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Re: Help! My Pastor Hates Me! by Ryabcool(m): 10:43am On Apr 24, 2016 |
Aviero: |
Re: Help! My Pastor Hates Me! by NaWetinDey(m): 10:43am On Apr 24, 2016 |
Maybe he noticed that the girl he's been lusting after in church (whether he's married or not) is visibly in love with you and he couldn't imagine why you. Worse, he can't toast her for fear of being caught and brought down. So, naturally, you get the blame. No wonder he doesn't like to discus it. Or it could be you are lollipoping her little sister secretly and sb told him and her sister seemed happier and more active in/for church these days - no thanks to you. Another suggestion is that u caught him or he thought you caught him doing sth bad or that you are likely to catch him these days. If the both of you are of the opposite sex then it now gets clearer. If he sees you are financially worthless to the church then you are doomed there unles you leave. If it's just about you and he's your pastor, he should tell you. But I pray you are not a fellow pastor and doing very great in the same congregation. Because, if that's the case, then you already know why and what to do. Whatever, please stay clear of where he is your spiritual head...if you have said the whole truth though. |
Re: Help! My Pastor Hates Me! by toprealman: 10:44am On Apr 24, 2016 |
You get money from that church hence your felling of hopelessness. I think you are a "church worker" who must have done some shoddy dealings with the "pastor" now he wants you completely out of the equation due to your "smartness" Both of you need to understand the purpose of going to church before it is too late. 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Pastor Hates Me! by Sayelabola(m): 10:45am On Apr 24, 2016 |
ikupakuti: A man would always reason like a man. Ikupakuti, you have tried. Indeed woman or money could be the main crux for such....but don't forget about the SPIRITUAL thing. Ask me how and I shall tell you. |
Re: Help! My Pastor Hates Me! by BabaOlowo: 10:46am On Apr 24, 2016 |
It is obvious you are poor man, pastors love rich people, so go and hustle to be rich or u plan a coup to overthrow the pastor! |
Re: Help! My Pastor Hates Me! by malvisguy212: 10:46am On Apr 24, 2016 |
Sayelabola:if such thing happen and you try to make peace with them but they refused, leave everything to God, you cannot force someone to Love you, stay out of there way, make peace with God . |
Re: Help! My Pastor Hates Me! by oloriooko(m): 10:51am On Apr 24, 2016 |
hakim92: |
Re: Help! My Pastor Hates Me! by oloriooko(m): 10:52am On Apr 24, 2016 |
BabaOlowo: 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Pastor Hates Me! by Sayelabola(m): 10:56am On Apr 24, 2016 |
malvisguy212: And this time, you aren't forcing them or even persuading them to love or like you, but all you want is to have peace in the workplace. Good morning, I reciprocate; not having grudges or keeping malice with anyone. Of course such person could tarnish your image if the chance avail itself. Also such case if not were settled could be termed as putting fire on the roof while the owner went to bed. |
Re: Help! My Pastor Hates Me! by Akaujaa(m): 10:58am On Apr 24, 2016 |
Your pastor hates you; and so what? Thought you meant to say God hates you. If your pastor hates you, then he is not even qualified to be addressed as a pastor. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Help! My Pastor Hates Me! by Sayelabola(m): 11:02am On Apr 24, 2016 |
oloriooko: Not funny joor. Most churches are filled with the poor; the rich ones seldom goes to the church, they don't even make church their priority... they ate always after making more money and clubbing. By the way, you are the OP, you should understand better, and not give attention to digression. Happy Sunday. |
Re: Help! My Pastor Hates Me! by Nobody: 11:03am On Apr 24, 2016 |
oloriooko:Please leave, SOON, and it's always good to inform that pastor or the fellowship of your resolve to leave. Such situations can be a source of spiritual bondage. 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Pastor Hates Me! by magicfingers009: 11:04am On Apr 24, 2016 |
Aviero: LMAO. If this doesn't work, nothing else will 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Pastor Hates Me! by Lexusgs430: 11:20am On Apr 24, 2016 |
oloriooko: Have they tied you, the pastor and the church together at the hip? I bet within a mile radius of where you live, 20 churches are waiting to welcome you. SWITCH CHURCH, ABI NO BE THE SAME GOD UNA DEY WORSHIP? |
Re: Help! My Pastor Hates Me! by ikupakuti(m): 11:36am On Apr 24, 2016 |
Sayelabola: Yes! Aiye laba ola! ...and how, i ask? |
Re: Help! My Pastor Hates Me! by Nobody: 11:45am On Apr 24, 2016 |
Zceesneh:The best churches/pastors are those that do not seek and insist to involve themselves into your personal life. Those places which insist on giving you a problem you dint know you had to pray for are dangerous. Am in between churches too. Many of these places are spiritual prisons. |
Re: Help! My Pastor Hates Me! by TheSociopath(m): 11:48am On Apr 24, 2016 |
After some permutations and combinations |
Re: Help! My Pastor Hates Me! by nnamdibig(m): 11:59am On Apr 24, 2016 |
I understand what you are going through, you can't change church cos you are one of the decision makers in the church & can't risk going to another church to start all over again and the pastor is now seeing you as a treat that may out shine him(the hustle is real). If this is the case(cos that's the only reason someone will come here and complain about the pastor that doesn't pay your bill(he may be paying sha), the. I say that both you & your pastor need Jesus in your lives. Church is not a business. If the pastor is not comfortable seeing you simply change & stop complaining or better still start your own ministry(business). |
Re: Help! My Pastor Hates Me! by okrote4real: 11:59am On Apr 24, 2016 |
Must you remain there? Why you dey tell us sef |
Re: Help! My Pastor Hates Me! by Sayelabola(m): 12:01pm On Apr 24, 2016 |
ikupakuti: Ehm, have you heard about the story surrounding the death of the famous late Ikale musician...Remilekun Amos? |
Re: Help! My Pastor Hates Me! by Nobody: 12:12pm On Apr 24, 2016 |
Muafrika2:exactly i agree with you |
Re: Help! My Pastor Hates Me! by Meritocracy: 12:16pm On Apr 24, 2016 |
Dongata:Go to another Church since you're worshipping God not your pastor One thing about muslim is that you can worship in any mosque, the way they worship is the same around the world. Nobody can dictate how to worship and if try they will ask you to provide evidence on the spot. |
Re: Help! My Pastor Hates Me! by omonnakoda: 12:16pm On Apr 24, 2016 |
You are not a good Christian. Jesus said you should be ready to sell all your belongings to follow him. Have you done this? What are you waiting for? Sell up and hand over the proceeds to you anointed pastor and you will see love unlimited. be sure to empty your account at te same time and hand that over too. Make sure you give with a smile because the Lord detests grudging givers. Do you pray for your pastor? pray hard for him that others will follow your example too |
Re: Help! My Pastor Hates Me! by byvan03: 12:17pm On Apr 24, 2016 |
Who is your pastor to hate you? Mtchew ewww!!! |
Re: Help! My Pastor Hates Me! by bartho77(m): 12:39pm On Apr 24, 2016 |
OP talk true, are u sure u didn't bang his wife? |
Re: Help! My Pastor Hates Me! by millionboi(m): 12:41pm On Apr 24, 2016 |
oloriooko:thy something you are not telling us and until you say it!!!!we cnt help u |
Re: Help! My Pastor Hates Me! by OgundeleT(m): 12:42pm On Apr 24, 2016 |
increase ur offering, pay your normal tithe then fast and pray then the wonderful God will touch his mind. |
Re: Help! My Pastor Hates Me! by Nobody: 12:45pm On Apr 24, 2016 |
oloriooko:You are indeed a problem for even being in that kind of church. |
Re: Help! My Pastor Hates Me! by Joysmith2: 1:17pm On Apr 24, 2016 |
Aviero:hahahahah,,,u wan Bleep d pastor up abi |
Re: Help! My Pastor Hates Me! by Samakus(m): 1:23pm On Apr 24, 2016 |
I can't believe that a man who stands while urinating will ask this question. Nwannaa, you need to take some decisions on your own as a man. Ask yourself, if you leave that church, is that the end of your life. People like you makes me ashamed of some men. Ifukwa dis kain thing. Mtcheew |
Re: Help! My Pastor Hates Me! by Godsate: 1:39pm On Apr 24, 2016 |
If you are true child of God. Congratulation. Just pray to God to lead you to the right church and gently leave his church for him. Once you are in the good book of God, it is settled. |
Re: Help! My Pastor Hates Me! by tfcinvests: 1:49pm On Apr 24, 2016 |
@oloriooko run for your life.I didnt bother reading the entirety of what u posted i can't do into details.I almost died thru a similar experience My entire business that was into millions crushed to crumbles...Beware ! |
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