Why is it that many sensible and
responsible women are attracted to
“bad boys?” What do otherwise
conscientious and even conservative
women see in rebels and rabble-
rousers?
First, understand that bad boys
come in many variations and
degrees. There are the seriously bad
apples who have regular run-ins
with the law, habitually use drugs,
and get arrested for violent acts.
Then there’s the milder variety—
mischief-makers who enjoy
breaking rules just because they’re
there. These guys have unusually
high testosterone, and they haven’t
learned to channel all that
aggression in a constructive way. So
they drive too fast, engage in risky
behaviors, and seek out danger.
Other guys adopt a bad boy image
because it gives them an identity,
acceptance in their peer group, or
attention from their parents and
other adults.
There are typically four reasons
good girls fall for guys like these:

1. The impulse to perpetuate what’s
familiar.
Many women attracted to rogues
had a father who was a little wild
and rebellious. Because many girls
idealize their father, they may seek a
partner with similar traits. This
usually isn’t a conscious decision;
much of the allure happens below
the level of awareness. Girls may also
choose these boys on the
assumption that Dad will be
impressed.

2. The urge to redo the father-
daughter relationship.
The motivation is an attempt to
revise a troubled or distant
relationship with their dad. Often,
attraction is fueled by unmet
childhood needs from the opposite-
sex parent. So if a woman chooses
someone reminiscent of her father,
her motivation may be to remedy
childhood hurts.

3. The drive to rehabilitate or “save”
a wayward man.
Simply put, many women are
rescuers. It’s a challenge for them to
reform an incorrigible man. These
women think, Sure, he gets into
trouble, but I can change him! Ego is
involved as well. It’s inflating when a
woman feels like she is the only one
who can transform a man.

4. The appetite for adventure.
Other women like the excitement,
thrills, and sense of danger bad boys
bring. This is especially true for
those who have been “good girls” all
their lives. Perhaps they grew up in a
family that demanded conformity
and compliance with rules. So they’re
intrigued with men who scoff at
rules and shrug off responsibility.

How do these relationships usually
turn out? In a word, poorly. That’s
because bad boys won’t change
unless they want to—no matter how
long-suffering their partner might
be. Further, despite initial attraction,
most women get tired of bailing a
man out of jail, wondering if he’ll
make it home from a party, or
catching him with another woman.
Women who sign on with bad boys
enlist for endless conflict and
turmoil. Ironically, the very thing that
draws good girls and bad boys
together is usually their undoing.
Many women have learned the hard
way that bad boys make bad dating
partners–and even worse spouses.

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brandnew3:

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Xclusivegrin007:
what?

You just made it readable.

No 3 and 4 are so true.

All this na story...... Girls love guys that are not straight forward, guys that are complicated and guys that don't really love them. When I was a very good Guy, girls took me for granted toil with my emotions but now it Is the reverse because I don't have time treating anybody right again ...........

You are not far from the truth. Check out guys below

because sometimes the cool and Good guys are dangerous and have more hidden agendas than the bad guys

and yet they read and still go 4 bad dudes..

But op i no understand anytin u tok here

Beadex1:
All this na story...... Girls love guys that are not straight forward, guys that are complicated and guys that don't really love them. When I was a very good Guy, girls took me for granted toil with my emotions but now it Is the reverse because I don't have time treating anybody right again ...........

Thats true