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My Father's Advice To Me When I Was Searching For A Wife... by BASD(m): 7:15am On Feb 09, 2016
MY FATHER'S ADVICE TO ME WHEN I WAS SEARCHING FOR A WIFE... WOW

By Jerry John Rawlings The Former Ghana President

My son, I will be very raw and sincere with you. Do not worry about the size of a woman buttock or breast but worry about the size of her heart and brain.

Worry about the size of her love and endurance. Because after 5 or 10 years, it will not be about the breast or buttock.


As you can see, your mum now has a flat chest and almost flat buttock but we still live together happily, I still love her and she still love me. Be careful of a woman that loves money.

I mean the woman that talks ‘every time’ about her hair, cloths, shoes, bags panties and make-ups.


Marriage is not all about these things. Without make-up, cloths, shoes and panties a good marriage will still stand but without love, no marriage can stand.


When I got married to your mum, I didn’t have a car or house of my own. I was not even educated. But I had dreams and she appreciate and support me.


Any woman that does not support your dream is not worth thinking-a- minute about. There are women that will see your dreams better than you, you are lucky if you find one,


My son, open your ears very well, there is a kind of woman you should avoid, do not make a mistake to marry this kind of woman or you will regret it. I mean a woman that always has bad things to say about everyone.

If you see this kind of woman, run away. One of the worst kind of woman you can marry is the one that complains about everything.

If you buy this, she says you should have bought that, if you do this, she said you should have done that. Please stay away!


Most women enjoy talking but the one who talks for two hours and listen for two minutes is a potential ‘bomb’. Be wise Be very careful of a pretending partner.

A pretending woman is not hard to know. She will always know everything about everything, she will be careful.

Just close your eyes and open your heart and you will see! No woman is perfect.

If you see a woman who believes in your dream , who respects you who is committed and who is not all about herself alone then don’t let her go.

But remember, you must not be a wayward man.

I have trained you! If you find a good woman but you are a bad man, you wont have a good marriage!

I won’t pick a wife for you but I have given you my advice. When you find her, bring her for my blessings.

May you find a woman that will increase you not decrease you..

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Re: My Father's Advice To Me When I Was Searching For A Wife... by INTROVERT(f): 7:16am On Feb 09, 2016
Re: My Father's Advice To Me When I Was Searching For A Wife... by Nobody: 7:18am On Feb 09, 2016
words of the wise men.. #ibelieve
Re: My Father's Advice To Me When I Was Searching For A Wife... by Nobody: 7:19am On Feb 09, 2016
INTROVERT:
do u think it will make front page? u dive rock today.

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Re: My Father's Advice To Me When I Was Searching For A Wife... by kay29000(m): 7:22am On Feb 09, 2016
Great words from a wise old man. But I got one question...Did Jerry Rawlings hold a tape record and record all what his father said? Cos this is pretty long and sure can't all be remember if it wasn't recorded.
Re: My Father's Advice To Me When I Was Searching For A Wife... by AngryNigerian(m): 7:27am On Feb 09, 2016
Good piece...
Waiting for "What my mother told me when I was about to choose a suitor"
Re: My Father's Advice To Me When I Was Searching For A Wife... by Donemc(m): 7:28am On Feb 09, 2016
kay29000:
Great words from a wise old man. But I got one question...Did Jerry Rawlings hold a tape record and record all what his father said? Cos this is pretty long and sure can't all be remember if it wasn't recorded.
ask your grandfather
Re: My Father's Advice To Me When I Was Searching For A Wife... by akunjohn(m): 7:28am On Feb 09, 2016
Rawlings papa really love am o!, but I think say him papa no be African nw?,



#wiseword
Re: My Father's Advice To Me When I Was Searching For A Wife... by Nobody: 7:29am On Feb 09, 2016
Amen !
Re: My Father's Advice To Me When I Was Searching For A Wife... by yaqq: 7:43am On Feb 09, 2016
words of wisdom sir but boys don wise up! we re only dating them, when we want 2 marry we will look 4 love probably from d villa!
Re: My Father's Advice To Me When I Was Searching For A Wife... by khristals(m): 7:50am On Feb 09, 2016
we shouldn't worry about the size of her breasts and buttocks


... but I don't want to be a cheat while am married


I would love to be satisfied with my wife


and how can I do that if she looks like Dija sad
Re: My Father's Advice To Me When I Was Searching For A Wife... by Khd95(m): 7:53am On Feb 09, 2016
U sef,get clays for ur p-man,let him mould such woman he describedsad
Re: My Father's Advice To Me When I Was Searching For A Wife... by Nobody: 7:55am On Feb 09, 2016
grin grin this is serious


We dat dont want to marry nko?. Ny advise for us?

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