Elosky20:

what if the man changes his mind after impregnating her, what will be her faith

Dyt:


I put to bed 10 days after my wedding
That's how I wanted it

raumdeuter:


What if the man changes his mind after impregnating her in the marriage?

or is marriage a jail cell people cant go out of at will?

Elosky20:

remember the people in question are nt married, hence no security for the woman if the man changes his mind

raumdeuter:


If they are married and the man decides to walk out of the wedding, what security does the woman have
Marriage wouldnt stop anyone from walking out if they so wish

DeMekus:

Calm down.

Elosky20:

if she is married, she will not bear the unfaithful mark of runs girl,also b4 a divorce will be allowed the lady in question will be well settled and compensated. bt if she is abandoned b4 marriage she might be considered a prostitute or loose girl for having sex without protection

DeMekus:

That's your problem. You can't think or do anything without calling the bible. Now I'm a Christian too, probably more Christian than you are but that doesn't mean I can't take decisions using my God-given IQ.

who quoted the bible? or, who wanted to quote the bible?, or who made mention to Christianity?

Work out your salvation with fear and trembling.
I didn't know there were superlatives in Christianity.
Very interesting.

raumdeuter:


If she married gets preganant and just one day the man decides to walk out and start living with another woman. What difference would it be from the scenario you gave here?

Marriage doesnt guarantee anything, some people never got married and they stuck to their partner for a long time while some got married and fled a week later

JustHere2Observ:


So what if you don't get pregnant? You will remain a spinster? Nice

Elosky20:

pls once both are married she has the right to sue her husband if she has a gud lawyer. look at the current ojukwu property saga for clearification. without divorce the marriage still stands till death seperates them. also luk into the case of abiola and osita osadebe after death and hw their property was divided

raumdeuter:


Sue what in Nigeria? All those are celebrities. the average Nigerian man and woman on the street. If you take your case to court no one would answer?

Is she after the property? You get me pregnant I take your property? With or Without marriage when there os a child involved Child support is mandatory. But to think being married would stop someone from leaving you? WHat of if the man doesnt divorce her but just neglects her. stays 6 days out 1 day in the house without even touching her. You think marriage can bind down someone that isnt interested? You would be married on paper but worse than someone not married sef

BTW, Its only asset that was acquired DURING the marriage that can be taken/split not those gotten before the marriage

Go and check the case of Dabota Lawson if she would even get a dime from the man unless he just had mercy on her

Dyt:



I will marry your brother na

Elosky20:

at the bolded, cant u see the difference btw WIFE and FIANCEE. the wife recieves child support, the fiancee fends for the child and herself.

raumdeuter:
With or Without marriage when there os a child involved Child support is mandatory.

JustHere2Observ:


Lol, you will have to wait another 10 years boo.

raumdeuter:





Whether married or not she gets Child support. Check Sophie Momodu though not married to Davido she gets Child support

Elosky20:

there is no law protecting the unmarried when it comes to divorce and child support. mind u that davido's case was that of blackmail and he is paying to stop bloggers frm making money with his name. and nobody forced him to pay for the up keep of the child just like 2face.

Dyt:





Age is just a number

JustHere2Observ:


Email me so I can send a list for the dowry... Since you are older, you get to pay the dowry. Hehehehehe

Dyt:



I have got the money

raumdeuter:


Child support is regardless of the marital status. The moment you have a child and are not married to the mother you pay Child support

Elosky20:

what of the social cultural stigma towards pregnant unmarried women. because getting pregnant without marriage is considered as fornication.

raumdeuter:


What of the cultural stigma associated with a pregnant woman who was married but her husband has abandoned her. aka single mother

Elosky20:

they cant be compared. its just like comparing plane and helicopter because both can fly

raumdeuter:


Whats the difference between a spinster whose fiancee abandoned and a married woman whose husband abandoned

Elosky20:

u forgot to add with a child

raumdeuter:


Whats the difference between a spinster whose fiancee abandoned with a child and a married woman whose husband abandoned with a child

raumdeuter:


Whats the difference between a spinster whose fiancee abandoned with a child and a married woman whose husband abandoned with a child

Ishilove:

No seriously, where in the bible? If you wanna use the bible to buttress your arguments, you should be able to present valid scriptures?

Elosky20:

what if the man changes his mind after impregnating her, what will be her faith

Elosky20:

at the bolded, cant u see the difference btw WIFE and FIANCEE. the wife recieves child support, the fiancee fends for the child and herself.