mimopel:
Gbam!....well said @ thesicilian and cruzita but some christians try to justify why couples watch pornography, for example both parties stayed away from pre marital sex which is very honouring neither have previous sexual partners dey are expected to learn sexually act through watching porn together. How do we argue dis?

for couples that came together from such background of pure sexual life doesn't need porn at all. porn is provocative & can make u loose interest in ur partner & godly sex. it is addictive that one would soon get interested in those wild & group sex thereby seeing ur partner as someone u r used to. man gets bored of godly sex if he watches porn. as per d couples learning sexual performance, there's nothing much learn in sex. u perfect as time goes on. nobody taught me sex & each & every meeting with my wife ends up in her singing my praises.

Icaretoo:
In love making or sex as the case may be, trying to improve oneself sex life by means of watching mojo exposes the partners involve to a wild fartasty which usual da never get from each other.so for me its a NO for a christain couple however my advise is for the couple to take it one step at a time and OPEN THEIR HEART TO ENJOY THE ART OF LOVE MAKING.
EVERY MOVE, RHYTHM AND SO ON.

adexgii:

How did ur grandfather bleeped ur grandma b4 porn movies?. or do u have to teach a blind man to always eat with his mouth? so having Sex is nt related to Indecency at all cos what they even do is nt achievable in real live, they act on drugs

Must you call out my grannies to make a point? or must everyone share ur opinion? God bless you bro and please you are homosapien, act like one

lielbree:

Na which kind of talk be this today Sunday?

Don't mind the byatch and she claims that she doesn't knw about doggy and 69

It is not ideal oh. Having sex in marriage is NOT also ideal. Na sin!
You see wetin religion don do una?
Mchew

mimopel:
Gbam!....well said @ thesicilian and cruzita but some christians try to justify why couples watch pornography, for example both parties stayed away from pre marital sex which is very honouring neither have previous sexual partners dey are expected to learn sexually act through watching porn together. How do we argue dis?

You only learn crazy way of sex through porn.Christian life does not encourage that kind of sex,it should have decency in it.Don't be deceived .

Light and darkness has nothing in common. Pornography and christianity can never mix. Nobody teaches anybody how to have sex, we should not use that as an excuse.

mimopel:
Am yet to see a contrary view....after all not everybody thinks pornography is bad...so any counter view?

Push not anyone to sin with their utterances because you want views.

Abbeyunique2:
so How will christian couples who are virgin have experience? abi nah only missionary dem go dey do just because they are christian, no pre-intimacy no mouthgig, nothing. moreover sex education is kinda alien to us So if they shouldn't watch mojo, how do they improve their selflife? or are they not entitled to fabulous sexlife.

Which one of them complained to you ?Watch your mouth or angels Slap you.

Darlx:
Guys!!! Lets not be overly hypocritical towards the topic of discourse. There is nothing wrong in "correctly" using pornography to improve your sex life in marriage. Once you are married, you are married. Sex in it self is made to be enjoyed and deserves to be felt intimately.

Variety is the spice of life. Do not use the excuse of being a christian to deny yourself some of the goodies of life. And it is not everything you share with your pastor!!!

Like drinking, there is a proper use of it; and there is an abuse of it. If properly used, porn has many good sides; but if improperly used, or abused, it may lead to a disastrous end like every other thing in life. The key is remaining subtle, and not being overly addicted or unrealistically expectant of things which are not.

Porn has the potential of improving your sexual dexterity. Mind you, it goes beyond the videos, the articles you read may rightly fall into this classification also. It is if you allow yourself to be carried away, that is where the problem is. Being a christian does not mean you should deny your partner good sex, and if a little porn can you insights to the many various variety or approach to enjoying sex; I see nothing wrong with it. More so, it is between you and better half.

***My thoughts o!!! Don't crucify me Nairalanders***

In truth mojo meant do the treak for guys cos u are mostly moved by wat u see but to be honest with u, if ur lady is not feeling it , she not feeling it.Sex is AN ART AND A RHYTHM TO FLOW WITH, IN RESPECTIVE OF THE POSITION FOR LADIES BASICALLY AND ALSO HAVING AN OPEN MIND AND READY TO EXPOLE would go a long way than the mojo thingn

thesicilian:

Learn? Experience?
Those are very lame excuses I must say. Does a child learn how to cry? Does he learn how to crawl? Those are very innate traits that will reveal themselves when the time comes

I doubt if there was anybody on ground to teach Adam and Eve how to have intercourse when they were created in the garden.

I guess when people talk about experience, what they actually mean is 'doing it the way that it is generally accepted by the public' The main ingredient in love making, as the term implies, is love. Once a couple loves and understands each other, and know how to communicate their feelings and desires to each other, what else is there to 'learn' from demonic books and videos?

God bless you.

Abbeyunique2:

It's not bad since they are married, research shows that 70% newly wedded couples injure themselves while trying out new sex position. moreover human being are curious in nature, they like to explore. Mojo gives them starting point. being christian doesn't mean that one shouldn't have fantastic sexlife, are u of the opinion that doggy, 69 etc among christian couples are sin?

Please go & wash your uniform & prepare for tomorrow's school. Only participate in such talks when you grow up.

Abbeyunique2:

It's not bad since they are married, research shows that 70% newly wedded couples injure themselves while trying out new sex position. moreover human being are curious in nature, they like to explore. Mojo gives them starting point. being christian doesn't mean that one shouldn't have fantastic sexlife, are u of the opinion that doggy, 69 etc among christian couples are sin?

So if it's not bad for a christian marriage, that means the christians support the act of having sex on tape even when not married right?? cos the people having sex on ur screen are not married and that's fornication.

Bible says flee.. From every appearance of evil.. If My babe is looking at anoda dudes joyrod, all in the name of inexperience, bro its evil n demonic.. Before u no am nao, one tin will lead to anoda

mimopel:



Maybe.....so wats ur view sir

I don't like porn. it creates unrealistic expectations and reduces sex to mere acting out the scripts written by porn stars. porn sends a message that sex and love should always be separate. I got kissed by a girl recently and I didn't like it because she tried continously to reach out to my tongue. this is obviously something she learned from porn. but every time she kissed my chin, I wished for more.
relating porn with Christianity. ... oopssss.... I dont do churches. not a xtian.

yungpowers:

You are seriously staring at the unclothedness of others and you're asking if it is bad.
While watching it with your spouse, doesn't your conscience condemn it.
If your conscience doesn't condemn it, then you've been given over to a depraved mind.
Some idiats will tag it sex education.
As long as you are a human being, nobody will teach you how to have s*x_, it's natural.
I can't remember the last time my cock watched pornography to f*ck every hen in my compound.

Yungpowers that was deep..u made sense shaa

Mekwen:
Please go & wash your uniform & prepare for tomorrow's school. Only participate in such talks when you grow up.

#FYM nah you don abuse? hypocrite oshi, when will Nigerians be real? well we are the most religious people on earth yet we sinned in secret and be the 1st to yab when another was caught committing the same sin. #hypocrites

[quote author=thesicilian post=44373278]
Learn? Experience?
Those are very lame excuses I must say. Does a child learn how to cry? Does he learn how to crawl? Those are very innate traits that will reveal themselves when the time comes

I doubt if there was anybody on ground to teach Adam and Eve how to have intercourse when they were created in the garden.

I guess when people talk about experience, what they actually mean is 'doing it the way that it is generally accepted by the public' The main ingredient in love making, as the term implies, is love. Once a couple loves and understands each other, and know how to communicate their feelings and desires to each other, what else is there to 'learn' from demonic books and videos?

You nailed it there
Your on point nwanne

Mekwen:
Which one of them complained to you ?Watch your mouth or angels Slap you.

you can do it for them nah, sheybi you are their (Angel) advocate. we need to respecting peoples' opinion. not everybody thinks like you. accept it

Mekwen:
Push not anyone to sin with their utterances because you want views.

Funny, but thanx

mimopel:
Happy sunday friends and families

Happy new month

Pls I want us to share our views on what we think about pornography....if it's good for Christian couples to watch pornography maybe because of inexperience or sth or its not good to watch...

I think pornography is practical wrong for Christian couples whether inexperience or not I believe sex is an expression of love and u make love to Ur spouse base on how u feel u want to express ur sexual burning desire. I think pornography is not ideal, to me I don't see the holy spirit encouraging that, but I could be wrong so please I need your sincere thought on dis...Pls not of a carnal mindset...but on the spiritual foresight with biblical backings if any thnx
posted it here because romance section have full traffic Dan religion let's air out view thnx

Was Pornography is existence when the laws governing Christianity were set?

its obscene....i no vote for am...









no one shld comment below me abeg




;Dits obscene....i no vote for am...









no one shld comment below me abeg

Alezy:
So if it's not bad for a christian marriage, that means the christians support the act of having sex on tape even when not married right?? cos the people having sex on ur screen are not married and that's fornication.

So if they are married, it will be okay? There are married couples that are porn starts you know

Abayhormy:

The people making the porn are going against the will of God, because they are usually not married to each other, and what they are doing is either fornication or adultery, so why would you as a Christian buy what they are doing to enjoy ?

Again, what if they are married? There are married couples that do porn professionally involving just the married couples in question. Your answer is not enough abeg.

freecocoa:
Pornography is from the devil, yet you act it in your room.

Okay o.

I'm not an actor.

EbolaParasite:


So if they are married, it will be okay? There are married couples that are porn starts you know

married couples that are porn stars? ? Like husband and wife? ? hnmm

Abbeyunique2:
so How will christian couples who are virgin have experience? abi nah only missionary dem go dey do just because they are christian, no pre-intimacy no mouthgig, nothing. moreover sex education is kinda alien to us So if they shouldn't watch mojo, how do they improve their selflife? or are they not entitled to fabulous sexlife.

They shld remain like that or better still ask their parents.

Nooooooooooooo. Hell noo..


She may see one guy lickn ass in d movie and be like, honey why don't u try this on me...





Hector: ifa sand u eh...

Alezy:
married couples that are porn stars? ? Like husband and wife? ? hnmm

Yes. Plenty!!

Pamelayoung:

They shld remain like that or better still ask their parents.

lol, wouldn't that be awkward? like "daddy, bawo ni won shey ma n topspin"

mimopel:



Lolzzzzzzz..... ....and why should I that ??

To avoid stories like "she is not good in bed" it's better you marry your kind