DOES THE PAST REALLY MATTER?

Hello folks, I was just thinking about this and while I am yet to know what my stand would be, in respect to the past that's revealed to me, I'll like to know your opinion.

If you are in a relationship that you know is headed towards marriage or just incase you are already married, and your spouse reveals something really ugly about their past to you, what would be your reaction?

Here are a list of some of the things I thought about. If for instance, you find out that your husband/fiancé was a cultist that actually pulled the trigger and ended someone's life, or worse still, he was in the machete/axe wielding group that butchered someone, or he was a rapist, or an armed robber, or had been involved in some human blood ritual, or that he had slept with every kind of girl available, as a fiancée/wife, what would you do if you get to know this?

As a husband/fiancé, what would you do if you find out your wife arranged some guys to beat up someone and somehow, it resulted in the death of the person, or what if she was a prostitute(runs girl) or she had done so much abortion, or that she has lost her Fallopian tubes? What if you find out that she was the native doctor visiting kinda girl?

To the both parties, what if you find out that your other half was once in a full time homosexual relationship?

If you are already married and you have found out something about your spouse that you didn't know before you got married, please what was your reaction to the revelation?

The past matters..will like to know and if ts something I can put up with,fine!! Cause when the past revisits,I don't want take part. In the consequence..The Op above me has done much justice

I don't wanta know, so far she completes me! they say ;

it depends on wat kind of past she got hersef into but mind u not all pasts can b amended so itz best u dunt get involved with such partners to avoid stories 4 linda ikeji & Romanceland

pinceprinz:
I don't wanta know, so far she completes me! they say ;

What if after you get married, somehow for some reason, some dirty secrets comes to the surface?

CopyLearner:

What if after you get married, somehow for some reason, some dirty secrets comes to the surface?

I don't care. I have dirty secrets too!