February 14 is just around the corner, it is another romantic and fun season for doubles, couples or let me say those in relationship, yet this atmosphere can be frustrating for single girls and guys. This day is registered in our minds as a special day for those that are in love with one another. Does this make it less worthy of celebration because you are not dating anyone at present? No, it is a season of love expression, it is time when you show love to people within and outside your circle of loved ones, but most important thing is that you’ve got to treat yourself right first because no human whether dead or alive can love you just the way you are supposed to love yourself. Every couple you see on the road, street, and cinema on Valentine’s Day has once celebrated it alone, don’t over estimate your condition. It may interest you to know that there are more singles on this day than your metal camera could ever capture. So what are you waiting for? Let get down to business and make this upcoming Valentine’s Day a worthwhile experience.
We are not alone: it is not a crime if you feel like you are the only single girl or guy out there and every other persons are with their partners. However, you are so damn wrong on this, it is mere illusion created in our minds by media due to the fact that only couples images are used on TV adverts, bill boards, commercial jingles, magazines and so on.
The real thing is a lot of singles out there are in same shoes with us, not having a partner does not make us an outcast. In actual sense, it makes us members of large portion of the population which is constantly growing larger. You have to keep this at the back of your mind.
De-emphasize being in a relationship: you need to resist the tendency to feel like you are an exception or less better just because you are single, it is temporary. This will ring bell in your brain when you assume that being in relationship automatically translate to better life and happiness. The concept that is closer to the truth is that, whether a relationship makes you happy or not is dependent on your partner and on some other dynamics. Trust me, life of many has been made miserable through relationship that takes away almost all what they have to offer, and add nothing to them.
Open up your mind to happiness and a fulfilling life as a single, think about something that makes you feel great and explore it. This will lead us to another point, please read on as we move to next point.
Do something just for you: you don’t have a companion yet, but you have yourself, seize this opportunity presented by this moment and remind yourself how special you are. How do you do this? By allowing yourself to enjoy what you love doing.
You don’t want to stay behind in your room and mope for being single. Rather, figure out one thing that you enjoy most and has nothing to do with relationship, and how you can make it happen fast. You may enjoy seeing movies, going to spa, bar or watching live football, just anything that makes you feel like you are on top of the world. Do it!!! As a golden rule, the more you pay attention to yourself and love yourself, the less expectant you become of someone else’s love for you, this will make you feel less desperate to be loved.
Mingle with other singles: perhaps, you still think that Valentine’s Day is set aside only for couples, not anymore. There will be events around you for singles, just take your time and find out. Most times than not, I don’t have date on Valentine’s Day. And I can testify to it that there is hardly shortage of single guys/girls having fun on Val Day, socializing, eating popcorn in galleria or cinema house. Bars and clubs that organizes jams for both couples and singles are always in your locality, call your single friends, chill out and have whimsical experience together.
Conclusion: in my perspective, it does not matter whether you are single or dating, February 14 is a festive day and always a good time to have fun. You relationship status is not what makes the difference in your life on these days. Instead, it is your ability to leverage on any kind of circumstances and turn it around for your good. Single or couple, you deserve a remarkable Valentine’s Day.
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