Am kinda of confused right nw....

Theres dis girl i was dating and i really did love her....I did things i wouldnt do 4 anoda girl...I also believe dat even if she didnt love me at least she did 'like' me cos she really had a huge impact in my lyf...

Of recent she found out sometin from my past and broke up wit me becus of it.....I hav tried to apologise to no avail....My friends hav advised me to 4get about her but i jux cant get her out of my mind......I really dont wat to do....
Mature advice needed pls..

OP, your friends were right. Forget about her!.

I think the questions are; what did you do? And how does it affect her or your relationship?

Itz kind of a lng story...

Nigerians can be funny. How can you expect us to give you matured advise without first of all giving us a tip of the ice-berg of what she suppossedly found out? Unless you were a killer, ritualist or cultist before, I dont see any reason of not sharing with the forum! Nd if you are any of the above mentioned, I dont think I have any advice for you. Only God can!

Dantee005:
Itz kind of a lng story...

We can't advice without knowing the whole story

Hope is not what am thinking that u committed abortion which u never told her

I agree wit u ...we were out 2geda 1Day...and came across a girl who i had a 1 nite stand wit wen i had nt started dating my gf...i tried to avoid d girl to avoid cussin a scene.....
Wen my gf asked me y ii was avoiding d girl...i told her d truth...and datx were problem started...

OP you are bored aren't you?

Why don't you find something more useful to do than cooking up lame stories.....

you could make up a lame story and post it in the literature section

Dantee005:
I agree wit u ...we were out 2geda 1Day...and came across a girl who i had a 1 nite stand wit wen i had nt started dating my gf...i tried to avoid d girl to avoid cussin a scene.....
Wen my gf asked me y ii was avoiding d girl...i told her d truth...and datx were problem started...

Well some people gets heartbroken when a scandalous act arises from a partner's past. And do u know if she has any connection whatsoever with the girl u had a night stand with?

It's also possible she's been looking for an excuse to breakup.

Try talking to her. If she refuses to pick ur call, go to her house. If she shuts the door on your face, contact her through her friends....Try every means to communicate and explain the situation to her.

Then let her be. If she really cares and want the relationship, she will return. But if she doesn't, it will be a known fact that u tried ur best.

All in all, take heart.

Barayeks:
OP you are bored aren't you?

Why don't you find something more useful to do than cooking up lame stories.....

you could make up a lame story and post it in the literature section

Dude its nt by force 2 comment....use u head...

Twaci:
Well some people gets heartbroken when a scandalous act arises from a partner's past. And do u know if she has any connection whatsoever with the girl u had a night stand with?

It's also possible she's been looking for an excuse to breakup.

Try talking to her. If she refuses to pick ur call, go to her house. If she shuts the door on your face, contact her through her friends....Try every means to communicate and explain the situation to her.

Then let her be. If she really cares and want the relationship, she will return. But if she doesn't, it will be a known fact that u tried ur best.

All in all, take heart.

I am very sure dat she nt connected to d girl in question...I hav tried to talk to her and all bt shes jux being stubborn...

Oma307:
Hope is not what am thinking that u committed abortion which u never told her

Of cos i didnt.....

OP call her on the phone and explain how it all happened and apologize.. if she doesn't pick then you can write to her.
But if she still will not listen to you then let her be for now. Give her some space,once she's calm I'm sure she'll come back to you that's if she loves you.

If she doesn't, forget about her.. There are many fishes in the sea.

Dantee005:
I am very sure dat she nt connected to d girl in question...I hav tried to talk to her and all bt shes jux being stubborn...

Then give her some time to cool off.

Thanks 4 d advice babes...

Do u think u can get mature advice on NL?

Dantee005:
Itz kind of a lng story...

my brother, try and move on...that's the only option.

firstking01:
my brother, try and move on...that's the only option.

It nt dat easy bro....i hav tryed...

Dantee005:
It nt dat easy bro....i hav tryed...

my guy, i knw...just try, see, i'm advicing you cos i 've experienced it before...not once, not twice, not thrice...u cnt do nothing, move on, or u wanna continue to wallow in trauma and depression?, c'mon, no woman is worth ur tears abegy...most tyms is worse on people like us who are too emotional...i totally undastand ur plight, but get up and get busy, as i'm typing this now, mary and arsenaL jusp shattered my heart...bt i'm strong and kicking, dnt go to any beer parlour, stay in ur house, lock urself and cry the pains out, i said cry out the pains...itz not a sign of weakness, but after the tears, u'd realise that u 've been relieved,,,look for ur favourite movie and watch, for me i go watch tarzan, u knw that cartoon, or little mamaid, or godzilla, horror films, or any adventurous film, just get busy dude...be a man.

firstking01:
my guy, i knw...just try, see, i'm advicing you cos i 've experienced it before...not once, not twice, not thrice...u cnt do nothing, move on, or u wanna continue to wallow in trauma and depression?, c'mon, no woman is worth ur tears abegy...most tyms is worse on people like us who are too emotional...i totally undastand ur plight, but get up and get busy, as i'm typing this now, mary and arsenaL jusp shattered my heart...bt i'm strong and kicking, dnt go to any beer parlour, stay in ur house, lock urself and cry the pains out, i said cry out the pains...itz not a sign of weakness, but after the tears, u'd realise that u 've been relieved,,,look for ur favourite movie and watch, for me i go watch tarzan, u knw that cartoon, or little mamaid, or godzilla, horror films, or any adventurous film, just get busy dude...be a man.

Hmmmm.....thanks man,i really appreciate ur advice....I would follow ur advice cos since we broke up,i havent been able to think straight.....Am loosing weight and focus....thanks again bro...

Dantee005:
Hmmmm.....thanks man,i really appreciate ur advice....I would follow ur advice cos since we broke up,i havent been able to think straight.....Am loosing weight and focus....thanks again bro...

cooL

My brother I think the best thing to do is to follow the advice of your friends as they are good advices. What ever she must have found out about you that prompted her to break up with you must be very bad that she could not beat it. So as I said earlier, follow the advices of your friends.