listen as much or more than you
talk .

Some people consider themselves skilled communicators because they can talk endlessly. But the ability to speak is only one part of the equation—and not the most
important part. The best communication occurs with an even and equal exchange between two people. Think of conversation as a tennis match in which the players lob
the ball back and forth. Each person gets a turn—and no one hogs the ball.

-Peel the onion, don’t stab it with a paring knife

Getting to know someone new is like peeling an onion one thin layer at the time. It’s a slow and safe process. But some people, overeager to get into deep and meaningful conversation, go too far too fast. They ask personal or sensitive questions that put the other person on the defensive. Should the relationship evolve, there will be plenty of time to get into weighty topics. For now, take..... read more http://twaddlehq.com/458-2/

You wise oh. Hmm! You qon drop two hehn? Well, the two you dropped are all I need for now. When you are ready to drop the rest, am home!