Such is life actually

Am hungry and cant reason correctly

time wait for no man....

A lot of women are losing good husbands because of they feel their biological clock is ticking.


Well newsflash.. marriage is no respecter of age

goodgirl2409:
My friend and this guys have been friends for 2 years now. My friend is 28 and the guy is 29. They have had a very wonderful relationship so far. However,she broke up with him because the guy has gone back to school to read a 5 years course(second degree) and they are in different states(long distant relationship). The guy have been telling her to support him that they would get married soon but from the look of things,he has no job and now he has his academics to face. She got really tired of everything because once in a while,she supports him financially. She said she was tired of waiting for something that won't come soon and she wanted to move on. She has been crying since because she fills the guy is a good guy that maybe she would have been patient. I have told her she did the right thing because that guy won't be settling down soon considering the facts on ground and if he really wanted her,he wouldn't have put his academics first, he would have found a job so that he can marry her as he promised her right from time. Romancelanders hasn't she made the right decision?

AH! YES O!

She's 28? The guy wan go spend another 5 years for school? Im nor PROMISE/DO BLOOD OATH/ SWEAR FOR SHRINE say im go marry her?

OMO NA THE BEST DECISION SHE MAKE O!

Can't he marry her first before going back to school? Hence the girl is doing well according to the story.The girl support him at times financially.

Yes she did the right thing. But what if after the 5 years she abandoned the guy and she's still hustling for a husband while the guy is now made and ready to settle down.
Now that's a though question
Who loose

ThreeGEEKS:
Yes she did the right thing. But what if after the 5 years she abandoned the guy and she's still hustling for a husband while the guy is now made and ready to settle down.
Now that's a though question
Who loose

That is it ooo. But life is a risk,what if she waits and the guy doesn't still marry her?

hollywater:
Can't he marry her first before going back to school? Hence the girl is doing well according to the story.The girl support him at times financially.

That was my reasoning too,how long does he expect her to be waiting?

5 +28=33...good decision....just take him off your mind coz if you are my sister I will tell you the same thing. Whatz the assurance he will marry you after waiting for another 5years.wipe your tears jare

She made the right decision. Before you descend in the said lady, out yourself in her shoes.

whatever.

She made the right decision.

Pwhitelaw:
5 +28=33...good decision....just take him off your mind coz if you are my sister I will tell you the same thing. Whatz the assurance he will marry you after waiting for another 5years.wipe your tears jare

Thank you so much,that's exactly my reasoning too.

JhimmySpark:
She made the right decision.

Thank you jare. Am happy she is on nairaland so she gets to read the comment.

PiperAlpha:
She made the right decision. Before you descend in the said lady, out yourself in her shoes.

Ya,I understand her pain,after two years of investing in a relationship,she has to leave it and start again.

Debola69:


AH! YES O!

She's 28? The guy wan go spend another 5 years for school? Im nor PROMISE/DO BLOOD OATH/ SWEAR FOR SHRINE say im go marry her?

OMO NA THE BEST DECISION SHE MAKE O!

Ya,it is

Hunger:
Am hungry and cant reason correctly

Lol

goodgirl2409:
My friend and this guys have been friends for 2 years now. My friend is 28 and the guy is 29. They have had a very wonderful relationship so far. However,she broke up with him because the guy has gone back to school to read a 5 years course(second degree) and they are in different states(long distant relationship). The guy have been telling her to support him that they would get married soon but from the look of things,he has no job and now he has his academics to face. She got really tired of everything because once in a while,she supports him financially. She said she was tired of waiting for something that won't come soon and she wanted to move on. She has been crying since because she fills the guy is a good guy that maybe she would have been patient. I have told her she did the right thing because that guy won't be settling down soon considering the facts on ground and if he really wanted her,he wouldn't have put his academics first, he would have found a job so that he can marry her as he promised her right from time. Romancelanders hasn't she made the right decision?

are u sure u not the girl?

Raphael81:
are u sure u not the girl?

Even though am the one,no wahala

Although I didn't read ur write up bt Sorry

goodgirl2409:
My friend and this guys have been friends for 2 years now. My friend is 28 and the guy is 29. They have had a very wonderful relationship so far. However,she broke up with him because the guy has gone back to school to read a 5 years course(second degree) and they are in different states(long distant relationship). The guy have been telling her to support him that they would get married soon but from the look of things,he has no job and now he has his academics to face. She got really tired of everything because once in a while,she supports him financially. She said she was tired of waiting for something that won't come soon and she wanted to move on. She has been crying since because she fills the guy is a good guy that maybe she would have been patient. I have told her she did the right thing because that guy won't be settling down soon considering the facts on ground and if he really wanted her,he wouldn't have put his academics first, he would have found a job so that he can marry her as he promised her right from time. Romancelanders hasn't she made the right decision?

Then if he marries her without money you will be the first person to criticize saying she should have waited for him to finish his studies. Or worse you will ask her to leave him because he doesnt have money

Women and looking @clock's hand

goodgirl2409:


That is it ooo. But life is a risk,what if she waits and the guy doesn't still marry her?

Lols, life is a risk true true. But it will pain her most is the guy eventually marries b4 her. Weather made or not. Certainly, he will be made.



Who goes for 2nd degree in this harsh economy of no jobs? Him no see masters do, him no see PhD do, na second degree, ur friend didn't make any wrong choice.





Me, wey de vex say, if to say I know, I for use all my skul fees, house rents flexing money, handout and text books + sorting take start business, after 5yrs, I for don hamma well well.

chigoizie7:



Lols, life is a risk true true. But it will pain her most is the guy eventually marries b4 her. Weather made or not. Certainly, he will be made.



Who goes for 2nd degree in this harsh economy of no jobs? Him no see masters do, him no see PhD do, na second degree, ur friend didn't make any wrong choice.





Me, wey de vex say, if to say I know, I for use all my skul fees, house rents flexing money, handout and text books + sorting take start business, after 5yrs, I for don hamma well well.

true talk
U for don dey employ graduates now

goodgirl2409:
My friend and this guys have been friends for 2 years now. My friend is 28 and the guy is 29. They have had a very wonderful relationship so far. However,she broke up with him because the guy has gone back to school to read a 5 years course(second degree) and they are in different states(long distant relationship). The guy have been telling her to support him that they would get married soon but from the look of things,he has no job and now he has his academics to face. She got really tired of everything because once in a while,she supports him financially. She said she was tired of waiting for something that won't come soon and she wanted to move on. She has been crying since because she fills the guy is a good guy that maybe she would have been patient. I have told her she did the right thing because that guy won't be settling down soon considering the facts on ground and if he really wanted her,he wouldn't have put his academics first, he would have found a job so that he can marry her as he promised her right from time. Romancelanders hasn't she made the right decision?

nairalanders, stop saying my friend when you are the lady in question …

bardella1:
true talk
U for don dey employ graduates now

I de tell u oh.

Person go waste time for university for this stupid country.

chigoizie7:



I de tell u oh.

Person go waste time for university for this stupid country.

lol
U can still start d business now tho

Cutehector:
A lot of women are losing good husbands because of they feel their biological clock is ticking.


Well newsflash.. marriage is no respecter of age

surprised this is coming from a (m) moniker,thought most men feel women have no time to dilly dally with time

bardella1:
lol
U can still start d business now tho

Exactly what I am doing now. But I am just recounting the lost years and resources.

Cutehector:
A lot of women are losing good husbands because of they feel their biological clock is ticking.


Well newsflash.. marriage is no respecter of age

Lol