I am single by choice because of something I want to achieve this year. But sometimes I can get so lonely, and there is never a warning of when that feeling would come, it just comes, and makes me miserable. I mean, I might be so excited one minute about something in my life, and then next minute I become depressed. I guess God knew why he created woMAN for MAN.


Anyway, I just want to know from the single people in the single people in the house- How do you deal with loneliness?

kay29000:
I am single by choice because of something I want to achieve this year. But sometimes I can get so lonely, and there is never a warning of when that feeling would come, it just comes, and makes me miserable. I mean, I might be so excited one minute about something in my life, and then next minute I become depressed. I guess God knew why he created woMAN for MAN.


Anyway, I just want to know from the single people in the single people in the house- How do you deal with loneliness?

Socializing...

dukeolumde:



Socializing...

Okay. True that. I usually socialize with my small circle of friends when I am lonely. But from where I work through the week, I don't talk to anyone there. I guess that's why I get lonely during the week, and on weekends that I don't go to where my friends are.

Music keeps me happy wen those hoes aint around to warm my bed dammit!!!

kay29000:


Okay. True that. I usually socialize with my small circle of friends when I am lonely. But from where I work through the week, I don't talk to anyone there. I guess that's why I get lonely during the week, and on weekends that I don't go to where my friends are.

That the problem. Where are u based? Maybe I can hook u up.

i visit nairaland when am lonely

kay29000:


Okay. True that. I usually socialize with my small circle of friends when I am lonely. But from where I work through the week, I don't talk to anyone there. I guess that's why I get lonely during the week, and on weekends that I don't go to where my friends are.

U don't talk to anyone. Why?

LaurelP:



U don't talk to anyone. Why?

I just don't talk to anyone. I don't know...maybe cos I don't like people there.

dukeolumde:


That the problem. Where are u based? Maybe I can hook u up.

Bariga, Lagos.

In one sentence, i carry my Bible and read

We're on same page bro. Most times I read books, pick my phone and keep surfing whatsoever or I just start writing.

kay29000:


Bariga, Lagos.

K. I used to live in Gbagada Phase 1 so many years ago. Do u like girls?

dukeolumde:


K. I used to live in Gbagada Phase 1 so many years ago. Do u like girls?

lol! Of cos I like girls.

xpac01:
We're on same page bro. Most times I read books, pick my phone and keep surfing whatsoever or I just start writing.

Okay. Yea, I write too. I am actually a romance novelist.

Go and play bet9ja....na joke oooh.

kay29000:


lol! Of cos I like girls.

Ok. Just want to make sure u not weird..truth is u need to make friends by socialising.

dukeolumde:


Ok. Just want to make sure u not weird..truth is u need to make friends by socialising.

Yes, I know that. I am working on it. But I don't go out much. I guess I have to start going out.

Its just me and my earpiece. Music is my cure when I get lonely.

kay29000:


Yes, I know that. I am working on it. But I don't go out much. I guess I have to start going out.

Yes indeed. Please try not to appear desperate because women are very dangerous. Only a few are ANGELS..

dukeolumde:


Yes indeed. Please try not to appear desperate because women are very dangerous. Only a few are ANGELS..

Yup! Thanks.

kay29000:


Yup! Thanks.

I come into Lagos every now and then for business. I will holla at u when I ball in. I will hook u up too with some of my hommies and if ur good,
1 or 2 girls depending on ur kind of person...

Elosky20:
i visit nairaland when am lonely

me too

kay29000:


I just don't talk to anyone. I don't know...maybe cos I don't like people there.

Now you've identified ur problem. You are too uptight, loosen up a bit.
You cant tell me that in the whole office, you don't like anybody not even one person.

dukeolumde:


I come into Lagos every now and then for business. I will holla at u when I ball in. I will hook u up too with some of my hommies and if ur good,
1 or 2 girls depending on ur kind of person...

Okay. That would be great.

kay29000:


Okay. That would be great.

I live in PH and I will change my profile picture now so u can see the face. U can have my digits too on my page...

WARNING: I have a baby face

dukeolumde:


I live in PH and I will change my profile picture now so u can see the face. U can have my digits too on my page...

WARNING: I have a baby face

Okay. Seen. My number is also on my profile page.

LaurelP:

Now you've identified ur problem. You are too uptight, loosen up a bit.
You cant tell me that in the whole office, you don't like anybody not even one person.

I guess I didn't explain myself well. I work alone...I am a romance novelist/blogger, so I stay in my brother's flat during the week, and work from there. And I go home weekends. The people I say I don't like talking to are people that live in that area.

I read books, write poems and songs or maybe surf the net.

AlienStar:
I read books, write poems and songs or maybe surf the net.

Okay. Nice to know you write songs...keep the creative juices flowing. I have discovered that creative people (like me and you) are most times loners.

Lol, i think so.

kay29000:


Okay. Nice to know you write songs...keep the creative juices flowing. I have discovered that creative people (like me and you) are most times loners.

kay29000:


Okay. Seen. My number is also on my profile page.

Ok. Seen. I have it already...

AlienStar:
Lol, i think so.