I'm a 29year old lady, married with 2 kids. I met my husband when i was 28years,  we became friends and later got married. Before I married him i wasn't sexually active(I was really scared of s3x). Now we are married but the problem is that my husband can't seem to stop cheating, we have quarreled uncountable times because of his constant communication with girls(Note we have fought 3 times which of course he beat the hell out of me, the last one happened in Oct 2015 and my mum was around then cos my new baby was just 1 month old).

After I did a week fasting, some things started coming up, I got to realize that my husband has slept with one girl and I confronted him but he denied but when...

...the girl accepted that they've had s3x and I showed him the chat, he had to accept and begged for forgiveness that it will never happen again. I asked him if she was the only one he cheated on me with and he did yes; while I was trying to forgive him, my spirit told me that there's something he's not saying. On valentine's day I confronted him about sleeping with...

...other girls and he accepted and listed out their names, now not only has he slept with 7 girls but he has slept with them at least twice even though he said he slept once with one of them which now makes it 13times. So now he's really begging for forgiveness but I can't forgive him. He pays hotels to sleep with this girls and pay them but he has only paid in cash into..
...his first daughters account once which was 10k and since then he hasn't paid a dime. The most annoying thing is that he's a MINISTER in church. Now i dont even know whether i should tell his parents or tell his pastors or even report him to both parties. I really hate him and feel like poisoning him but I have 2 kids. I really wonder if I was the one who...


...cheated whether he would have forgiven me. He was asked why he cheated and what he said was "I was pregnant then and I just gave birth??like seriously?Is pregnancy asked and is birth not a thing of joy?I'm sure I married a BEAST. He said he will never chest on me again but I don't believe him because I believe if you have cheated on me once...

...and did not feel bad that u even got so bad that it's at least 13times with 7 different girls then I can't believe that he won't cheat again. Note: he has done HIV test and HEP B test and the result is Negative because he said he used condoms but TRUST & LOVE  is gone with the wind. I know some...

...people will advise that I should take him back and forgive him but have you even wondered why men hardly forgive their cheating wives? They'll rather throw her things out and take the kids for DNA test. ...what a world we live in.

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Source: http://gennypearl..com.ng/2016/02/i-really-hate-him-i-feel-like-poisoning.html?m=1

This is what happens when u marry for money.

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This is what happens when u marry for money.

maybe there is something u r nt doing 2 him sexually that he likes.....try and b more sexually active with him....ur husband is a sex freak

Cutehector:
This is what happens when u marry for money.

This is a lie bro....men are unrepentant cheaters

firstking01:
This is a lie bro....men are unrepentant cheaters

hav u caught any man cheating?

K

Cutehector:
hav u caught any man cheating?

See question, countless times....inshort, every man is a potential cheat....i just disdain cheating

Cooked up stories. Bia dis girl, your conscience no dey prick u as u dey blow dis kain lie so? In this thread, you are 29yrs old, in the oda thread, you are 24. Mtcheew!

Some pple will come here and start typing "men are polygamous in nature"
God Punish that kind nature

ehm to op, biko help me tell the woman say HIV/AIDS is real
Stapylococo still dey hang somewhere around ya hubby, e jos dey watch am ni maybe he go change.
it now depends on you..cos i won't advice you to leave your home, if not for anything atleast of your kids

Write his name on a paper and submit it on ur church altar, there's nothing God can not do

The whole story does not add up...
You are 29, met your husband at 28 and you already have two kids for him.

kingofchess:
maybe there is something u r nt doing 2 him sexually that he likes.....try and b more sexually active with him....ur husband is a sex freak

So she should kill herself for him?
His mate re outside making billions,he is der cheating.

You met him when you were 28, now you are 29 and you already have 2 kids for him , sister, you are a Lieon

Your husband is merciful to you. If I were your husband, 13 girls would be a warm-up for me.

You have the GUTS to say that you are not sexually active, and you want your husband to clap for you shebi?

Keep Hating SEx with your husband and other girls will be giving it to him as E dey Hot!

#BUSH

Pls don't leave your home,consider your children's future.
You should go for counselling. Don't tell his parent,especially if he has illiterate has family members[they can be settimental nd annoying]
Just keep performing ur responsiblity as a wife nd keep praying.
Note:don't kill him o, he is the father of ur children,they will ask you about it in future nd it won't b funny.

1st question. how did you get to have 2 kids for your husband when you claim to be 29 and you met him when you were 28, you didn't mention twins so that's out of it so pls if you advice, give us more truth, be honest about the story and if the story is correct, you can easily get infected with any std's out there because he might be doing some of the ladies without protecting himself.

emilyone:
The whole story does not add up...
You are 29, met your husband at 28 and you already have two kids for him.

one of d kids wuz given to dem as a gift frm 1 of d ladies d man wipes on deir wedding day

lemme ask u, wat qctually got u attracted to d man?.........itz so unfortunate dat he doesn't av gud self control & bearing 2wrds hiz sexuality & mrriage....loose man vs unfortunate woman

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

even at 9month of pregnancy,my wife still give me the thing,so sister learn some more thing that will help ur marriage, and thas why i will never support getting married to a virgin in the name of she is a responsible girl,,everywoman need to know how to work it down there,because it changes a lot, just passing

firstking01:
See question, countless times....inshort, every man is a potential cheat....i just disdain cheating

Bro,that means u included? Speak fr urself man!!

MadeOfBlaq:

Bro,that means u included? Speak fr urself man!!

in as much as i hate to admit it...i hate cheating.

firstking01:
in as much as i hate to admit it...i hate cheating.

U don't have to hate admitting it, say it wholeheartedly.. Cheating ain't cool..

MadeOfBlaq:

U don't have to hate admitting it, say it wholeheartedly.. Cheating ain't cool..

maybe ur misunderstanding me...in as much as i'm not a sain wen it comes to cheating, i hate it...grasp it for once brother.

Eehyahhh...... I don't really feel pity for your types. You deny your husband sex and then start lamenting when he goes out. Mtcheew.... Leave trash joor.

kingofchess:
maybe there is something u r nt doing 2 him sexually that he likes.....try and b more sexually active with him....ur husband is a sex freak

no make me vex oo,no natter how u active u are ,that won't stop him from cheating.the man is a cheat period. if it were the woman that cheated would you say the man is not sexually active?

Cutehector:
This is what happens when u marry for money.

And were was it mentioned she married him for money?

firstking01:
maybe ur misunderstanding me...in as much as i'm not a sain wen it comes to cheating, i hate it...grasp it for once brother.

I code u bro, go well.. Peace!!

You seem like the churchy lady. Maybe you rejected offers from the good men that were not ministers


Keep praying my sister. May God help your marriage