People have different meaning to being romantic and we thing all falls to same result at the other partners end– meaning if you are unromantic then you are not! no matter which way you take or view it.

People do a whole lot of unromantic things and they don’t have a clue about it. Being romantic might mean different things to different people as we said but being romantic just entails being affectionate at the right time. Being “unromantic shows that you don’t care” and billions of woman agree to that point.

People think that the feminine gender is the most romantic but I really doubt that; most guys tend to hide that romantic nature in them. Being romantic would do a whole lot of good to your relationship as a man because woman are a lot free and always show those romantic moves.

Men will always be tagged as been UNROMANTIC when they do this 8 things below .. check yourself!!

1. FORGETTING HER BIRTHDAY
A lady’s birthday is as important as her handbag, that’s if you know what that means. Most guys don’t remember their lady’s birthday and it’s normal but that doesn’t make it romantic. To a lady, there is no excuse for forgetting her birthday. Even if you can’t send a gift across, a simple call would make her happy at least.

A simple message of “happy birthday dear” is way better than “oh, sorry dear, I forgot.” Women take things too serious; forgetting her birthday is more like you don’t have her in mind. Let me give you a simple trick and tips; I never forget a lady’s birthday, not that I always remember but I always set it on my phone’s reminder. Ordinarily, I won’t remember but since I’m tired of hearing the usual “so you forgot my birthday”, I became wise. I think you should employ that if you want a healthy relationship.

2. SHOUTING AT HER WHEN WITH FRIENDS
Shouting at a lady is never romantic but doing that when she’s with friends or when you are with your friends is even worse. But guys can be so ill-mannered at times; they always want to stamp their authority especially in public, forgetting that they are degrading the lady. A guy that shouts at his lady especially in public needs to have a full home lecture on what it means to be romantic.

3. ALWAYS ASKING HER WHAT TO GET AS A GIFT
You need to know what she would like; always asking what gifts to buy for her isn’t really romantic. If anything, it kills the vibe in that relationship; you kill every hope of expectancy, it clearly shows that you’re the keep-it-safe kinda guy and trust me when I say such things won’t take you anywhere. Surprise that lady. Make that love last; don’t ever kill that adventurous spirit in you. Don’t be a boring guy, I beg you.

4. DON’T MEDDLE IN GIRLS TALK
Where I am from, any guy that consistently does this is called a woman-wrapper and it shows a kind of weakness on the part of that man. Always wanting to be with your lady isn’t a bad thing but when she’s with friends, it’s best to give that boundary.

Following them in a gist once in a while isn’t bad but when you are always with them, it is never romantic. Some guys see it as being romantic but trust me when I say you would lose your shine. Always know when to keep your distance.

5. ANNIVERSARY DATE
If you are married, then this is one date you shouldn’t forget. Anniversaries are really special to women; almost more special than her birthday. To her, it signifies the day she got married to the love of her life.

So imagine if you forget about it, she would take it like you don’t value the marriage. Women have their own way of thinking and we have to respect it. Save that date on your mobile; and you just might be the most romantic man ever; to her.

6. IF YOU ALWAYS BUY THE SAME GIFTS
Buying same kind of gifts would only show that you are clueless and that isn’t a good thing. I must admit, knowing the kind of gifts to buy for a lady is a daunting task but a man that’s romantic wouldn’t have a problem in buying a gift that would suit the occasion. You really need to know the kind of gifts to suit the kind of lady you are dating. Don’t be a boring guy.

7. THE MUSIC YOU PLAY
You have every right to listen to the kind of music you love when you are alone but that only ends when you are alone. When you have a lady visiting or you guys are in the car you need to play the kind of music that would suit that vibe at the moment.

Playing only the kind of songs would only reveal your selfish side and that’s never a good thing. It only shows you lack every idea of what being romantic entails.

8. ASKING “WHO IS THAT GUY?”
Being jealous isn’t a crime but you really need to cut down on it. When you constantly suspect that she’s hooking up with every guy it shows that you don’t trust her and you also don’t trust your ability to keep her.

You really need to show that you’re confident. Lack of confidence isn’t a sign of a romantic guy.
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so if I have a really lame taste for music does it mean I'll be unromantic?

so if I am jealous because I see my boo side talking with another I can't ask her who she was talking with because it Will make me unromantic



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I strongly disagree with no. 8.

You can be d jealous type and still be romantic.
Jealousy has got more to do with trust issues.

I disagree with no. 1 and 5
I dey forget my papa bday steady, best friends too.
Who is she?

I no understand wetin una dey talk oo!! Wetin concern me. U talking about all this romantic stuff but no 7 is a lie. No 7 is for security

just bone that birthday stuff
I dey forget my own birthday sometimes sef

kilokeys:
I disagree with no. 1 and 5
I dey forget my papa bday steady, best friends too.
Who is she?

LWKM she's your woman!

IamLEGEND1:
just bone that birthday stuff

I dey forget my own birthday sometimes sef

Lol. Some go begin remind you dis January say their bday na in the next couple of months o!

Ikaa obi, chefuzia the date!!

discoprophet:


LWKM she's your woman!

My everything shey?

Including calender.. So make she remind me abeg

Hmmmm Be nice KiloKeys

kilokeys:
I disagree with no. 1 and 5

I dey forget my papa bday steady, best friends too.

Who is she?

This is the point here "Playing only the kind of songs would only reveal your selfish side and that’s never a good thing. It only shows you lack every idea of what being romantic entails. #

nerdfrost:
I no understand wetin una dey talk oo!! Wetin concern me. U talking about all this romantic stuff but no 7 is a lie. No 7 is for security

I totally agree with all you have listed!!!

CassaBooBoo:
I totally agree with all you have listed!!!

Number 8 is a No No. A guy who truly cares about you will obviously show some atom of jealousy weather consciously or not

Medunah:
I strongly disagree with no. 8.

You can be d jealous type and still be romantic.
Jealousy has got more to do with trust issues.

Nobody is saying you shouldn't be jealous!!! Jealousy is normal...the only thing is, it shouldn't take the better part of the relationship!!! we just need to cut down on it, so we don't loose our boos'. I'm a jealous lover...But I have learnt over time not to show it too often...instead show trust and confidence...and if you can't take it any longer...sit down and talk!!! that's where communication sets in.

I'm sorry for Quoting you if only you find it offensive ...Just felt I should say something abt your comment!! Happy New Year!!!

themejiwalker:


Number 8 is a No No. A guy who truly cares about you will obviously show some atom of jealousy weather consciously or not

Jealousy is normal...He / She will show it!!!In short, My Man has to show it small ooo, for me to know he cares kinda!!! but it should be tamed...so it won't turn to something else..thats all...

shezzyj:
This is the point here "Playing only the kind of songs would only reveal your selfish side and that’s never a good thing. It only shows you lack every idea of what being romantic entails. #

. Man abeg,being romantic's list of my problems ryt now. I gat paper on my mind ryt now

kilokeys:
I disagree with no. 1 and 5

I dey forget my papa bday steady, best friends too.

Who is she?

Your dad's birthday? You need help!!

PinkBarbie:
Your dad's birthday? You need help!!

My sis marks hers on the 25th of Dec, mine is on the 26th of Dec.

So I guess that's why I can't associate a regular working day with anybody's bday.

No b my fault. Like right now.. How I go take ask my babe again o.. She has told me for the umpteenth time. I might need to do body tattoos to that effect, Scofield 's style

CassaBooBoo:


Nobody is saying you shouldn't be jealous!!! Jealousy is normal...the only thing is, it shouldn't take the better part of the relationship!!! we just need to cut down on it, so we don't loose our boos'. I'm a jealous lover...But I have learnt over time not to show it too often...instead show trust and confidence...and if you can't take it any longer...sit down and talk!!! that's where communication sets in.

I'm sorry for Quoting you if only you find it offensive ...Just felt I should say something abt your comment!! Happy New Year!!!

I really don't understand what your post as to do with mine. I never said you should be a jealous lover or not. The point I was tryna Make is

''A jealous guy doesn't necessarily equate to an unromantic guy. Meaning a guy who is jealous can be romantic''. Or av u not seen guys who will get jealous over any little iish but still av this intimate romantic relationship with their partner?.

And don't get me wrong, am not saying jealous guys are romantic, am only saying we have jealous guys who are romantic.

But then again, I still don't get the connection btw ur post and mine.

Happy New Year to you too!!

kilokeys:

My sis marks hers on the 25th of Dec, mine is on the 26th of Dec.

So I guess that's why I can't associate a regular working day with anybody's bday.

No b my fault. Like right now.. How I go take ask my babe again o.. She has told me for the umpteenth time. I might need to do body tattoos to that effect, Scofield 's style

I think you're just been careless with the dates. It's not so hard to remember if you really want to.

Babe.. Sup.. Can I pm U?

Medunah:

I really don't understand what your post as to do with mine. I never said you should be a jealous lover or not. The point I was tryna Make is

''A jealous guy doesn't necessarily equate to an unromantic guy. Meaning a guy who is jealous can be romantic''. Or av u not seen guys who will get jealous over any little iish but still av this intimate romantic relationship with their partner?.

And don't get me wrong, am not saying jealous guys are romantic, am only saying we have jealous guys who are romantic.

But then again, I still don't get the connection btw ur post and mine.

Happy New Year to you too!!