Quite recently i  have been having this very strong urge of flirting with another woman am married to a lovely woman very beautiful and attractive our sex life is still very active honestly i have no reason to but the urge keeps on getting stronger that i can't control it anymore now i find my self searching the one i have found so far looks like my wife i mean does it make sense but only that my wife is better looking but same body structure some one please say something that can make me change my mind because i have a bad feeling about this.

go right ahead flirt ,yes flirt and then cheat on your wife! you can't control your mind! you can't control your d i c k, i guess the best thing to do is do the dirt! [/b]you already done in it your mind _{* roll Eyes*}^{* hiss *}

i guess your wife being faithful and true to you is [b]rubbish, having a great sex life with her is nonsense abi?, i hope you get caught in the act by your wife, i hope she kicks you to the kerb and she takes 3/4 of your wealth( if you are a rich man)

or better still she turns the table on you and she goes out and do the same thing you are contemplating!

Go on and do it
Nothing wrong with it.
All you have to do after that isto carry the fattest bible you can find and go to church on sunday.
Do not forget to sing at the top of your voice so that eveyone will see what a good man you are.
But what the hell at the end of  a long day you will reap what you sow.

My dearest sister's i had anticipated such reply if this is a way of saying don't i really appreciate it but i need more than that i really do.

What more do you need?
Go and cheat on your wife noone cares .She is not our sister or our mother not even our friend.

nightfall:

My dearest sister's i had anticipated such reply if this is a way of saying don't i really appreciate it but i need more than that i really do.

what else do you need?

for us to find a gal for you to cheat with? abegie ! _{* roll eyes*}

Naijacutee, girl you cracked me up! Lol

dude, you reap what you sow, what have you to gain by so doing? Ehn? Just think if it was the other way round, how would you feel, i guess you were like this before you got married and its hard adjusting to one woman. Don't let your manhood do the thinking! Use your brain!

They have said it all, My conclusion is u dont deserve ur beautiful wife

naijacutee:

Coming soon - Shall I cheat on my husband because I saw someone that looks like him? Please honest opinions only!

Recently released! - Can your wife cut off your penis without spilling too much brain?

Still LMFAO - when I am done, maybe i'll find something to post (by which time he may have gone and dunnit).

naijacutee:

Coming soon - Shall I cheat on my husband because I saw someone that looks like him? Please honest opinions only!

Recently released! - Can your wife cut off your penis without spilling too much brain?

OMG. your cracking me up.

@ topic,

I wonder why you need permision to cheat. Like nairalanders would be the one to face your wife

mamaput unlike most of the member's in this room who are young men and girls i consider you elderly i picked intrest in you when i read your posting i was quite impressed considering the number of postings you had placed regarding different issues mostly on family issue's we can all contribute something to humanity in different ways i guess yours is the advice you can give but you he rt my feelings when i read your last posting i know your reply would be who gives a f,  it doesn't matter . Again i saw you exchanging word with the HIV guy? yes i know am coming to my point first of all a mother like you should know not to use words like f in your profile i would like to know why you have so much anger in you and lastly i think what your doing is a great thing but try and lighting up a little bit.

Though this woman may look a lot like your wife I guess she has something that your wife doesn't have. And definitely it's not about beauty. it's something that makes her charming. Please tell us the characters of these two women. We can maybe find out the reason of you attraction and can find a way to eliminate it.

nightfall If my daughter any of my kids marry a man like you, i will go to your house pack their bags and bring them home.
Its men like you that make me angry.
Well not men like you because i know what you wrote is a big fat lie am just playing along.

@ mamaput. i still think that his attraction concerns something deeper. And also the wife leaving him is not the best solution. What a shame to be deprived of your husband by a sosia.

There are many men in this world.A man that sleeps around can bring home death to his wife (Aids) and render his children Orphans.
The first duty of a Wife /mother is to protect the kids.

@ topic

pls by all means go ahead!

mamaput come on i know your more intelligent than that first of all i have no reason to lie i had hoped that i would receive reply mainly from men like me that would say yes it happend to me once or this is how to go about it but offcause you took offense not to me but to all men who cant keep to one woman this issue here is it can happens not only to men ladies the married once especially can you honestly tell me that at a time in your life you've never been tempted to or let me phrase it found a man, boy, guy attractive that you fantasized about that person mama put i have not committed a sin am voicing out to be saved. Secondly you see you women cause more harm than peace in a home a mother should not interfer in her daughter's marriage a word of wisdom is enough.

thank you Mich the only advantage this other woman has over my wife is that she is younger than my wife apart from that my wife is more educated smarther and more intelligent than this lady then y am i attracted to this lady i don't know maybe it's the x factor i don't like the idea my self but it's just that anytime i see her things change my god am sure mama will explode when she reads my last posting. Mama everything comes with a price your vast experience with people and issue's is taking it's toll on you the ability to read an article or story and know wheather it's true or fiction is a sensitive thing i would assume an intelligent woman like you should know that like on the issue of you friend simple logic gave him up you provided your facts and proved your point in my case you were wrong very wrong.

Davidlyan ?

night fall

bro, sounds like u have already done it to me

Nightfall,

Since you asked if you should cheat on your wife, I will advice you don't.  Not that you need my permision anyway.  But take my brotherly advice, DON'T DO IT!  Not just that, PLEASE stop comparing her and your wife.  It's pointless.

Tell me, what does she physically have that your wife doesn't?  And stop dwelling on the issue too.  The more you do, the more your mind gets imprinted with the thought before it translates into the actual act, the end of which I'm sure you don't want.  It is never a sin to be tempted, but woe to the man that falls into temptation!

Remove her image from your mind, think about your lovely wife instead- spend time with her, build your relationship with your wife.  This other lady will only bring you fleeting pleasure, then guilt, and after heartache, disappointment, maybe STD or HIV, maybe separation or divorce, and the vicious cycle continues.   Ask yourself, is it worth all these, and does your wife deserve it?

Think twice, friend and be wise!

Should you cheat on your wife? Absolutely! (make sure she catches you so she can be free of you)

Ok, the thing about your desire for this ugly girl is that you need to tell your wife how you feel. The knowledge that she is monitoring your movements will probably keep you in check. Then you must start avoiding the ugly girl.

Dude, I'll make sure your wife hears about this if I were to know you.

You said it yourself that you have absolutely no reason to do it.
Why are you here then.
To obtain the licence to do it
Someone to blame for messing up
The the classical case of Adam's reply to God:  ",  the woman you gave me led me into eating the apple"

Dammit!!
I will not be the reason why you loose your self control and respect.

dominobaby:

Davidlyan ?

He asked a question and i gave him the best possible answer (actually the answer he was seeking for!) No sane man takes permission from others to cheat on his wife.

Again @ topic

Pls carry go!

I never in my whole life started something new without ending the old one.
I have never cheated.
And i never ever went out looking at others as long as i was happy with what i had.
I always say when something is not working out , go.
Even my Daughter would say here that she will never forgive a man that.
Let me give you an example. She is a very good looking girl, when people heard she is no more with her boyfriend they were after her.
But she did not want any of them,
Guess why.
She has friends that flirt alot and she did not want to risk dating a boy that has had his mouth in her friends mouth.
The first question she ask was do you know **** and ***** .If the answer was yes that was it.
The main reason she is with her boyfriend now is because he dose not know these girls.
The boy she is going out with is not a happening boy and she likes it that way.
Her last boyfriend was a big time happening boy because he is a B.Boy But he too had eyes only for her and dancing.

If she is like that at this age 17 what do you think she will be like later.

Marrage must not be forever . Not if you not happy.
I am not angry or bitter about anything my ex husband and i did not break up fighting.
We did not even need a lawyer. But had to take one for the devorce.
Am not a fighter . if something dose not suit me i pack and go, or walk someone out.

na wa for you o mamaput.

you make marriage sound so scarry. Marriage is forever o! If my wife packed up and left, i will simply pack up and leave this earth jeje!

Guy cheat after all we men cheat and it is the place of women to forgive us

Seun, I wonder why you allowed such a dumb topic to be put on the discussion list. Let the guy go ahead and cheat if he wants. I cannot advise such a person.

NL no go kill persin one day o

Actually, one thing about this kind of urge is that until u do the shyt, u can never be urself. Bro, na u know o

we are all humans, and some times we all slip up in some way. Obviously u have seen someone other than ur wife whome u are attracted to, and u are thinkin of cheating on your wife with her, but u should ask yourself whome do u really want to be with ur wife or the other woman? Is a little pleasure worth loosin ur marriage and the lives u have both worked together for? I want u to also ask urself, how would u feel if u find out that ur wife is actually thinking of the same thing u are about to do.

Though i'm a guy, i'm strongly against cheating ESPECIALLY when he is married. _{You are not only offending your wife but your children} STOP IT OR ELSE BE PREPARED FOR THE CONSEQUENCE!!!