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Re: OMG, How Unprofessional?! Molested By Male Doctor Who Fondled Her Boobs?!! by Chukazu: 11:32am On Feb 07, 2016
undecided you still never tell your husband since

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Re: OMG, How Unprofessional?! Molested By Male Doctor Who Fondled Her Boobs?!! by Pjelafe(m): 11:50am On Feb 07, 2016
Is basically ur mind set, u av disqualified him, evn b4 he started antytin. U jus felt d Doc was 2 young 2 handle ur case. Shikenah.

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Re: OMG, How Unprofessional?! Molested By Male Doctor Who Fondled Her Boobs?!! by kay29000(m): 11:59am On Feb 07, 2016
adorablepepple:
I would advice you to tell your husband because it once happened to me but it was while he was using his stethoscope on my chest and the next thing he started touching my breast asking if I do examine it,immediately[b] I collected that his stupid instrument and hit it on his head and used my shoe on him[/b] and I kept shouting till people came. I told my mum and she followed the case up. It happened in a general hospital. He faced the hospital committee . Women stop keeping quiet when been molested,stop it! Fight back

OMG! You just made me laugh out loud. You dey vex o! But you did the right hting sha.
Re: OMG, How Unprofessional?! Molested By Male Doctor Who Fondled Her Boobs?!! by kay29000(m): 12:06pm On Feb 07, 2016
Profayo:
The doctor was quite unprofessional in that he should have asked a female nurse to be there to chaperone him while examining you,nonetheless I must tackle a few issues in your writeup.
1.Before this doctor examined you, you already had a bias because he is young,that alone is enough to create an impression that he will assault you in your mind,and am telling you whatever your mind conceived is what you will experience.
2. Examining the tip is part of breast examination,so the doctor did not go out his way to examine your tip.
3.The doctor was smiling, seriously should he be frowning He was just trying to put on a smile to make you feel at ease but because you already had it in mind that he is young and he will molest you, you misinterpreted the smile.
4. Morals: please doctors, do not examine a female with a female chaperone and women if you are to be examined by a male doctor,ask for chaperone.No doctor is interested in your breasts.

Thank you o!

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Re: OMG, How Unprofessional?! Molested By Male Doctor Who Fondled Her Boobs?!! by Oscar1Dcashoki(m): 12:09pm On Feb 07, 2016
[color=#990000][/color]Jst imagine how people of nowadays do behave due to money pressure and no one care to say the Truth.
Re: OMG, How Unprofessional?! Molested By Male Doctor Who Fondled Her Boobs?!! by laidback(m): 12:14pm On Feb 07, 2016
This woman is very foolish. Na so you go use shyness go open leg for small pikin.

This is what she should do. Go back to the hospital, for the part 2. Enjoy it while it lasts and cooperate fully. grin

Ok seriously though. Go back and keep your appointment as soon as he comes in wire am dirty slap. You'll feel better afterwards.
Re: OMG, How Unprofessional?! Molested By Male Doctor Who Fondled Her Boobs?!! by latinoKingdom(m): 12:24pm On Feb 07, 2016
Am sure he did d right thing, because that how yo check for breast lumps, d writer doesn't know about it, u have d right to question when u don't know, but dont have right to say u re wrong when u don't know, just thank God u didn't slap him
Re: OMG, How Unprofessional?! Molested By Male Doctor Who Fondled Her Boobs?!! by ObaKlaz: 12:24pm On Feb 07, 2016
Abegi... Which day one beta nurse or lady doctor go molest me sef?!

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Re: OMG, How Unprofessional?! Molested By Male Doctor Who Fondled Her Boobs?!! by drnoel: 1:02pm On Feb 07, 2016
Ayauche:
U wasted time nah, as u noticed he wasn't doing the right thing u shud ve gotten up, u even saw him smiling, I swear I will give him a very resounding slap, that way no1 loose and I will get home and tell my hubby straight.

If only u knew better then I would answer you.

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Re: OMG, How Unprofessional?! Molested By Male Doctor Who Fondled Her Boobs?!! by drnoel: 1:06pm On Feb 07, 2016
Roseey0:
Na so I go for malaria issue, this doc started asking me how often I checked my boobs for breast cancer. Asking me to allow him the professional do it.


From fever to breast test?

The thing wey pain me pass be say na old man. At his age and status, he was still looking for young boobs to press.SMH.

SMH, a doctor gives u a professional advice and u think your sagging boobs is what he is interested in. God4bid bad thing. If only u knew breast cancer is the 3rd commonest cause of death among Negroid female race and probably the 2nd commest medical condition among females in Nigeria.

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Re: OMG, How Unprofessional?! Molested By Male Doctor Who Fondled Her Boobs?!! by drnoel: 1:08pm On Feb 07, 2016
dominique:
A pervert will always be a pervert no matter the occupation he find himself in.

We always tell our children to report to us if anybody is touching them in sensitive places yet she is keeping to herself. She should go back to the hospital and complain, threaten to sue and expose them on social media if they don't take her serious.


Madam thank you for words of wisdom. Dont mind those ladies above u.
Re: OMG, How Unprofessional?! Molested By Male Doctor Who Fondled Her Boobs?!! by drnoel: 1:15pm On Feb 07, 2016
wagazala:
OP could be blowing this out of proportion. Is there anyway he could examine without actually touching them and caressing? Inexperience on the part of the Doc forced him to smile seeing how the patient is aroused by just a medical examination. Lastly, OP had her mind made up about the 'Young' Doc before he started examining her, there's nothing he would do that would be right in her eyes. Wonder if she would have felt the same way if it was an older doctor and the scenario played out exactly the same.

PS: to those who think the tip isn't to be examined:


Cover the entire breast from top to bottom, side to side — from your collarbone to the top of your abdomen, and from your armpit to your cleavage.

Follow a pattern to be sure that you cover the whole breast. You can begin at the Tip, moving in larger and larger circles until you reach the outer edge of the breast. You can also move your fingers up and down vertically, in rows, as if you were mowing a lawn.

Read rest at link below.

http://www.breastcancer.org/symptoms/testing/types/self_exam/bse_steps


Madam should have examined herself or insisted on a Female doc if she wasn't comfortable @ a younger doctor. Shikena.


Dont mind that chalatant seeking to promote her blog. The doctor should have done the examination via telepathy shey.
The only way to examine a breast is to touch it. Our nigerian women should be educated otherwise cos what am seeing here is heart breaking.
I once exmained a young woman with a large breast tomour. She had been feeling pains in that breast but refused someone to examine cos her breast was always standing when touched. Anyway when it was finally exmained it was a large mass that was seen there. She was operated on then placed on chemo. I dont know if she is still alive. Breast cancer is common in nigeria, abeg shift to one side if u dont want to be exmined. Its not by force but u will blame urself later.

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Re: OMG, How Unprofessional?! Molested By Male Doctor Who Fondled Her Boobs?!! by Nobody: 1:30pm On Feb 07, 2016
drnoel:



Madam thank you for words of wisdom. Dont mind those ladies above u.

But is it actually pleasurable when doctors handle female patients breasts? For someone like me, medical complaints kill my libido‎
Re: OMG, How Unprofessional?! Molested By Male Doctor Who Fondled Her Boobs?!! by terrylew(m): 1:52pm On Feb 07, 2016
Ayauche:
U wasted time nah, as u noticed he wasn't doing the right thing u shud ve gotten up, u even saw him smiling, I swear I will give him a very resounding slap, that way no1 loose and I will get home and tell my hubby straight.

this is a not right breast examination also includes little squeezing of the nipple to find out if an unusual secretion will flow out the doc is only doing his job if u don't know much about breast examination go and read it up from google

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Re: OMG, How Unprofessional?! Molested By Male Doctor Who Fondled Her Boobs?!! by spinna: 1:55pm On Feb 07, 2016
it will be your word against his if you want to take him to court, but you can if you want to just to warn others, Ladies should ask for a female nurse present for their examination. As an African i dont see y another man should touch my wife in the name of Doctor, we need more female Doctors i guess
Re: OMG, How Unprofessional?! Molested By Male Doctor Who Fondled Her Boobs?!! by drnoel: 2:06pm On Feb 07, 2016
theoptimist298:


But is it actually pleasurable when doctors handle female patients breasts? For someone like me, medical complaints kill my libido‎

Me I don't see them as females but patients. I have no feelings, thoughts or emotions when I examine a patient.

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Re: OMG, How Unprofessional?! Molested By Male Doctor Who Fondled Her Boobs?!! by Mackson01: 2:16pm On Feb 07, 2016
He was only doing his work, you were the one lost in that touch. Examining boobs to a doctor mean nothing. He was doing a thorough job to check for the lumps.
Re: OMG, How Unprofessional?! Molested By Male Doctor Who Fondled Her Boobs?!! by Maximus85(m): 2:55pm On Feb 07, 2016
chachanga:
[size=14pt]Blog Reader Feels Molested by Male Doctor Who Squeezed Her Breasts[/size]

Hello Princess,
I dont know if I should tell my husband about this or just swallow it so as to avoid causing problems or a confrontation. I went to ****** hospital close at Alausa to check for chest lumps. A very young doctor came strolling in to the office where I was asked to wait. He looked so young that I was even tempted to ask him if he was really a doctor or was a student on houseman-ship but I decided to keep cool as he was wearing their white gown as was actually assigned to me by the admin at the general waiting area.
The hospital was actually recommended by my sister in-law who had her mammogram there. It was my first time and I was very uncomfortable when he asked me to remove my top and bra and then he started touching my breasts. I decided to close my eyes and wait for him to finish the examination. The touching soon turned to caressing and at a point he seen to concentrate on my nipple and to be honest, I have a very sensitive nipple and the always harden and jut out when touched (even breast feeding my babies felt that way)

This went on and on until I was almost shivering. I was embarrassed beyond words and wanted to ask if lumps form in the nipple area but i felt so violated to speak. I opened my eyes to tell him to stop only to discover that he was looking at me smiling sheepishly! All the while he’s been handling my breasts!


I felt so awful. I felt used and molested. He didn’t say a word, I removed his hands and dressed up while he continued smiling and then started saying some medical trash that didnt make no sense to me cos I wasnt listening anymore. When I finished dressing up, he even asked me to come back in 7 days time for another round of checks as I left his office.
This happened on Monday and up till now I have this heavy feeling of being violated by a kid. I still cannot calm down, as if I was defiled. I have been moody and unable to tell my husband. Please what should I do?



Your Thoughts?

http://fashionbuzz.tv/blog-reader-feels-molested-by-male-doctor-who-squeezed-her-breasts/#comment-4763

NB
Yeah, I know this was from an agony column on a 'blog' for Pete's sake but one can't be too careful these days as the #Endtimes chanters would wanna have you believe besides I'm yet to forget numerous tales of these pathetic souls who throw all caution to the winds on the path of destroying another's virtue and sanity (https://www.google.co.uk/search?q=doctor%20caught%20molesting%20patients&gws_rd=ssl).

But why any self-respecting person would do this i just can't imagine! The woman should just take up the issue, abeg.


Hmm mm. Op, I'm so sorry you felt that way but please o naralanders help me finish this 24th century yoruba adage. Won ni ti oro ba ti di oro oyan.....
Re: OMG, How Unprofessional?! Molested By Male Doctor Who Fondled Her Boobs?!! by akin33(m): 3:06pm On Feb 07, 2016
Women backward thinking have brought so many problems to men folks. Imagine somebody who deliberately took herself to the hospital for checkup now started thinking downward when been examine by Dr. Imagine using the word felt molested by a kid. Thank God she did not say he apes her because that is women common slogan now. Next time remain in your house, don't go to Dr. Let me tell you. Than Dr. your call kid, spent several years in the school of medicine stying hard to save your life. They work throughout the night to save you. Is this how to pay him back. alakoba ATI agbako obirin.
Re: OMG, How Unprofessional?! Molested By Male Doctor Who Fondled Her Boobs?!! by pluto3(m): 4:04pm On Feb 07, 2016
Goodday maam....

I am a doctor...let me begin by apologizing on behalf of my supposedly fellow collague...

please next time.. i indulge u to report d matter to d admin for proper investigation..

Dis nonsense and its likes shud not b heard in our medical system...

Thanx
Re: OMG, How Unprofessional?! Molested By Male Doctor Who Fondled Her Boobs?!! by ozo13(m): 4:14pm On Feb 07, 2016
wagazala:
OP could be blowing this out of proportion. Is there anyway he could examine without actually touching them and caressing? Inexperience on the part of the Doc forced him to smile seeing how the patient is aroused by just a medical examination. Lastly, OP had her mind made up about the 'Young' Doc before he started examining her, there's nothing he would do that would be right in her eyes. Wonder if she would have felt the same way if it was an older doctor and the scenario played out exactly the same.

PS: to those who think the tip isn't to be examined:


Cover the entire breast from top to bottom, side to side — from your collarbone to the top of your abdomen, and from your armpit to your cleavage.

Follow a pattern to be sure that you cover the whole breast. You can begin at the Tip, moving in larger and larger circles until you reach the outer edge of the breast. You can also move your fingers up and down vertically, in rows, as if you were mowing a lawn.

Read rest at link below.

http://www.breastcancer.org/symptoms/testing/types/self_exam/bse_steps


Madam should have examined herself or insisted on a Female doc if she wasn't comfortable @ a younger doctor. Shikena.
apt.shikena.noting more to talk abt
Re: OMG, How Unprofessional?! Molested By Male Doctor Who Fondled Her Boobs?!! by Cityguy: 4:22pm On Feb 07, 2016
Whenever there's need for you as a woman to be examined, insist on being examined by a female doc and if not possible, having either a relative or a female chaperone around would help prevent abuse. Having a chaperone around protects the doc himself. Don't know why this is not sinking into the skulls of male medics. Perhaps when they start losing their licencing or become object of physical assault by disgruntled patrons, things would change for the better.
Re: OMG, How Unprofessional?! Molested By Male Doctor Who Fondled Her Boobs?!! by ozo13(m): 4:31pm On Feb 07, 2016
pluto3:
Goodday maam....

I am a doctor...let me begin by apologizing on behalf of my supposedly fellow collague...

please next time.. i indulge u to report d matter to d admin for proper investigation..

Dis nonsense and its likes shud not b heard in our medical system...

Thanx
haba Likita.y bn judgemental and even apologosing on a case u know noting abt.wn u haven't heard d oda side of the d story.to me d only thing d guy did wrong was wn he smiled.every oda stuf d lady complained of r to be done in breast examination.I learnt a lesson also from d patient complain
Re: OMG, How Unprofessional?! Molested By Male Doctor Who Fondled Her Boobs?!! by 1metre: 4:52pm On Feb 07, 2016
Most Nigerian ladies are still leaving in ignorance, you are complaining for just a medical check by a young Dr, just to save you life, but to open the legs to ur neighbor will so easy that they will never remember to tell their husbands. i am really annoyed with this post. this madam first made a point here... ''He looked so young that I was even tempted to ask him if he was really a doctor or was a student on houseman-ship but I decided to keep cool as he was wearing their white gown''....this type of women can cause a big problem between her husband and his sibling.....the hubby need to be careful. you withstood the tip touching till a point u started shivering...u should hv resisted having notice his move in the first place
Re: OMG, How Unprofessional?! Molested By Male Doctor Who Fondled Her Boobs?!! by Alobogab(m): 4:57pm On Feb 07, 2016
The breast is divided into several quadrants which should be examined in series apart from the armpit. This implies that for a thorough breast examination, about 10 parts must be checked. That is anterior, posterior, lateral, medial, aside from mobility, colour, tenderness and fixity.
You underated the Doctor from the beginning that was why you suspected him. You should go back for follow up as breast cancer is not a joke. Any Doctor Who just looked or touched your breast during mammography is dangerous.
I don't think your breast may add much to a Doctor.
Re: OMG, How Unprofessional?! Molested By Male Doctor Who Fondled Her Boobs?!! by datigbogirl: 5:23pm On Feb 07, 2016
EVILFOREST:

How would she know that the medical doctor wasn't doing the right thing.. ?

the woman was biased and prejudicial from d start...All her other actions will follow dat mindset...
Re: OMG, How Unprofessional?! Molested By Male Doctor Who Fondled Her Boobs?!! by oskaaay(m): 5:48pm On Feb 07, 2016
hmmm.... Since you find it hard to forget the issue easily, kindly tell your husband to relieve yourself of the heaviness in your heart.
Re: OMG, How Unprofessional?! Molested By Male Doctor Who Fondled Her Boobs?!! by kokorodudu(f): 7:27pm On Feb 07, 2016
Go back, that thing sweet na.

chachanga:
[size=14pt]Blog Reader Feels Molested by Male Doctor Who Squeezed Her Breasts[/size]

Hello Princess,
I dont know if I should tell my husband about this or just swallow it so as to avoid causing problems or a confrontation. I went to ****** hospital close at Alausa to check for chest lumps. A very young doctor came strolling in to the office where I was asked to wait. He looked so young that I was even tempted to ask him if he was really a doctor or was a student on houseman-ship but I decided to keep cool as he was wearing their white gown as was actually assigned to me by the admin at the general waiting area.
The hospital was actually recommended by my sister in-law who had her mammogram there. It was my first time and I was very uncomfortable when he asked me to remove my top and bra and then he started touching my breasts. I decided to close my eyes and wait for him to finish the examination. The touching soon turned to caressing and at a point he seen to concentrate on my nipple and to be honest, I have a very sensitive nipple and the always harden and jut out when touched (even breast feeding my babies felt that way)

This went on and on until I was almost shivering. I was embarrassed beyond words and wanted to ask if lumps form in the nipple area but i felt so violated to speak. I opened my eyes to tell him to stop only to discover that he was looking at me smiling sheepishly! All the while he’s been handling my breasts!


I felt so awful. I felt used and molested. He didn’t say a word, I removed his hands and dressed up while he continued smiling and then started saying some medical trash that didnt make no sense to me cos I wasnt listening anymore. When I finished dressing up, he even asked me to come back in 7 days time for another round of checks as I left his office.
This happened on Monday and up till now I have this heavy feeling of being violated by a kid. I still cannot calm down, as if I was defiled. I have been moody and unable to tell my husband. Please what should I do?



Your Thoughts?

http://fashionbuzz.tv/blog-reader-feels-molested-by-male-doctor-who-squeezed-her-breasts/#comment-4763

NB
Yeah, I know this was from an agony column on a 'blog' for Pete's sake but one can't be too careful these days as the #Endtimes chanters would wanna have you believe besides I'm yet to forget numerous tales of these pathetic souls who throw all caution to the winds on the path of destroying another's virtue and sanity (https://www.google.co.uk/search?q=doctor%20caught%20molesting%20patients&gws_rd=ssl).

But why any self-respecting person would do this i just can't imagine! The woman should just take up the issue, abeg.
Re: OMG, How Unprofessional?! Molested By Male Doctor Who Fondled Her Boobs?!! by 989900: 7:51pm On Feb 07, 2016
Profayo:
The doctor was quite unprofessional in that he should have asked a female nurse to be there to chaperone him while examining you,nonetheless I must tackle a few issues in your writeup.
1.Before this doctor examined you, you already had a bias because he is young,that alone is enough to create an impression that he will assault you in your mind,and am telling you whatever your mind conceived is what you will experience.
2. Examining the tip is part of breast examination,so the doctor did not go out his way to examine your tip.
3.The doctor was smiling, seriously should he be frowning He was just trying to put on a smile to make you feel at ease but because you already had it in mind that he is young and he will molest you, you misinterpreted the smile.
4. Morals: please doctors, do not examine a female with a female chaperone and women if you are to be examined by a male doctor,ask for chaperone.No doctor is interested in your breasts.

Well said.
However, there are doctors interested in a whole lot more.

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Re: OMG, How Unprofessional?! Molested By Male Doctor Who Fondled Her Boobs?!! by axiliborha(f): 7:58pm On Feb 07, 2016
henrydadon:
Hahaha..but she not denailing the fact that she enjoyed it..but now she claiming violated ..assuming the guy wasn't smiling. .she would have come back for more session
its obvious that you are a perv
Re: OMG, How Unprofessional?! Molested By Male Doctor Who Fondled Her Boobs?!! by salvation77177: 8:19pm On Feb 07, 2016
Madam, I will advise you to allow sleeping dog lie peacefully. You should have reacted immediately you noticed his strange act. But you didn't. Telling your husband now will cause more problems than what you expected. I am a man and know men are naturally jealous to the point of killing for revenge.
Suppose you tell your husband and the doctor denies the allegations, what is your evidence against him.
Re: OMG, How Unprofessional?! Molested By Male Doctor Who Fondled Her Boobs?!! by slevin1(m): 9:32pm On Feb 07, 2016
I think you're angry at yourself and you feel betrayed by yourself for enjoying the session. And now you want to salvage your dignity. This is how you should do it. Tell or don't tell your hubby about it; can't advice you in that department. But go back to the hospital for the next session ask specifically to see the doc who attended to you the last time. Then don't encourage him with body language o but give him a chance to repeat the performance. Then resound his assurance with a slap that'll reverberate his senses. Make a big fuss so that passersby outside the examination room can hear you. Then storm out and lay whatever accusations that comes to your mind on him. That'd do the trick (i.e if u go fit hold body when the romancing starts again cos u have a pretty good sense that he's good looking that's why u were swept away initially cos u forgot to mention his looks in ur story to reduce the blames from comments).

Oh! And good luck in whatever u choose to do.

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