Watching courtship displays of roosters is fascinating. But you cannot get an eyeful due to its fleetingness. First, in the presence of a hen, the rooster lowers a wing and performs the characteristic rooster dance around the hen. When necessary, it repeats the process this time lowering the other wing. An unimpressed hen typically beats a hasty retreat with the rooster in tow. But if receptive, the hen lowers her guard, the rooster mounts and consolidates his position by grabbing the feathers at the back of her neck with his beak, moves his tail alongside the hen’s tail, and their cloacas meet. It’s over in a matter of seconds.

This kind of ephemeral union is undoubtedly acceptable in the avian world; but why should any man replicate the rooster example? Whenever you breast the tape when you should ideally be on the starting block with her, do you not notice the glazed expression on her face the next time you wanted to do it with her? From Freudian perspective, premature ejaculation (PE) is perceived as a form of hostility towards women; the man satisfies himself but leaves the woman frustratingly unfulfilled. However, believe that whatever is the biggest single cause of low self- concept in men, premature ejaculation runs it a close second. But the good news is that every man could learn how not to let go of his juices too soon.

It would interest you to know that lots of studies have been conducted on PE-that is ejaculation during sexual intercourse shortly before or after penetration usually beyond the man’s control. However, we shall adopt the definition of premature ejaculation coined by the International Society for Sexual Medicine (ISSM). According to Sharlip, I. D., Hellstrom, W. J., & Broderick, G. A. (2008) of ISSM, “premature ejaculation occurs prior to or within about one minute." The greatest problem associated with PE is that it does not take the interest of women into consideration; it takes much longer than a minute for women to get to their sexual destination. In fact, most women, except in cases of sex with skillful men who lasts long enough, do not reach orgasm through penile penetration; female orgasm happens during pre-intimacy, passionate kisses, or stimulation of erogenous zones such as clitoris, breasts or earlobes.

But the reasons many men let go too soon is not clearly defined. However, regardless of whether it is a case of primary premature ejaculation (refers to lifelong experience of the problem-since puberty), or secondary premature ejaculation (that is PE beginning later in life), causes range from psychological to both physical and physiological factors. According to WebMD, some psychological factors include stress, performance anxiety, guilt, depression, cultural influence or shame, and the fact that some men may have conditioned themselves to ejaculate quickly in their adolescence to avoid getting caught. Physical and physiological causes include hormonal problems, side effects of certain medications, diabetes, high blood pressure, thyroid problems and prostate disease, binge drinking, taking sexual positions that increases the way you enjoy the act, as well as multiple sclerosis which can result in nerve damage says dred.com.

According to Strassberg, D. S., & Perelman, M. A. (2009) from their study “Sexual dysfunctions,” men's typical ejaculatory latency is approximately 4–8 minutes. In a similar study involving 500 couples in the United Kingdom, the National Health Service recorded that the average length of sexual intercourse is five and a half minutes. But the sad reality is that almost every man suffer from PE at some point in their lives, especially in men dealing with new relationships or conflicts in the relationship. However, data from NHS indicates that 40% of men suffer from PE. What this NHS data means is that 40% of women (or more) are left stranded by their men as they would never get to their sexual destination or find sexual satisfaction. Prompted by this unhappy trend, some “sexperts” have suggested ways to solve this problem of PE to forestall negative effects it could have in many homes.

Now let’s start from the treatment that men could administer by themselves. One way to reduce performance anxiety is by taking a sexual position that reduces the way the sexual act is enjoyed. For instance, if you find rear entry mind-blowing, you might want to begin the act as a missionary and consummate it while she is in front of you.

Here is another way to stay longer. It is called the stop-go technique. All you need do is to take a break at well-timed interval before ejaculating. If this is well executed repeatedly, it helps to get the job done. It sounds simple; doesn’t it? But I am sure you would need to practice this technique for some time to get desired result.

The NHS in the U.K also advocated the distraction method. I called it distraction method because the man would deliberately take breaks during the act to think about any issue unrelated to sex that could temporarily take his mind off the sexual act and lowers penile sensation. This has been found to delay ejaculation.

There is one more do-it-yourself technique achieved by wearing thick condoms or doubling effort by wearing two condoms at a time. The aim in doing this is to reduce sensation of the male organ and delay the process of ejaculation. However, the only snag would be that friction generated from the use of two condoms could lead to tearing shifting emphasis from PE to unwanted pregnancies and STIs.
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Too fcccking long

Why would I wanna last longer than I already do?? I literally force myself to cumm

last long? tell that to a long d!ck....... you would just turn a nigga to a murderer

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