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She Wants To Come Back by Nobody: 5:26pm On Jun 14, 2009 |
We dated for 2years and had a beautiful relationship. One day she calls me and tells me she just wants to be free and wants a break up. She said i'm perfect and the best guy she ever had but she just needed to be alone. I asked her severally if i did something wrong and she said no. This was 3 years ago and i've since moved on. Although, we keep in touch at least a call once a month. It was just casual conversation, she tells me of her new BF and all that. Last month she called and said she misses me. I laughed over it. She started calling daily and tells me she wants us to get back. I'm refusing because i gave a 100 percent in the relationship. She has cried, appealed, sent emissaries, but i just can't go back because she betrayed me then by leaving me without me doing something wrong. How do i tell her in strong terms that it won't happen. I've tried saying it bluntly but she won't listen. Now she is even claiming she won't mind being my second Gf cos she knows i'm dating someone. She says she'll be the second fiddle. I still have feelings for her, but my ego wouldn't let me go back. What do i do? |
Re: She Wants To Come Back by cleric(m): 5:56pm On Jun 14, 2009 |
Ode, u be goat? Why do you wanna chew cod? A true man don't go back to what he has vomited, move on my friend, what another man didn't want is what she is bringing back for you to eat, neways,, na ur life , do as u wish |
Re: She Wants To Come Back by Nobody: 6:06pm On Jun 14, 2009 |
Why the insults? I said how do i tell her off? Or do I keep her as GF #2? |
Re: She Wants To Come Back by SisiJinx: 6:29pm On Jun 14, 2009 |
DON"T EVEN THINK ABOUT IT!!!! What are you. . . her puppet? She pulls the strings and you follow? What happens when she wants to be free again? Nothing wrong with being friends but let her understand you've moved on from that relationship. . . except of course you haven't and you like the wooden strings attached to your back. |
Re: She Wants To Come Back by SisiJinx: 6:37pm On Jun 14, 2009 |
Re: She Wants To Come Back by Nobody: 6:46pm On Jun 14, 2009 |
think very hard . . . perhaps she grew up in the time you both were apart. If you still have feelings for her i'd say give her a chance. |
Re: She Wants To Come Back by Secretz(f): 7:05pm On Jun 14, 2009 |
davidylan: Not whilst he still has a girlfriend he shouldn't. . . . . . Continue with your current relationship, abeg. . . . what will be will be. . . . if you and your current break up NATURALLY (not because of your ex) . . . . . then take things from there. . . . If the girl has grown up at all, she would not be asking to be your second fiddle, no woman in her right mind wants such. She has probably been jilted and knew you were good to her, so she's more than trying her luck. |
Re: She Wants To Come Back by omega25red(m): 8:01pm On Jun 14, 2009 |
i am surprised that you actually stayed friends with someone who broke you heart. I think she was just afraid that you were very good to her and she didn't want to get tied down into a commited relationship. Anyway i would just keep telling her that it's not going to happenand dont even consider dating her or placing her 2nd because you will be setting your self up. if worse comes to worse you might have to forgo your friendship with her because if she knows you are with someone and still insists on being with you regardless, you never can tell what she wouldn't do to get her way |
Re: She Wants To Come Back by Lexiwhite(m): 8:10pm On Jun 14, 2009 |
@Topic: Typical naija girl for u |
Re: She Wants To Come Back by Desire2(f): 8:28pm On Jun 14, 2009 |
All of that is the past. Have some respect for your current relationship and put all your focus on what you already got. |
Re: She Wants To Come Back by TOPE20001(f): 8:33pm On Jun 14, 2009 |
Dnt take her back, stay n be happy wit ur new gf jare. |
Re: She Wants To Come Back by Nobody: 8:36pm On Jun 14, 2009 |
if you love her give her a chance dude. All these "dont take her back" why? Anyone can make mistakes . . . and she at least made sure she kept in touch for 3 yrs. |
Re: She Wants To Come Back by Desire2(f): 8:41pm On Jun 14, 2009 |
davidylan: He has a girlfriend now. He wants to either let her go or let her be girlfriend #2. |
Re: She Wants To Come Back by TOPE20001(f): 8:42pm On Jun 14, 2009 |
davidylan:Davie the guy is in a new relationship, shud he dump his new gf 4 his ex? She had him n lost him, its her loss |
Re: She Wants To Come Back by Desire2(f): 8:43pm On Jun 14, 2009 |
TOPE2000!: Precisely. |
Re: She Wants To Come Back by Nobody: 8:45pm On Jun 14, 2009 |
TOPE2000!: you have a point. Was thinking he was single. |
Re: She Wants To Come Back by TOPE20001(f): 8:47pm On Jun 14, 2009 |
Desiré:Are u minding david, bet if the poster was a woman his response wud hav been different. |
Re: She Wants To Come Back by Desire2(f): 8:48pm On Jun 14, 2009 |
TOPE2000!: lol |
Re: She Wants To Come Back by Nobody: 8:51pm On Jun 14, 2009 |
TOPE2000!: |
Re: She Wants To Come Back by Nobody: 9:23pm On Jun 14, 2009 |
Thanks people. I still care about her though. Anyway, how do i tell her off in a way that she'd listen. I'm not giving her hope of a comeback, yet she has the feeling we might get back someday. What other way can i say NO |
Re: She Wants To Come Back by C2H5OH(f): 9:25pm On Jun 14, 2009 |
Whatever you do, do not take her ass back! |
Re: She Wants To Come Back by TOPE20001(f): 9:49pm On Jun 14, 2009 |
Gaggi:Kindly sit her down and tell her wateva u guys might have had is over, she shud move on. I admire 4 even being friends wit her n not even not wanting to hurt her feelings. |
Re: She Wants To Come Back by edogram(m): 10:40pm On Jun 14, 2009 |
omega25red:the truth of it all |
Re: She Wants To Come Back by C2H5OH(f): 12:54am On Jun 15, 2009 |
Secretz: omega25red:solid advice . |
Re: She Wants To Come Back by ThoniaSlim(f): 2:36am On Jun 15, 2009 |
I would say, Move on with your life! |
Re: She Wants To Come Back by sexylogan(m): 6:33pm On Jun 15, 2009 |
guy, forget her. she didnt love u enough to stay then and now the old feelings u hav for her are confusing u. u hav to realize that u r a man and not a toy for her to play with as she pleases. she had her chance before and she blew it. |
Re: She Wants To Come Back by DDMoses(m): 7:03pm On Jun 15, 2009 |
guy na yu get your life, if you still love her, why not give her second chance, afterall a well known devil is better than a day angel, that shows she cant continue with the guy, she has realized her mistake, give her the second chance and let hr proof herself. |
Re: She Wants To Come Back by C2H5OH(f): 7:47pm On Jun 15, 2009 |
DDMoses:Disagrees: dumbest logic ever. You are advising the dude to settle for second fiddle, while excusing the girl for testing the waters. |
Re: She Wants To Come Back by Hollysmile: 8:07pm On Jun 15, 2009 |
Tell her to wait till ur current gal says she needs a break too. Lol. 4get dat bitch, bros. Let her die in d emotional pains she caused herself, jor! |
Re: She Wants To Come Back by C2H5OH(f): 8:19pm On Jun 15, 2009 |
Hollysmile:That's the spirit of the alpha male |
Re: She Wants To Come Back by 190: 1:15am On Jun 16, 2009 |
dey there dey ask yeye questions grab her ass as the 2nd GF she don chop elsewhere e don purge am nw shes bak but pls tell her she shudnt try beatin ur # 1 ok! |
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