I met a pretty lady at am after party a year ago. After that initial chat and exchange of contacts, which was after a pleasant convo. I noticed her behaviour towards me was very withdrawn after three dates. She gave excuses regularly for not keeping to appointments and unashamedly tells me she visited a friend, hung out with a friend, went shopping with a friend etc you see I happen to be a reactive lover. I dey play the game any which way the babe want am. You come off as unserious and a hot "many men wanna have me babe" I simply chop my turn and leave you for the many men. Please why should other men eat and clean mouth but you intend I should marry their remnant. Of course am not particular about a Virgin or ones past. But I start counting the men from the day I said hello and you accepted my advances.

Long story short, since she was beautiful and I truly had serious intentions for her Initially till she proved to be an "our wife" material. I waiting on the wings patiently for my turn of her public part. After six months or thereabouts after treating me unfairly. The jungle matured and I joined the party. I realises that she was becoming too serious, she drooped her numerous bfs and wanted to be monogamous. But yours truly wanted that earlier and she was too hot to notice. Yes I know I should have slept with her maybe only ten times just as management before leaving so it doesn't look as if I used her, especially as I no longer had any long term intentions for her. But when I withdrew and stopped the calls etc she took offence. Bad mouthing me to our common friends as a man who led her on. Blah blah blah. The day she started treating me well. I was surprised as I had stopped complaining from my friendzoned hell. I accepted her bulls hit since I replaced her with other babes during that period. Thus didn't feel it.

If she wanted to debe for me and saw me as husband material, when I came with innocent intentions why she rubbish am. As she had no feelings for me then and later had feelings, don't I also exercise the right to lose the earlier feelings I had for her? At least I walked away early to give her other men room to return and continue from where they stopped. Many ladies should understand there are men Like me whose love is conditional. Reactionary love. With a thin line of interest or disinterest. I know u will read this. Stop the slander and leave me alone. Double standards

This OP seriously needs medical attention, something is seriously wrong somewhere

And?

So really? This is the sperm that won?

Op read your post over again and explain to me what you just cos am confused as f!ck

Hokay...

so what should i do now

Mchew

the head and tail is what I don't understand