going to try to keep this as
simple as possible for you. You
have two goals with text
messaging. Number one: Build
as much attraction as possible.
Number 2: transition from the
text messaging phase to the
phone call phase.
Ok so now that you have a firm
grasp on the goal of text
messaging. I’d like to talk about
the ideal conversation you’d like
to have with her. In a perfect
world, what would a conversation
look like if things are working.
Let’s pretend that I’m your ex
girlfriend and I’m going to text
message you. “Oh Hi Baby.”
“Ugghhh, god that scared the
crap out me.”
Anyways the ideal texting
conversation with your ex
girlfriend is relatively simple.
Here is a few of the guidelines I
want you to follow. There should
be a 50/50 split on who should
starts the conversation. You
should start the conversation
one day and then she should
another day. Your a man so
theres this idea that women
have that you have to initiate
things. And that’s ok. I’m going
to allow you some leniency here.
It’s kind of impossible 100% of
the time to have an exact 50/50
split. But get as close as you can
to it.

The second guideline I want you
to follow is the fact that you need
to be ending the conversations
first. Now my recommendation
is not to just end conversations
whenever you want. Try to find
the high point of that
conversation. The point in the
conversation where you think in
your mind, wow I don’t want this
to end. Well the second you
think that thought, it’s pretty
much the high point of the
conversation where you end the
conversation.
And finally the third guideline
that you need to follow is build
attraction. Build as much
attraction as possible. But don’t
do it all at once. Take your time
with it. Slow and steady wins the
race. Tortoise and the hare.
Alright I’ve never tried
something like this before. And
now I’m going to give it a shot.
And now we’ve reached the
moment you’ve all been waiting
for. The 3 secret text messages
you can send to your ex
girlfriend to drive her crazy.
Yeaaaah.
Dude Flames that was lame.
Hey don’t judge.
Alright we’ve reached the
moment where we will be talking
about the three secret text
messages that you can send to
your ex girlfriend.
But really the three text
messages fall into three phases
of text messaging. Basically with
one phase you get first secret
text message, with the second
text message you get the second
secret text message, and finally
as I’m sure you know with the
third phase you will get the third
secret text message.

TO BE CONTINUED

Phase Two: Attraction
building Phase
We’re talking about the
attraction phase here so lets just
get right to it. The name of the
game is to build attraction with
your ex through text messages.
So how do you do that? Well the
first part is to emphasize the
positive parts of your previous
relationship. And anything
negative you do not want to talk
about. Anything positive you do.
The only kind of advice I’m going
to give you here is to not bring
sex into it. Just keep it PG13.
Now building attraction there’s a
lot of ways to do it but I’m just
going to give you my favorite
way and I like to call this the
story telling method. Have you
every noticed when someone
tells an amazing story it just
draws you in? Think of your
favorite TV shows, Game Of
Thrones for example. Have you
ever noticed when something
shocking happens or your really
into the story you cannot wait to
see the next episode. Binge
watching on Netflix is really
popular for this. The idea behind
Netflix releasing every single
episode at once like House of
Cards or any of the other original
series is that viewers like to
binge watch. When they really
get into a show they watch one
episode after the other after the
other.
Well, I want you to do something
similar with your ex. I want you
to build attraction like that. Treat
every interaction that you have
with him through text messages
like a TV show.
End on a good note…
End on a cliffhanger…
Leave open loops…
Do everything you can to be
mysterious or make her want
more. That’s the name of the
game. So I am going to teach
you a text message right now
that can accomplish this.
I want you to take a minute to
look at the text message
right here. ( The craziest thing happened to me. my friend and his girl friend played the prank of the century on me. They were on my vacation and I lent my camera to them. well, when he got back and give it to me, curiosity got the better of me and.....) Then add (you are still with me?) This is a perfect
example of something I like to
call a funny text message.
Basically the premise of this text
message, even though it may
not look like it right here, is to be
funny.
But it’s going to tell a story
through multiple texts and you
will notice that I started the text
here with an imaginary girl and
the story is not over yet. You’ll
notice that in the middle of the
story I sent a text message that
said,
“Hey are you still with me?”
This is what I like to call the
check in text message. One of
the big problems of telling a
story though text is that you can
kind of lose the girl if she is not
really engaged.
So this check in text message,
sort of saying,
“Hey are you still with me?”
Is check to see if she’s still
listening or to keep her engaged.
So the story goes that I had a
friend and his girlfriend and him
tricked me into thinking they
were doing it when they really
weren’t. That story may not be
complete in there because I
didn’t have enough room but the
idea here is to continue the
story.
Build attraction through this.
Interest her.
Interest = Attraction
Always remember that.
To Be Continued.....

Phase Three: Transition Text
There are a ton of positive
aspects about text messaging
but there are also some limiting
aspects. For example, attraction
can only be built so far via text
messages. Which is why I
recommend that eventually you
will have to move from text
messages to phone calls.
So when that inevitable time
comes how do you do it?
Well that’s when I like to use the
transition text message which
just so happens to be our third
secret text message!
This is a really easy text
message to grasp.
Basically you are going to tell a
story so interesting that it has to
be finished over the phone and
much like the story method that
I was teaching you in the
previous phase, the attraction
phase, you want to build a story
that is so interesting that she will
have no choice but to finish it on
the phone.
So you need to understand her
interests.
What does she like?
What are some of the things that
she will love to talk about?
For my wife it would be hot air
balloons and Paris.
So lets pretend that I’m talking
to my wife and I sent her this
text message,
Notice how hot air balloons and
Paris are mentioned in it. And
then also notice how I stopped
midway through telling the story
and said,
Hey, do you want to finish this
over the phone?
This is an ideal text message to
send because it acts as a test to
see if your ex girlfriend is ready
to transition to the next phase of
attraction building, phone calls
or if she’s just comfortable
texting.
In that case you still have more
attraction to build.
And that’s it… That is the
transition text message