tpiar:
3 posts since you registered on November 7 2012.

what's your regular id.

cococandy:
Should you be worried?
Yes please.
So Nip it in the bud now. Confront her about it.
From feelings it will enter physical.

drewxx88:
whattt are you saying lady she practically invited him to make moves on her despite the fact that she is married you should rather scold the woman for even contacting an ex that she obviously has amorous feelings for... BTW happy new year

ZeeBab:
This is the text my wife sent to her ex;

Hey, seeing u 2day gave me immeasurable joy. I was overwelmed with emotions n I fought tears as soon as I set my eyes on u. What really happened dt we cudnt fix? Am very happy in my marriage n am sure u r happy in urs too. Yet, I really can't 4get d genuine love u had for me.That love dt made u keep ur hands off me. Am very proud of u my Special sweetheart. Dts y i simply can't 4get u. U r indeed special to me.

Bisjosh:
Op just calm down

We all(male and female) always will remember that special someone. Doesn't mean she would cheat on u


Do u also always tell her about everyone u meet?

kweenkong:
You should talk to her. She regrets a lost love.
Ask the details of the meeting not to quarrel but to work towards your marriage. Tell her the dangers of the ex, reassure her of your love. But let her if she messes up she is gone.

She met up with an ex who never had sex with her but it resurrected old feelings. Let her know the guy might not feel the same and she should think if she is willing to end her marriage for that.

Part of your duties as a husband and leader of your home is guidance. God is ur strength.

ZeeBab:
This is the text my wife sent to her ex;

Hey, seeing u 2day gave me immeasurable joy. I was overwelmed with emotions n I fought tears as soon as I set my eyes on u. What really happened dt we cudnt fix? Am very happy in my marriage n am sure u r happy in urs too. Yet, I really can't 4get d genuine love u had for me.That love dt made u keep ur hands off me. Am very proud of u my Special sweetheart. Dts y i simply can't 4get u. U r indeed special to me.

saintvc:
There is love in sharing..

Share her with ex

Moana:


Maybe there are things you neglect to do in your marriage. Find out what it is thats missing and fix that. All these exes she wont even remember their names after this sef.

ZeeBab:
This is the text my wife sent to her ex;

Hey, seeing u 2day gave me immeasurable joy. I was overwelmed with emotions n I fought tears as soon as I set my eyes on u. What really happened dt we cudnt fix? Am very happy in my marriage n am sure u r happy in urs too. Yet, I really can't 4get d genuine love u had for me.That love dt made u keep ur hands off me. Am very proud of u my Special sweetheart. Dts y i simply can't 4get u. U r indeed special to me.

shineeye1:
Strictly speaking, marriage is a "temporal" contract. Every woman has a full life , independent of that husband, before and after marriage. Marriage is till death. After death, the man has no say in her life. Some men men behave as though the wife is their eternal property. As a man, you have a golden opportunity to treat a fellow human right while the "contract" lasts. That saintly ex of the wife is deserving of all the emotion that woman has for him. The best way for the husband to deal with that is match the quality or even exceed it. Not resort to envy and insecurity. Thanks to God, the wife is even a committed faithful woman.

Alezy:
And what will it change??

Yieldings:
This is one of the reasons why people need to deal with unfinished business before getting married. If you're still harbouring feelings for an ex, before you get married get rid of them or come to the realization that the r/ship is over, and accept it. She needs to give herself closure and it starts by cutting off the communication with him. You don't need the other party's input before you can get closure. No married woman or man should be texting or calling their ex, especially if it's to talk about your r/ship with them, what happened, what didn't happen, etc. Don't look back unless you want to go back there.

sukkot:
some PIPO may not be verbatim quoting the text but expanding on it for the sake of the forum. you think it will make frontpage if the post was just 10 words long ?

ALEXIS0240:
check the difference between SMS & TEXT

emorse:
Ehm, I think this is a serious something o. And it could turn out to be major if not properly handled. Don't blame your wife o. It could happen to anyone. I think its called the ex factor.

If I were in your shoes, I'd become friends with the guy. As the saying goes, keep your friends close but your "enemies" closer. You know, family friends things. Him, his wife and kids - me , my wife and kids. That way, guilt and fear will inhibit the growth of such feelings. This will only work if you're not the jealous type though.

theyrynsolar:

I have...

Vikky014:
God bless you mydear.... i dnt know y some people find it hard to move on with their life..SMH