We knew each other for years even before we started the relationship. I never dreamed or even thought of dating dis guy because he is like a "no go" area 4 me(reason is because am way too older than he is). We serve in thesame unit in the church bt we hardly spoke 2 each other, I really like his calmness and gentleness and this made me created more interest in getting 2 know him better. Oneday, he cought me stirring at him and he immediately confronted me with this accusation, he said and I quote " why are u stirring at me? Do u have a crush on me?", jeez! I was speachless, no word could come out of my mouth at that particular moment. From that day on, he started calling me his crush and I call him that aswell.

Although it was all on a level of joke as I didn't have any hidden agender, but unknown to me he actually meant what he says. After spending the holiday, I went back to school and we chat mostly on whatsapp that was how it all began. We never really had any form of agreement to date, cos he didn't actually ask me out and I was owk with it. All my intention then was that, as soon as I find a guy I like and want 2 date, I'll just let him know and everything will stop, but to my gre atest amusement, I fell in love with him coupled with the type of care and attention he gave 2 me, this inturn made me not 2 give any other guy the chance even when I know deep down that the relationship has no future. To cut the story shot, six months letter, I started noticing some changes in his behavior, he wasn't honest with me anymore, uses so different girls pic on his DP, and I also started hearing so many rumors on how he flirt around with different girls, so we had to end the relationship. After a month, he started visiting me again and every time he visit, we will both end up kissing and romancing (no sex) 4 what may look like eternity (trust me it feels good) what baffles me most is that he gets angry and jealous whenever he sees me with another guy, so last Saturday, ask him 2 let us DTR (define the relationship) and all he could say is that "I don't want u 2 date any other guy cos I want b able to handle it, so let's just be what we are till when am ready 2 start dating again"
Please romancelanders, I need a mature advice on what to do, because trully am also finding it difficult to move on since he is still here, can't stop him from coming to our house and I can't stop my self from getting emotional when ever he comes around cos I still love him.
Mature advice please.......thanks guys!

hmm well according to what i can decipher from ur acute postology, its that the guy has some hidden palavation in his mindology, hav u ever confront him and require to acquire d reason why he dnt want to actualize datetology now, why is he taking time? ask him and get his responsive reproval, he must tell u a reasonable answer or else if he refuse to communicate his inner demons then move on with ur lifetology.

Girls Girls Girls , Always Falling For guys Who do Not Love them and Ignoring guys who love them since 1900

Naomite:
We knew each other for years even before we started the relationship. I never dreamed or even thought of dating dis guy because he is like a "no go" area 4 me(reason is because am way too older than he is). We serve in thesame unit in the church bt we hardly spoke 2 each other, I really like his calmness and gentleness and this made me created more interest in getting 2 know him better. Oneday, he cought me stirring at him and he immediately confronted me with this accusation, he said and I quote " why are u stirring at me? Do u have a crush on me?", jeez! I was speachless, no word could come out of my mouth at that particular moment. From that day on, he started calling me his crush and I call him that aswell.

Although it was all on a level of joke as I didn't have any hidden agender, but unknown to me he actually meant what he says. After spending the holiday, I went back to school and we chat mostly on whatsapp that was how it all began. We never really had any form of agreement to date, cos he didn't actually ask me out and I was owk with it. All my intention then was that, as soon as I find a guy I like and want 2 date, I'll just let him know and everything will stop, but to my gre atest amusement, I fell in love with him coupled with the type of care and attention he gave 2 me, this inturn made me not 2 give any other guy the chance even when I know deep down that the relationship has no future. To cut the story shot, six months letter, I started noticing some changes in his behavior, he wasn't honest with me anymore, uses so different girls pic on his DP, and I also started hearing so many rumors on how he flirt around with different girls, so we had to end the relationship. After a month, he started visiting me again and every time he visit, we will both end up kissing and romancing (no sex) 4 what may look like eternity (trust me it feels good) what baffles me most is that he gets angry and jealous whenever he sees me with another guy, so last Saturday, ask him 2 let us DTR (define the relationship) and all he could say is that "I don't want u 2 date any other guy cos I want b able to handle it, so let's just be what we are till when am ready 2 start dating again"
Please romancelanders, I need a mature advice on what to do, because trully am also finding it difficult to move on since he is still here, can't stop him from coming to our house and I can't stop my self from getting emotional when ever he comes around cos I still love him.
Mature advice please.......thanks guys!

SO YOU BOTH ARE FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS? THATS LIKE TASTING SOUP YOU WONT EAT

U'll grow old waiting 4 him oo

U berra move d hell on, unless e owns u

so u want to wait?issokay .Smh and whistling

You've successfully turned yourself to his toy. Dude's got nothing for you

He even made you realise by telling you he's only using you to bid time until he finds a girl he truly loves. So what else do you want? Stay with him till he finds a girl then it'll be dawn on you that yur on a long thing? Or quit now, get healed up and find yourself another man?

Well, the ball is in your court. Be wise!

he is using jazz on u....run for ur dear life(just kidding)....babe u need to move on and forget about d idiot,he does not deserve u.....dere are tons of guys out dere dat might even kill themselves to have u as their gf. Life is too short to waste on one yeye guy ***move on***

*in drake voice* work..work...work..hot line bling...



Just passing...lalalalala..loliloliololo..

Mimido2:
he is using jazz on u....run for ur dear life(just kidding)....babe u need to move on and forget about d idiot,he does not deserve u.....dere are tons of guys out dere dat might even kill themselves to have u as their gf. Life is too short to waste on one yeye guy ***move on***

Irumole...
Don't even know what it means

yuiop:
Irumole... Don't even know what it means

hmmmmmm

Stop molesting the young man

It's Better U Call It Quit So That U Can Meet The Right Person. U Said U Are Older Than Him So Certainly His Not Ready Yet For Any Serious Thing.

My dear fellow female drop him and find love d guy is using u to heal till he finds love

If u stay longer he wud hurt u deeply just leave!!!!! I beg u

My advice is as simple as your name. Dump him before he does that to you. You guys have nothing going and he knows that but being a guy his ego coupled with the liberty he gets dating older woman will make him want to keep you but you do not have that luxury of time

are u sure no sex yet

STFUareyouGod:
You've successfully turned yourself to his toy. Dude's got nothing for you

He even made you realise by telling you he's only using you to bid time until he finds a girl he truly loves. So what else do you want? Stay with him till he finds a girl then it'll be dawn on you that yur on a long thing? Or quit now, get healed up and find yourself another man?

Well, the ball is in your court. Be wise!

Thanks 4 the advice
I have tried 2 call it quite so many times but I still end up finding my self with him again.

LORDSAMURAI:
hmm well according to what i can decipher from ur acute postology, its that the guy has some hidden palavation in his mindology, hav u ever confront him and require to acquire d reason why he dnt want to actualize datetology now, why is he taking time? ask him and get his responsive reproval, he must tell u a reasonable answer or else if he refuse to communicate his inner demons then move on with ur lifetology.

U really got me with ur grammer dude. Thanks 4 ur advice tho

OK lady, here's what's going to happen in the not-too-distant future. the two of you are gonna "fvck" each other (pardon my language), and afterwards he's gonna dump you, as sure as the sun will rise from the east tomorrow morning.

my two cents? dump him. before he uses you to score cheap points.

BTW, don't churches preach against immorality anymore these days?

Tell him u av H I V case solved

Naomite:

U really got me with ur grammer dude. Thanks 4 ur advice tho

lol ure welcum, i hope u undastood

Naomite:

Thanks 4 the advice
I have tried 2 call it quite so many times but I still end up finding my self with him again.

You either move on now, or be forced to move on which might cause you some pain

LORDSAMURAI:
lol ure welcum, i hope u undastood

Of course I did. Thanks

STFUareyouGod:
You either move on now, or be forced to move on which might cause you some pain

Owk thanks! I'll try again, I guess this time I'll have 2 do it with all determination.

austine4real:
Tell him u av H I V case solved

Jeez! Dats horrible

Naomite:

Owk thanks! I'll try again, I guess this time I'll have 2 do it with all determination.

just quit every contact you have with him. I understand it's gonna be hard, but with time and determination, you'll move on


I wish you all the best
Cheers

Naomite:
Jeez! Dats horrible

u want him 2 leave u abi?



Do as i say

Mimido2:
hmmmmmm

Who's mimido2

When I saw the caption, I thought it was a sugar daddy...... Because I heard it was only sugar daddies that will not marry u and will not equally let u go

U knew this relationship is not going anywhere according to u...... so why were u wasting your time...

U are older than him, u should have an upper hand in making this kind of decision......If he proves stubborn, just bring out your belt and tell him if he doesn't evaporate from your house and condense somewhere, U will flog hallelujah out of his skin

yuiop:
Who's mimido2

someone u don't know

kontinu sister naomite

Eyah love is a mystery funny enof some serious guys dey trip 4 u as if tomoro no dey.....i don pm you shaaaa and i stay around akure