i rily dont get why some women feel that having a man in their lives is a must if they wanna be happy. Take for example,there's this woman i knw. She's a friend. She'd been engaged to a guy for bout 6 months. Two months to their wedding,she found out that he'd impregnated two women. Now it's all well and good to play the field,but when you've made a commitment to someone,to something as serious as marriage,everything's changed. Now when she found out,she broke up with him(thank God for small mercies!). Instead of her to thank her stars that she'd found out the kind of devious,conniving S.o.b he was b4 she married the idiot,she's busy mooning over the guy,worrying herself sick because no other guys are coming,and wondering whether she should take him back. Must you women have a man in your life? Is your happiness,your entire self-worth dependent on some guy? I just dont get how many women subject themselves to all kinds of emotional abuse just because they want a man. Their desperation makes it so much more easier for us to be jerks,and when we act like the jerks they've encouraged us to be,these desperate women wil be the first to say we're wicked. Then because we're used to being jerks(because they let us),we end up risking ppl we care about. It's amazing how much of a jerk you can be just outta habit.

Ladies,must You Have A Man In Your Life For You To Be Happy?
Ehn Oh=No!!
You can find happiness in Yourself. . . .The right man would make things more tranquil.

nope!!

@Topic: Ladies,must You Have A Man In Your Life For You To Be Happy?

Did u really expect them to say Yes?

When everything they live for is affected by a man or the other, how else will it not affect their happiness? Give me any scenario and i will give u a potential picture so u see how a female's life is affected by a man or the other.

Don't need a man to be happy.

@Topic - you don't need a man to be happy - but you need a man to be HAPPIER - why because they give you that sense of Completion - that sense of you are not alone, that sense of togetherness. God made man and woman to live together and no matter how hard that may be to accept - you don't need another human being to make you happy - but they would take your happiness to another whole level

this works for men and women

luxoire:

@Topic - you don't need a man to be happy - but you need a man to be HAPPIER - why because they give you that sense of Completion - that sense of you are not alone, that sense of togetherness. God made man and woman to live together and no matter how hard that may be to accept - you don't need another human being to make you happy - but they would take your happiness to another whole level

this works for men and women

Promise, not to mention any man's name, or the word man. Do not gossip with friends or relatives today about any man, do not see any movie concerning a man, do not admire any man in fiction or reality, flush all men out of your inner thoughts and your dreams when u sleep. Do not accept any form of help or assistance offered by a man, dont even think nasty thought of any man today.

Tell me u can be happy today even for an hour with that

_{off to lunch}

whitelexi:

Promise, not to mention any man's name, or the word man. Do not gossip with friends or relatives today about any man, do not see any movie concerning a man, do not admire any man in fiction or reality, flush all men out of your inner thoughts and your dreams when u sleep. Do not accept any form of help or assistance offered by a man, dont even think nasty thought of any man today.

Tell me u can be happy today even for an hour with that

_{off to lunch}

The topic says man in your life, I'm guessing relationship wise, does not necessarily mean that you block out everything concerning the male species

luxoire:

@Topic - you don't need a man to be happy - but you need a man to be HAPPIER - why because they give you that sense of Completion - that sense of you are not alone, that sense of togetherness. God made man and woman to live together and no matter how hard that may be to accept - you don't need another human being to make you happy - but they would take your happiness to another whole level

[size=18pt]this works for men and women

[/size] happy art thou. u are always a breathe of fresh air on NL

JJYOU:

[/size] happy art thou. u are always a breathe of fresh air on NL

eyahh thank you huney bunny!

whitelexi:

Promise, not to mention any man's name, or the word man. Do not gossip with friends or relatives today about any man, do not see any movie concerning a man, do not admire any man in fiction or reality, flush all men out of your inner thoughts and your dreams when u sleep. Do not accept any form of help or assistance offered by a man, dont even think nasty thought of any man today.

Tell me u can be happy today even for an hour with that

_{off to lunch}

hahahah ermmm i think you'll find you cant do same with women huh? just cant keep me (worry i meant us) outta your mind

luxoire:


hahahah ermmm i think you'll find you cant do same with women huh? just cant keep me (worry i meant us) outta your mind

Dont even push your luck

luxoire:

@Topic - you don't need a man to be happy - but you need a man to be HAPPIER - why because they give you that sense of Completion - that sense of you are not alone, that sense of togetherness. God made man and woman to live together and no matter how hard that may be to accept - you don't need another human being to make you happy - but they would take your happiness to another whole level

this works for men and women

You took the words right out of my mouth.

God created woman to complete man.

We both equally love to have each other around. We both gain greater happiness from being loved romanticly by someone of the opp. sex. It is quid pro quo in full effect.

sistawoman:

You took the words right out of my mouth.

God created woman to complete man.

We both equally love to have each other around. We both gain greater happiness from being loved romanticly by someone of the opp. sex. It is quid pro quo in full effect.

Yes that is true and a lot of ppl are in denial about this - the minute the realise we exist in co-dependence of each other - the better off eveyr one will be

@whitelexi
hahhahaha - well there's a bit of cheek in everyone isnt there!

in the short run . . . . No
but in the long run . . . YES, nature and tradition demands it right

Yes & No