sex and love are often confused by many as the same which is one of the major causes of breakups nowadays.

Having great sex with someone doesn’t mean you love them and any relationship built on that is bound to fall apart because it started for all the wrong reasons but true love always stand the test of time.

Here are few abilities couples should have in common to help secure a lasting love:

AvailAbility: The first necessary “Ability” for ensuring a great love and relationship is the ability to be present and in the moment, mentally, emotionally and physically for your partner. It’s important to note that being available is more than just physical proximity.

The hearts of a couple sitting right next to each other can be miles apart. Obviously, there are long-distance relationships due to the economy, military duty or other circumstances that separate individuals, but distance doesn’t have to equate to a doomed love.

The key is maximizing your availability to your partner as much as possible—mentally, emotionally and physically. If you’re available to your mate both mentally and emotionally, you can still be a great lover despite a challenging physical distance.

DependAbility: Perhaps the most important “Ability” of any relationship is the ability to be earn and keep the trust of your mate. Trust is also one of the most difficult aspects of a relationship to achieve, and it’s also the easiest to destroy.

Yet dependability is an easy concept to understand. It necessitates that .... continue here... http://www.syfur.org/2016/02/every-couple-should-have-these-3-abilities-for-lasting-love.html