The Concept of Sexual Purity

Sexual purity is more than abstinence from sexual intercourse; it is the freedom from engaging in all forms of sexual activities in your spirit, soul and body.
This is to say:
When you constantly have sex in your dreams, it means you spirit is polluted and becomes unclean.
When you lust after a woman in your heart or you engage in pornography, it means your soul (heart/mind) is unclean and polluted.
When you engage in masturbation, penetrative sex, MouthAction, fingering sex, it means your body is unclean and you become polluted.

Many people who claim to be virgins and sexually pure are living in lesbianism, masturbation, MouthAction, fingering sex, kissing and romance yet the claim to be free from sexual immorality.

Listen; Science, Education or Psychology is not the yardstick for purity; But the WORD OF GOD.

WE CANNOT TALK ABOUT LOVE AND SEX WITHOUT TALKING ABOUT GOD.
These two subjects originated from God. We can only find answers to them when we consult Him through His Word—the Bible!

The Popular Myth of Love

One of the strongest lies Satan has used in destroying millions of lives in sexual immorality is the popular myth that: SEX IS LOVE.
This LIE (weapon) of Satan has wounded many, destroys countless homes, caused great violence, promotes betrayal and abuse, break many hearts and relationships. THIS IS PAINFUL.
The World we live in has wrongly defined Love for our teens, youth and singles.
The Romance Novels, Soap Operas, Social Media and Society have painted a world of Sex and Romance rather than True Love.

Dating and Courtship that is built on sex and not love is heading for a real collapse.
This is one of the major reasons why we see many broken hearts, homes, divorce and abuse in our society.

Marriages will be heaven on earth, families will be at peace and our Society will be less violence when will begin to promote true love and move away from the sex and romance story.

God did not formed relationship for sex; He formed relationship for love (companionship)

Yes, it is true we cannot remove sex and romance from marriage, but we must align ourselves to the ultimate purpose of relationship which is LOVE (whether dating, courtship or marriage).

What millions of people call Love is nothing but Romance and Sex.

Love is not Sex and can never be sex.
Romance is not Love; Sex is not Romance

Love is a connection of hearts; Sex is a connection of sexual organs!
If love is sex; then think about Prostitutes who are professional sex workers!
Would you say Prostitutes are the most loving people in the world?
If Love is Sex; then think about Jesus—He never had sex in His life!
Would you now say Jesus did not love at all?

IF YOU CAN BREAK OUT FROM THIS LIE, THEN YOU ARE ON YOUR WAY TO SEXUAL PURITY!

The World was created by Love (God) and can only be built by Love.
The World was founded by Holy (God) and can only be built on holiness (which is purity).

Sex is not a sin; Romance is not a sin. But it is not for everybody! It was created by God for Man and wife.
Before Sex and Romance came into our world, God first had to create man and wife in marriage.
But today the reverse is the case, Sex and romance comes first in relationship before people begin to think about whether to marry or not.
In fact in many dating scenarios, we see people meeting themselves for the first time and having sex the same day and then say they are in love.

LOVE COMES BEFORE SEX; NOT SEX BEFORE LOVE. (This is the divine order of every true relationship)
Any relationship that is founded on Sex is influenced by lust and infatuation and not love. (Hard Truth)

The Concept of Love

LOVE AS 'A FEELING' (OLD CONCEPT)
Many Dictionaries define love as, “the feeling of deep affection for someone”.

Let me tell you this, if we define love in the context of feeling we will get it wrong.

This definition has done more harm than good to the lives of people.
This definition many lead many into being seduced and deceived into sexual immorality.
There are many feelings in this world. This includes sexual feeling!)
If we see love as just a feeling, it will bring a lot of confusion and lead people astray and even into

Infatuation (false Love) is a feeling.
Lust (sexual love) is a feeling.

Love has a feeling, but it is not a feeling.

Categories of Love

Human Love = the natural love we are born. We exercise this for our families, friends and neighbors.
Satanic Love = Infatuation and Lust is a kind of feeling that graves for romance and sex without following divine order.
Divine Love= this is a special love brought from Heaven to earth by Jesus for man to embrace. This is the greatest love. It can only be experience when you encounter Jesus Christ

LOVE AS 'LIVING LIKE JESUS' (TRUE CONCEPT)

God is Love; Love is divine.

This is the true concept of love.

This is the only love we must truly promote. This is the love that will change the world.
Every kind of love will fail; But the Love of Jesus can never fail.

When we seek to live and practice this kind of love the result will be unprecedented.

The Power of Divine Love on Sexual Purity

Sexual feeling is a very powerful feeling that every other kind of love cannot resist its temptation.
I am seen many fathers who love their daughter end up having sex with them.
Human love cannot successfully resist sexual temptation.
Infatuation and Lust cannot resist sexual temptation; it will even promote and attract sexual immorality.

IT TAKES ONLY DIVINE LOVE TO BE ABLE TO RESIST THE FEELING OF SEXUAL DESIRE.
DIVINE LOVE IS ONE THE MOST POWERFUL TOOLS FOR SEXUAL PURITY.

The Misuse of Sex

Many people have turned sex into idol worship.
Whenever they have problem they run to have sex!
This is an abuse and misuse of love.
So many people are struggling with emotional wounds like rejections, loneliness, abandonment, abuse, fear, jealousy, bitterness, disappointment, betrayal, anger and worry. But what do they do to gain solution?
They engage in sexual activities to express, react or respond to their pain.

LISTEN; SEX IS NOT THE SOLUTION TO YOUR WOUNDS; DIVINE LOVE IS THE HEALING YOU NEED.
You cannot use sex to fill the void of love in your life.

So many people will be walking in sexual purity as soon as they receive healing from their wounds through the power of divine love.

Examples of Sexual Activities Caused by Lack of Divine Love:

Bitterness/hatred= homosexuality
Abandonment/Rejection= Masturbation, intimacy gadgets, Transvestism/Transexuality:
Anger= rape, child abuse, incest.
Jealousy= party, Orgies, Nudity.
Betrayal= Prostitution
Loneliness= Pornography, Mental Sex
The truth is that engaging in these sexual activities will not heal your wounds or make you feel better.

SEXUAL PURITY IS THE TEST OF TRUE LOVE

One of the most powerful ways to know if someone truly loves you in a relationship is to move into what I called ‘Sexual Purity Vow Agreement’.

Sexual purity is the tester of what you feel or what someone feel towards you whether it is True Love, Lust or infatuation.

I have encountered many ladies who claim to love me so much and grave for a serious relationship with me. I just told me, ‘Well, if we will be together, we will have a sexual purity commitment, meaning no sexual activities of any kind till we are legally ready”.
This is how I saved myself from the lives of many ladies who just want to get a fill of sex thinking they are in love.
True Love embraces sexual purity with joy and readiness; But infatuation and lust dies where they is no fuel of sex to increase its fire.

Divine Love seeks to sacrifice and not gratify.
Divine Love seeks to obey God’s commandment and not man’s desire or pressure.
Divine Love commit to holiness and righteousness and not to feelings.
Divine Love produces the fear of the Lord that will enable you to flee from every sexual temptation from within and without.

How to Embrace and Experience Divine Love

1. You need to Encounter Jesus Christ and be born again.
2. When you receive Salvation, you need healing and deliverance from your wounds/bondage.
3. Ask the Holy Spirit to fill your heart with the Love of Christ. What a wonderful experience!
4. Fall in Love with the Scriptures and also build a personal Relationship with Jesus daily.
5. When you truly understand divine love, you will begin to know learn how to love people without driven by sexual desire.

Live the purified life

NOTE: If you need support, counseling and prayer, and also free materials on how to walk in sexual purity, send me email to rufusyamoah@yahoo.com .

Rufus Elijah Yamoah
Sexual Purity Strategist

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