mimopel:
Happy sunday friends and families

Happy new month

Pls I want us to share our views on what we think about pornography....if it's good for Christian couples to watch pornography maybe because of inexperience or sth or its not good to watch...

I think pornography is practical wrong for Christian couples whether inexperience or not I believe sex is an expression of love and u make love to Ur spouse base on how u feel u want to express ur sexual burning desire. I think pornography is not ideal, to me I don't see the holy spirit encouraging that, but I could be wrong so please I need your sincere thought on dis...Pls not of a carnal mindset...but on the spiritual foresight with biblical backings if any thnx
posted it here because romance section have full traffic Dan religion let's air out view thnx

The people making the porn are going against the will of God, because they are usually not married to each other, and what they are doing is either fornication or adultery, so why would you as a Christian buy what they are doing to enjoy ?

PORN IS NOT GOOD 4 BOTH D SINGLE AND MARRIED

Integrityfarms:


Indecency is Indecency no matter who does it!

but there is good po.rno and bad po.rno depending on the type you want to watch.

c4tnoelz:
Pornograpy is satanic all true followers of Christ should stay away from it. Resist the devil and he will flee from you

are you a virgin?.

Does that mean giving my Wife a Doggy is a sin? #BleepThaShit

cbrass:


Are you married? If not please strive to marry a man inexperienced in sex

Lolzzzzzzz..... ....and why should I that ??

Abayhormy:

The people making the porn are going against the will of God, because they are usually not married to each other, and what they are doing is either fornication or adultery, so why would you as a Christian buy what they are doing to enjoy ?

Hmmmmm

Who taught the fishes how to swim, who taught Adam how to make love to Eve? Pornography has no justifications, it's a sin.

It not good at all because the person you're watching his unclothedness is not your spouse, so it's wrong to. watch.

Abbeyunique2:
so How will christian couples who are virgin have experience? abi nah only missionary dem go dey do just because they are christian, no pre-intimacy no mouthgig, nothing. moreover sex education is kinda alien to us So if they shouldn't watch mojo, how do they improve their selflife? or are they not entitled to fabulous sexlife.

u dnt need Indecency movies to Bleep in different positions. Did anybody teach how to insert ur hardware into a software?

Murasi

goingape:
lol

You hear! How you take hear am if you no dey go backyard take watch am.


Nigeria Christian are hypocritie to the highest order

I don't watch porn ......u cn call that "hypocrisy " its still a name thnx

uchwar1:
u dnt need Indecency movies to Bleep in different positions. Did anybody teach how to insert ur hardware into a software?

so u are suggesting it's natural for different position?

mimopel:


Wats dat stuff on ur head?...like a question mark or sth....or u've got horns?? ...

lolzz
so a lady can be funny
or is this a guy with a female identity?

mimopel:
Am yet to see a contrary view....after all not everybody thinks pornography is bad...so any counter view?

if pornography is bad then husband and wife having sex together is bad too....
the most important thing is that, some of so called Christian don't really know what Christianity is. couples watching pornography is bad and evil if it get deep to there mind, if they start focusing too much on it...

Ok

mimopel:
Happy sunday friends and families

Happy new month

Pls I want us to share our views on what we think about pornography....if it's good for Christian couples to watch pornography maybe because of inexperience or sth or its not good to watch...

I think pornography is practical wrong for Christian couples whether inexperience or not I believe sex is an expression of love and u make love to Ur spouse base on how u feel u want to express ur sexual burning desire. I think pornography is not ideal, to me I don't see the holy spirit encouraging that, but I could be wrong so please I need your sincere thought on dis...Pls not of a carnal mindset...but on the spiritual foresight with biblical backings if any thnx
posted it here because romance section have full traffic Dan religion let's air out view thnx

Thers a kinda informative/educative kinda porn, which emphasizes LOVE, RELAXATION, INTIMACY nd suitable positions. This type doesnt overrate sex nd it teaches how to please ur partner as well as concieving. Its even endorsed by professional doctors nd sexperts.

This shldnt be a probs for xtain couples. Their sexual thirsts nd urges shld be satisfied too!

mimopel:


I don't watch porn ......u cn call that "hypocrisy " its still a name thnx

someone is watching you.
Hope you know that

Abbeyunique2:

so u are suggesting it's natural for different position?

yes sir.! It is initiative. The sweetness can generate different styles on one's head

doskie:
lolzz
so a lady can be funny
or is this a guy with a female identity?

Maybe.....so wats ur view sir

Porn is evil

Endtime xtian couple[b][/b]

thesicilian:
Pornography is from the devil, & should never be allowed to have a place in any Christian setting - be it the home, office or church. period.

Pornography is from the devil, yet you act it in your room.

Okay o.

Guys!!! Lets not be overly hypocritical towards the topic of discourse. There is nothing wrong in "correctly" using pornography to improve your sex life in marriage. Once you are married, you are married. Sex in it self is made to be enjoyed and deserves to be felt intimately.

Variety is the spice of life. Do not use the excuse of being a christian to deny yourself some of the goodies of life. And it is not everything you share with your pastor!!!

Like drinking, there is a proper use of it; and there is an abuse of it. If properly used, porn has many good sides; but if improperly used, or abused, it may lead to a disastrous end like every other thing in life. The key is remaining subtle, and not being overly addicted or unrealistically expectant of things which are not.

Porn has the potential of improving your sexual dexterity. Mind you, it goes beyond the videos, the articles you read may rightly fall into this classification also. It is if you allow yourself to be carried away, that is where the problem is. Being a christian does not mean you should deny your partner good sex, and if a little porn can you insights to the many various variety or approach to enjoying sex; I see nothing wrong with it. More so, it is between you and better half.

***My thoughts o!!! Don't crucify me Nairalanders***

mimopel:
Gbam!....well said @ thesicilian and cruzita but some christians try to justify why couples watch pornography, for example both parties stayed away from pre marital sex which is very honouring neither have previous sexual partners dey are expected to learn sexually act through watching porn together. How do we argue dis?

Abbeyunique2:
so How will christian couples who are virgin have experience? abi nah only missionary dem go dey do just because they are christian, no pre-intimacy no mouthgig, nothing. moreover sex education is kinda alien to us So if they shouldn't watch mojo, how do they improve their selflife? or are they not entitled to fabulous sexlife.

I honestly worry when I read stuff like this. I'm hoping the people saying this are adults, if you are, lemme give you a little help.

http://www.themarriagebed.com. They're also on social media.

Research and Google are your friends. If you can type out the question here, you can look it up, and it doesn't have to lead to porn or X rated sites. There are enough medical sites out there that can guide you (no pun intended) in the right direction.

Both parties have to be prepared to learn and grow sexually together. There are no hard and fast rules and it's not a do or die affair. But it does require a lot of patience, openness and honesty.

Pornography is NEVER the answer. It's a slippery slope devoid of reality, apart from the unclothedness and basic anatomical act. Real life is much better than porn.

Abbeyunique2:
so How will christian couples who are virgin have experience? abi nah only missionary dem go dey do just because they are christian, no pre-intimacy no mouthgig, nothing. moreover sex education is kinda alien to us So if they shouldn't watch mojo, how do they improve their selflife? or are they not entitled to fabulous sexlife.

How did ur grandfather bleeped ur grandma b4 porn movies?. or do u have to teach a blind man to always eat with his mouth? so having Sex is nt related to Indecency at all cos what they even do is nt achievable in real live, they act on drugs

mimopel:
Gbam!....well said @ thesicilian and cruzita but some christians try to justify why couples watch pornography, for example both parties stayed away from pre marital sex which is very honouring neither have previous sexual partners dey are expected to learn sexually act through watching porn together. How do we argue dis?

No one teaches u hw to laugh, walk, cry, f_ck etc nature & d creator has put it in our subconsciousness, dat is y if u lock a boy & a girl in a room at a tender age & continue to feed dem until dey reach certain age, dey will naturally start having sex without any previous experience, knowledge or practice from any satanic boyfriend or girlfriend.......

mimopel:


Mouthgig?? ....in a christian marriage?? ...let's leave dat one....so wat exactly is Ur view...u think it's not bad??....

Wha is mouth gig?
.... Abeg make una nondey form over holy pass jare! God has given spouses authority over the other's body so what is there? Or is it mentioned anywhere that mouth gig is a sin?

You over holy pass people will be formulating sins for yourselves.

As for porn... I don't think it's good cause it has its bad effects and the holyspirit doesn't agree with it. There are tutorials on the internet that can help curious couples though. That is better than porn.

If you go through 'Every Woman' book, there are topics that address sex and all that. It's a good alternative to porn.

Tolexander:
Pornography should have nothing to do in a "practising" Christian home. The act of performing sex to entertain is a sin.

If any young couple see any naivity in any of the partner's sexual dexterity, let them consult their pastor, provided the pastor won't secretly exercise the sexual act on the female partner for "physical orientation" to the couple. Some of our pastors today, may God save us from them.

Daft idiot it's pastor that would teach them how to have sex!!!

What kind of experience is this madam looking for.if both of you have not had sex before,then that makes the two of you.what else are you looking for since you've got no experience..who told you, you have to do it in a special way.if you're inexperienced,you're inexperience.you should enjoy it that way. Don't watch PORN.it'll corrupt you and everything that has to do with your spiritual Life.except you aren't christian. Even at that is still not cool as such.

repogirl:
Wha is mouth gig?
.... Abeg make una nondey form over holy pass jare! God has given spouses authority over the other's body so what is there? Or is it mentioned anywhere that mouth gig is a sin?

You over holy pass people will be formulating sins for yourselves.

As for porn... I don't think it's good cause it has its bad effects and the holyspirit doesn't agree with it. There are tutorials on the internet that can help curious couples though. That is better than porn.

If you go through 'Every Woman' book, there are topics that address sex and all that. It's a good alternative to porn.

Thanx ma...yes that book is really helpful

In love making or sex as the case may be, trying to improve oneself sex life by means of watching mojo exposes the partners involve to a wild fartasty which usual da never get from each other.so for me its a NO for a christain couple however my advise is for the couple to take it one step at a time and OPEN THEIR HEART TO ENJOY THE ART OF LOVE MAKING.
EVERY MOVE, RHYTHM AND SO ON.