i have this thought in my mind for a long time whether having someone prepare my food or my wife/girlfriend do it, which one is better, to me a wife who doesnt cook for her husband has abondoned a very foundamental duty in her marriage, and i noticed that most of the good cooks are male, i cant afford the risk of allowing another man to cook for me and my wife,
I know some will ask what about restaurant and eateries would you ask who cook the food before you eat, that one if a different case, this one is marriage oooo.....
lets have your opinion,

will you allow your husband to hire a cook?

will you just watch your wife do nothing when it come to what you eat?

none of d above

Jamb questions what do you marry for if she can't cool good meals for you. Though wen are not slaves, but that's part of their primary responsibilities

Wife nah, but dont eat her food wheneva she is angry. same goes for ur maid.

I'd love to have a marriage where by my wife spoils me with different delicacies & i in return surprise her with my cooking skills sometimes, house help maybe needed when she's heavy.