Most of us have been in relationships where we felt misunderstood or weren’t getting what we wanted. I’ve heard multiple women say, “He just wasn’t giving me what I needed.” And I’ve heard multiple men ask something along these lines: “What in the hell do you really want?!” Women aren’t that complicated. This post explains what we really want.
1. We want little surprises. Sure, we do like flowers and jewelry, and we’ll gladly accept both…and totally love you for it. But we don’t expect you to go out and spend an arm and a leg every month to keep us happy.
2. We want to be able to talk to you. About everything and about nothing. It may seem trivial to you that we’re conducting a full- fledged debate out loud about whether we should wear our taupe shoes or ivory shoes with our blue lace dress. In your head, you’re probably thinking, “Who cares, they’re the same color anyways, and no one is going to be looking at your shoes.” But bite your tongue. We need to feel like we’re able to be women in front of you…
3. We want you to care about us. Ask us how our day was. Because we need to feel like you’re still interested in what goes on in our lives. And if we’ve had a bad day, whether it was at work or at home with the kids, listen to us. We’ll instantly feel better. Providing some encouragement never hurts, either.
4. We want you to believe in us. Believe in us. Whatever our hopes, goals, aspirations—believe in us. Encourage us. Tell us we can do it. You’re supposed to be our biggest supporter…our #1 fan.
5. We want to feel appreciated. For who we are, for what we do, and for what we’re striving to become. If we make dinner, say thanks or let us know it was good…and if it wasn’t good, compliment the way the water tasted. We don’t mind doing the laundry every Sunday. But when you see all your shirts hung up and facing the same way, let us know you appreciate it, especially if we used fabric softener. That shit’s expensive and we wouldn’t use it on just anyone’s clothes.
6. We want to feel like we’re a team. If we made dinner, offer to clean up. While we’re cleaning the house, wash our car for us. There may be times when you unload the dishwasher every time for a month, and times when we do the laundry every time for a month. It’s not about keeping score or making sure everything is even. It’s about working together, because a relationship takes two. Teamwork requires compromise. Teamwork requires you to work together, not against one another. It’s about understanding that the two of you are partners, not enemies.
7. We want you to stand up for us. If someone is questioning choices we’ve made or actions we’ve taken, stand up for us. If someone is putting us down, stand up for us. If someone is minimizing our accomplishments, stand up for us. If someone calls us crazy…first agree with them, then stand up for us.
8. We want you to pick us up when we fall. I’m not going to lie. There are probably going to be some days when we feel down in the dumps, and those days will usually occur after we’ve failed at something or we’re just questioning whether or not we’re cut out for something. Let us cry on your shoulder. Tell us that we have value, and tell us to keep at it.
9. We want you to make us laugh. This is probably the sweet spot for every woman. We want you to be able to make us laugh—when we’re happy, it makes us happier; when we’re sad, it makes us happy; and when we’re mad… well, it’ll probably just piss us off more at first (c’mon, stop making us laugh, we’re trying really hard to be mad at you!), but then it will lighten the mood. We will fall in love with you over and over if you can make us laugh.
10. We want you to text us. Doesn’t matter what you text us—just text us. Tell us good morning—we’ll be thrilled you’re thinking of us. Tell us you can’t wait to see u it’ll make our day.
11. We want you to add yours..

#TeamGuys, calm down read and apply this to we bae!

Women needs are unlimited!

OP! too much of it is bad in a relationship

brighthp:
Women needs are unlimited!

You just pic few and pamper her with it nt all oh!! U go turn ...

Maxi112:
OP! too much of it is bad in a relationship

Why will you give dem all juz pic few you can do and she shld appreciate

Ladies....Hmmm..If u tryna study dem, u will never graduate......so I say "fu*ck all dat crap and turn ur butt diz way!!!"

Macclane, but you are a male

Macclane:


Why will you give dem all juz pic few you can do and she shld appreciate

OK!

medexico:
Macclane, but you are a male

Yah, am a proxy to d ladies { d r d best smileys on nairaland

I don't like too much calls,
I don't want excess texts,
I don't want you to be mtn(everywhere you go),
I don't want you to spend like a maga (prove you can save and be able to manage). etc
I don't just want to be your wife, I want us to be besties.
pls is it too much to ask?

JustOzito:
I don't like too much calls,
I don't want excess texts,
I don't want you to be mtn(everywhere you go),
I don't want you to spend like a maga (prove you can save and be able to manage). etc
I don't just want to be your wife, I want us to be besties.
pls is it too much to ask?

Hhhm r u sure ur a lady? ;o

Nice compilation.

Macclane:

Hhhm r u sure ur a lady? ;o

very much a lady

^ sum ladies seem nt to get d point u did