midassultan:
Seconded. Great points op, great points

HateU2:
I wish they will just see beyond the body size and beauty. I'm not saying they should not have sm1 they imagine to spend the rest of their life with but when looking for that they should imagine how the girl will look like in some years to come. Giving birth and old age changes everything.

Suigeneris93:



Thanks dear

Decker:
Let's face it. The physical features of a woman is what men see first. That's what attracts men to women. It's how a woman looks that will make a man want to get to know her before he starts noticing other things about her.

It's the man's perception and assessment of their looks that he first uses in judging her at the first instance. So looks really matter.

But what's essential is that over the course of their time together, and getting to know each other, he should begin look beyond all the physical superficiality.

osaslord500:
Only ugly people create treads like this! !!

HateU2:
I wish they will just see beyond the body size and beauty. I'm not saying they should not have sm1 they imagine to spend the rest of their life with but when looking for that they should imagine how the girl will look like in some years to come. Giving birth and old age changes everything.

Suigeneris93:



On the contrary, only people who know looks are overrated over personality create threads like this. I love my body and how I look, you should too

Suigeneris93:



Yea but let's face it, men have made awful decisions about a woman's worth based on artificiality

Decker:


We all make mistakes everyday. It's in our nature as humans. But that doesn't mean we don't make good choices.

Physical attraction is what's primary. You'd have to be first attracted to someone before you want to get close to her. Men have different tastes in women. So there is first an overall assessment of her physical features and it's the end result of that assessment tells him if she is his type or not. And more often than not, men are always right in their assessment.

Their are two types of worth. There is the material and outward worth, and there is the immaterial or inward worth. The outward worth is the physical beauty. The body, the face, the hair, the dressing. The inward worth is her good character, how intelligent she is, how wise she is, her sense of humor, her kind heart, her resilience, her optimistic personality and all that.

But more often than not, every woman is first accessed on her outward worth, then if she meets the proposed criteria, depending on who is accessing her, then will she be judged on her inward worth.

Let me paint this picture. Her physical attributes can be likened to a door that leads to people to "her worth" the one you are talking about. But that door has to look presentable and attractive first, to be able to convince any one who contemplates passing through it that there is something worth seeing at the other side.

STFUareyouGod:
Beautiful.

But the fact is, what attracts a man to a lady in the first place is her physical look. Maybe thereafter, he might look beyond the looks. But it's just natural and normal to be captivated by looks

osaslord500:


Leave trash for lawma

I no fit date ugly girl simple, and many pretty girls are also plated with good characters!

Ray360:
The first features that strike you as a man in a woman are the shapes, curves, genitals and other body endowments. That's normal and shouldn't be denied. The attraction and judgement now lies by the gavel of the man which is a function of maturity, psychologically and intellectually. A man should be more concerned about the elastic qualities in a woman which are sacrosanct in the sustainance of a relationship with her. these qualities are her personality, intelligence, morals, ethics, culinary skills, how loving e.t.c
Also, There is a difference between a girl and a woman. A prime woman Knows all these.


BTW, you have a nice diction. OP.

shegxi:
same way guys want ladies to look beyond wat they have in dere pocket but at dere vision........
My point is dis generation onli know how to major on d minors....it takes wisdom to be able to discern wat is truly important.

osaslord500:
Only ugly people create treads like this! !!

HateU2:
I wish they will just see beyond the body size and beauty. I'm not saying they should not have sm1 they imagine to spend the rest of their life with but when looking for that they should imagine how the girl will look like in some years to come. Giving birth and old age changes everything.

donholy28:
Kill me if u want!...but a woman that walks round d street in scanty revealing outfit is an ashawo whether she like it or not

Decker:


We all make mistakes everyday. It's in our nature as humans. But that doesn't mean we don't make good choices.

Physical attraction is what's primary. You'd have to be first attracted to someone before you want to get close to her. Men have different tastes in women. So there is first an overall assessment of her physical features and it's the end result of that assessment tells him if she is his type or not. And more often than not, men are always right in their assessment.

Their are two types of worth. There is the material and outward worth, and there is the immaterial or inward worth. The outward worth is the physical beauty. The body, the face, the hair, the dressing. The inward worth is her good character, how intelligent she is, how wise she is, her sense of humor, her kind heart, her resilience, her optimistic personality and all that.

But more often than not, every woman is first accessed on her outward worth, then if she meets the proposed criteria, depending on who is accessing her, then will she be judged on her inward worth.

Let me paint this picture. Her physical attributes can be likened to a door that leads to people to "her worth" the one you are talking about. But that door has to look presentable and attractive first, to be able to convince any one who contemplates passing through it that there is something worth seeing at the other side.

HateU2:
My brother, if we keep preaching it, those who will hear will hear.

Suigeneris93:




Sure

Decker:
Let's face it. The physical features of a woman is what men see first. That's what attracts men to women. It's how a woman looks that will make a man want to get to know her before he starts noticing other things about her.

It's the man's perception and assessment of their looks that he first uses in judging her at the first instance. So looks really matter.

But what's essential is that over the course of their time together, and getting to know each other, he should begin look beyond all the physical superficiality.

kirchofff:
but if looks or appearance doesn't matter y have u girls refused to marry paw paw ?

Suigeneris93:



On the contrary, only people who know looks are overrated over personality create threads like this. I love my body and how I look, you should too