Good afternoon my fellow nairalanders, pls what are the ways or steps in which one can take to divert or reduce the level of love towards his partner in a relationship, for example if u really & truly love her to the extent that you can't get ur self if you dnt see her in a day, u like to be arround her at all time, u dont like her to be away from u at any time, even if she needs to be away for some good & acceptable reasons u derive unspeakable joy chatting with her whenever you are lessbusy tru watsapp or any messanger available, as in you cant just stay a minute without remembring her whenever she is away, despite all these if one's partner is taking his love for granted or doesnt value his love or didnt even reciprocate & by so doing seriously hurting d feelings of her partner (not delibrately o), & you av talked her down on it so many times & av even tried so many ways to make her knw how it normally affect you emotionally but all to no avail. How can you reduce your level of love for this king of a person? what ar the activities you can engage in to divert ur attention off her at some piont in time? especially if d man is a type that doesnt take beer or nt used to going to clubs, or doesnt fancy wayward life & didnt knw how to make friends (let me say an introvert). pls someone is in need of ur candid advice

See this one..

U want to reduce love for yor partner abi u wan cheat on am ?

People out there are begging for love u are here reducing your own.. mtcheew

Which kind question be dis.

BoiledHead:
See this one..

U want to reduce love for yor partner abi u wan cheat on am ?

People out there are begging for love u are here reducing your own.. mtcheew

Which kind question be dis.

is like you dont go tru my post at all before rushing to comment, i dont want to suffer emotional trauma & my feelings be affected this much any longer

I understand what u mean op. Distant yourself and do things u were doing when you were single. That should help

it is very bad pple ar not ready 2 help with advise on this forum again unlike before, pple now chose to flood threads that are full of immorality even ladies, mention sex or anytin about sex & u will see them jamming one another on d kind of thread, SMH

lesbiangirl:
I understand what u mean op. Distant yourself and do things u were doing when you were single. That should help

thanks jare

Omo, I understand u so much. U r too emotional. But u can't help dis. It's a nature dat u can deal with.

Let me ask u a question? How long have u been dating ur lady now? She mmight not have any feeling for you. And did can be very disappointing if u found her dating anoda man.

You just av to sit her down once more and ask her eye ball to eye if she truly loves u. Try to observe her response interval to d moment u ask her.

This is d problem u'll av, if u r not ssocial. Learn how to hang-out wit reasonable friends.

fayose4real:
Good afternoon my fellow nairalanders, pls what are the ways or steps in which one can take to divert or reduce the level of love towards his partner in a relationship, for example if u really & truly love her to the extent that you can't get ur self if you dnt see her in a day, u like to be arround her at all time, u dont like her to be away from u at any time, even if she needs to be away for some good & acceptable reasons u derive unspeakable joy chatting with her whenever you are lessbusy tru watsapp or any messanger available, as in you cant just stay a minute without remembring her whenever she is away, despite all these if one's partner is taking his love for granted or doesnt value his love or didnt even reciprocate & by so doing seriously hurting d feelings of her partner (not delibrately o), & you av talked her down on it so many times & av even tried so many ways to make her knw how it normally affect you emotionally but all to no avail. How can you reduce your level of love for this king of a person? what ar the activities you can engage in to divert ur attention off her at some piont in time? especially if d man is a type that doesnt take beer or nt used to going to clubs, or doesnt fancy wayward life & didnt knw how to make friends (let me say an introvert). pls someone is in need of ur candid advice

bros u no get job,see as u just dey invest time wen u supposed dey hustle dey act tellemundo movie...OK lets be serious, you're over investing in d relationship and its very unattractive...secondly you're sex starved,invite her over,bleep her a couple of times and you'll feel great...

arofemites:
Omo, I understand u so much. U r too emotional. But u can't help dis. It's a nature dat u can deal with.

Let me ask u a question? How long have u been dating ur lady now? She mmight not have any feeling for you. And did can be very disappointing if u found her dating anoda man.

You just av to sit her down once more and ask her eye ball to eye if she truly loves u. Try to observe her response interval to d moment u ask her.

This is d problem u'll av, if u r not ssocial. Learn how to hang-out wit reasonable friends.

thanks bro, by august this yrs, our relationship will be clocking 5yrs, & no single break truout d whole 5 yrs, she is as faithfull as anytin i can imagine no doubt about that, my only problem with her is what i stated above, we ar not at dsame level emmotionally

callMeAlpha:
bros u no get job,see as u just dey invest time wen u supposed dey hustle dey act tellemundo movie...OK lets be serious, you're over investing in d relationship and its very unattractive...secondly you're sex starved,invite her over,bleep her a couple of times and you'll feel great...

who told u am sex starved, did i mention sometin of such in d post?

i am lossing it all, am lossing my mind and brain over this