Aviero:
You're a weakling.

You can actually make the people turn against the Pastor. Since the Pastor has decided to make you miserable; you have to fight back.

This is what you should do: Whenever there is a deliverance session in church, just fake falling under the anointing. Start crying. Start rolling on the floor. Then, start speaking in tongues. Then, say the following words: I have given you enough time. Since you've decided not to repent of your sins, Put your house in order, for I am taking you away. Make sure you put his name in between.

Watch what will follow.

Maybe he noticed that the girl he's been lusting after in church (whether he's married or not) is visibly in love with you and he couldn't imagine why you. Worse, he can't toast her for fear of being caught and brought down. So, naturally, you get the blame. No wonder he doesn't like to discus it.
Or it could be you are lollipoping her little sister secretly and sb told him and her sister seemed happier and more active in/for church these days - no thanks to you.

Another suggestion is that u caught him or he thought you caught him doing sth bad or that you are likely to catch him these days.

If the both of you are of the opposite sex then it now gets clearer.

If he sees you are financially worthless to the church then you are doomed there unles you leave.

If it's just about you and he's your pastor, he should tell you.

But I pray you are not a fellow pastor and doing very great in the same congregation. Because, if that's the case, then you already know why and what to do.



Whatever, please stay clear of where he is your spiritual head...if you have said the whole truth though.

You get money from that church hence your felling of hopelessness. I think you are a "church worker" who must have done some shoddy dealings with the "pastor" now he wants you completely out of the equation due to your "smartness"
Both of you need to understand the purpose of going to church before it is too late.

ikupakuti:


Maybe the two of you‘ve being wooing the same gurl in that church and you seem to be having an upperhand...so he feels threantened

Try change church and let him hav her...then after a while...go visit him...u‘ll be suprised.


NB: dats on a light note

The cause will be either woman or money

A man would always reason like a man.

Ikupakuti, you have tried.

Indeed woman or money could be the main crux for such....but don't forget about the SPIRITUAL thing.

Ask me how and I shall tell you.

It is obvious you are poor man, pastors love rich people, so go and hustle to be rich or u plan a coup to overthrow the pastor!

Sayelabola:


Don't term this post as irrelevant my brother.

What if such thing happens in a work place?

As in, a supervisor of a department suddenly hate a worker of another department for no just cause and still refuses to tell what wrong he has against the worker. Yet he isn't your employer, your account officer, or your benefactor... just a coworker to a coworker.

if such thing happen and you try to make peace with them but they refused, leave everything to God, you cannot force someone to Love you, stay out of there way, make peace with God .

hakim92:
Your pastor doesn't hate, but the opposite, he likes you, him making you think he hates you is a way of keeping you at arms lenght so that you will not come close enough to detect the crack in his armor.

Believe me your pastor has soft spot for you. He's only feigning that resentment.

BabaOlowo:
It is obvious you are poor man, pastors love rich people, so go and hustle to be rich or u plan a coup to overthrow the pastor!

malvisguy212:
if such thing happen and you try to make peace with them but they refused, leave everything to God, you cannot force someone to Love you, stay out of there way, make peace with God .

And this time, you aren't forcing them or even persuading them to love or like you, but all you want is to have peace in the workplace.

Good morning, I reciprocate; not having grudges or keeping malice with anyone.

Of course such person could tarnish your image if the chance avail itself.

Also such case if not were settled could be termed as putting fire on the roof while the owner went to bed.

Your pastor hates you; and so what? Thought you meant to say God hates you. If your pastor hates you, then he is not even qualified to be addressed as a pastor.

oloriooko:

Not funny joor.

Most churches are filled with the poor; the rich ones seldom goes to the church, they don't even make church their priority... they ate always after making more money and clubbing.

By the way, you are the OP, you should understand better, and not give attention to digression.

Happy Sunday.

oloriooko:
When your pastor in church becomes your arch enemy trying to see you go down, turning church members against you, spreading unwholesome things about you and you have done everything possible to find out what you did wrong but the pastor refused to talk to you, even when some people try mediating, the pastor cunningly dodge the matter, please what would you do?

Please leave, SOON, and it's always good to inform that pastor or the fellowship of your resolve to leave. Such situations can be a source of spiritual bondage.

Aviero:
You're a weakling.

You can actually make the people turn against the Pastor. Since the Pastor has decided to make you miserable; you have to fight back.

This is what you should do: Whenever there is a deliverance session in church, just fake falling under the anointing. Start crying. Start rolling on the floor. Then, start speaking in tongues. Then, say the following words: I have given you enough time. Since you've decided not to repent of your sins, Put your house in order, for I am taking you away. Make sure you put his name in between.

Watch what will follow.

LMAO. If this doesn't work, nothing else will

oloriooko:
When your pastor in church becomes your arch enemy trying to see you go down, turning church members against you, spreading unwholesome things about you and you have done everything possible to find out what you did wrong but the pastor refused to talk to you, even when some people try mediating, the pastor cunningly dodge the matter, please what would you do?

Have they tied you, the pastor and the church together at the hip?
I bet within a mile radius of where you live, 20 churches are waiting to welcome you.
SWITCH CHURCH, ABI NO BE THE SAME GOD UNA DEY WORSHIP?

Sayelabola:


A man would always reason like a man.

Ikupakuti, you have tried.

Indeed woman or money could be the main crux for such....but don't forget about the SPIRITUAL thing.

Ask me how and I shall tell you.

Yes! Aiye laba ola!

...and how, i ask?

Zceesneh:
same case with me buh i stopped coming to church, am looking for a new church that will accept me since march i have never been to church

The best churches/pastors are those that do not seek and insist to involve themselves into your personal life. Those places which insist on giving you a problem you dint know you had to pray for are dangerous.

Am in between churches too. Many of these places are spiritual prisons.

I understand what you are going through, you can't change church cos you are one of the decision makers in the church & can't risk going to another church to start all over again and the pastor is now seeing you as a treat that may out shine him(the hustle is real). If this is the case(cos that's the only reason someone will come here and complain about the pastor that doesn't pay your bill(he may be paying sha), the. I say that both you & your pastor need Jesus in your lives. Church is not a business. If the pastor is not comfortable seeing you simply change & stop complaining or better still start your own ministry(business).

Must you remain there? Why you dey tell us sef

ikupakuti:


Yes! Aiye laba ola!

...and how, i ask?

Ehm, have you heard about the story surrounding the death of the famous late Ikale musician...Remilekun Amos?

Muafrika2:

The best churches/pastors are those that do not seek and insist to involve themselves into your personal life. Those places which insist on giving you a problem you dint know you had to pray for are dangerous.

Am in between churches too. Many of these places are spiritual prisons.

exactly i agree with you

Dongata:


go to another church

Go to another Church since you're worshipping God not your pastor
One thing about muslim is that you can worship in any mosque, the way they worship is the same
around the world. Nobody can dictate how to worship and if try they will ask you to provide evidence
on the spot.

You are not a good Christian. Jesus said you should be ready to sell all your belongings to follow him. Have you done this? What are you waiting for? Sell up and hand over the proceeds to you anointed pastor and you will see love unlimited. be sure to empty your account at te same time and hand that over too. Make sure you give with a smile because the Lord detests grudging givers. Do you pray for your pastor? pray hard for him that others will follow your example too

Who is your pastor to hate you? Mtchew ewww!!!

OP talk true, are u sure u didn't bang his wife?

oloriooko:
When your pastor in church becomes your arch enemy trying to see you go down, turning church members against you, spreading unwholesome things about you and you have done everything possible to find out what you did wrong but the pastor refused to talk to you, even when some people try mediating, the pastor cunningly dodge the matter, please what would you do?

thy something you are not telling us and until you say it!!!!we cnt help u

increase ur offering, pay your normal tithe then fast and pray then the wonderful God will touch his mind.

oloriooko:
When your pastor in church becomes your arch enemy trying to see you go down, turning church members against you, spreading unwholesome things about you and you have done everything possible to find out what you did wrong but the pastor refused to talk to you, even when some people try mediating, the pastor cunningly dodge the matter, please what would you do?

You are indeed a problem for even being in that kind of church.

Aviero:
You're a weakling.

You can actually make the people turn against the Pastor. Since the Pastor has decided to make you miserable; you have to fight back.

This is what you should do: Whenever there is a deliverance session in church, just fake falling under the anointing. Start crying. Start rolling on the floor. Then, start speaking in tongues. Then, say the following words: I have given you enough time. Since you've decided not to repent of your sins, Put your house in order, for I am taking you away. Make sure you put his name in between.

Watch what will follow.

hahahahah,,,u wan Bleep d pastor up abi

I can't believe that a man who stands while urinating will ask this question.


Nwannaa, you need to take some decisions on your own as a man. Ask yourself, if you leave that church, is that the end of your life. People like you makes me ashamed of some men.

Ifukwa dis kain thing. Mtcheew

If you are true child of God. Congratulation.

Just pray to
God to lead you to the right church and gently leave his church for him.

Once you are in the good book of God, it is settled.

@oloriooko run for your life.I didnt bother reading the entirety of what u posted i can't do into details.I almost died thru a similar experience My entire business that was into millions crushed to crumbles...Beware !