I love her and she loves me too but whenever we attempt any pre-intimacy, she just feels very bad after the act and almost wants to break up. I always apologize that it won't happen again but at the end of the day, the hormones will always come back kicking again. This has been going on since last year. I'm just confused and don't know what to do. Please I need some advice.

I don't mean to annoy you.
But she doesn't love u man.. Please Wake Up

iykekelvins:
I don't mean to annoy you.

But she doesn't love u man.. Please Wake Up

Trust me man, I can tell if she doesn't. Infact she loves me more than I do to her.

Sorry bro!
That's all I've got to say.

Give ha time wit time she won't feel guilty anymore

Brandnew2:
Sorry bro!
That's all I've got to say.

Lol.. That's all I've got to say.

opinchinoo:
Give ha time wit time she won't feel guilty anymore

Time?? Like how long??

Have you asked her why she reacts that way?
Was she a virgin when you met her?
How committed is she religiously?
Have you noticed any sign of ogbanje spirit in her?
Do you loose something after sex with her?

I can only ask you questions op cos I know not your girlfriend

drberry:

Time?? Like how long??

didnt mean u shd stop ur romance just saying u shd cont and wen it gets to a time she wil stop feeling guilty.(if she realy luvs u)

I think she doesn't like to have sex which could be for a religious reason and if u continue I bet she is going to leave u despite her feelings for u

Diddyydiva:
Have you asked her why she reacts that way?

Was she a virgin when you met her?

How committed is she religiously?

Have you noticed any sign of ogbanje spirit in her?

Do you loose something after sex with her?


I can only ask you questions op cos I know not your girlfriend

1. She told me she hasn't dated any guy before and I think I believe her.
2. She pretty committed religiously. Infact she says she can't looses boldness to pray and study her Bible after those episodes of romance. Most likely the reason why.
3. She ain't possessed... Lol... Not at all..
4. I don't loose anything because we've not had Sex before... The process just terminates at the romance phase.

drberry:

1. She told me she hasn't dated any guy before and I think I believe her.
2. She pretty committed religiously. Infact she says she can't looses boldness to pray and study her Bible after those episodes of romance. Most likely the reason why.
3. She ain't possessed... Lol... Not at all..
4. I don't loose anything because we've not had Sex before... The process just terminates at the romance phase.

You are dating a virgin and a born again soon to become a born against if care is not taken

opinchinoo:
didnt mean u shd stop ur romance just saying u shd cont and wen it gets to a time she wil stop feeling guilty.(if she realy luvs u)

Okay... I get

Diddyydiva:
You are dating a virgin and a born again soon to become a born against if care is not taken

Lol... How man go do now??

drberry:
Lol... How man go do now??

let her be.

OP!!! Tell me the age of your girlfriend and even yourself....


Then i'll know if you'll really need an advice or a good spanking thereof.........

lanrywatt:
I think she doesn't like to have sex which could be for a religious reason and if u continue I bet she is going to leave u despite her feelings for u

Actually it's cos of religious reasons. But can't the situation be salvaged??

penisilin:
OP!!! Tell me the age of your girlfriend and even yourself....


Then i'll know if you'll really need an advice or a good spanking thereof.........

About-to-be-married age... What's up??

Diddyydiva:
let her be.

Like seriously?? Is that your honest advice? By that do you mean the relationship should end or I shouldn't demand for Sex again

drberry:

Like seriously?? Is that your honest advice? By that do you mean the relationship should end or I shouldn't demand for Sex again

don't make a lady choose between you and her God. Directly or indirectly.



That's all I can say

I am sure she is one of those struggling to get her stand on her religious beliefs.
(She is neither hot nor cold)

She feels aroused at a point and want to satisfy d urge only for her to be blaming$hating herself and d act after d scene. I know d feeling.
She is still avin conscience. She will lose it if she persist, if she can't draw d lines

Op, u can't force her or do anyfin except she finally decide to join d train of those that av lost their decency to please you/d world.

Diddyydiva:
don't make a lady choose between you and her God. Directly or indirectly.



That's all I can say

*exhales*
I guess that's the hard truth. It's alright then. Thanks

drberry:

*exhales*
I guess that's the hard truth. It's alright then. Thanks

you are welcome

drberry:
I love her and she loves me too but whenever we attempt any pre-intimacy, she just feels very bad after the act and almost wants to break up. I always apologize that it won't happen again but at the end of the day, the hormones will always come back kicking again. This has been going on since last year. I'm just confused and don't know what to do. Please I need some advice.

Don't mind them

She needs to see a psychologist provided there isn't a religious reason/personal reason behind her emotions.

drberry:

About-to-be-married age... What's up??

ok then....

Take her to a place where YOU CAN LISTEN to her and READ BETWEEN THE LINES.... She might not reveal much but if you are sincere with yourself and know what you want, ask her about her thoughts on sex before marriage and compel her to tell you if she enjoys romance or not.


one question should lead you to more..... but the ultimate is to make sure you are happy and you can also make her happy otherwise let the boat sail with the tides.....

I hate stories like this



She needs to grow up really



Go big or go home

penisilin:


ok then....

Take her to a place where YOU CAN LISTEN to her and READ BETWEEN THE LINES.... She might not reveal much but if you are sincere with yourself and know what you want, ask her about her thoughts on sex before marriage and compel her to tell you if she enjoys romance or not.


one question should lead you to more..... but the ultimate is to make sure you are happy and you can also make her happy otherwise let the boat sail with the tides.....

Alright man. Thanks..

drberry:

Actually it's cos of religious reasons. But can't the situation be salvaged??

It can't bro, believe me when I said dat, ur girl is a good analogy of a Woman.dont spoil her into what she doesn't like and besides must u romance her, Oga hold body jare

Is sex and romance all der is in a relationship cos u are sounding like u can't date her without sex

sorry bro she s not urs.. Her heart is wit anoda man

sorry bro she s not urs.. Her heart is wit anoda