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How Do I Stop My Personality Ruining My Dating Life by shyguyy(m): 9:04am On Apr 30, 2016
I am a quite guy by nature, Its hard enough even making guy friends, With girls its worst, I am not really lonely but I want to have too many girls around, I got a few now but these ones got attracted to me first.

How can I kill my shyness.
Re: How Do I Stop My Personality Ruining My Dating Life by finalboss(m): 9:09am On Apr 30, 2016
* Act confidently. ... *strt talking if you dnt before *Make yourself vulnerable. ... *Practice displaying confident body language. ... *Be mindful. ..nd stp masturbating
Re: How Do I Stop My Personality Ruining My Dating Life by Nobody: 9:16am On Apr 30, 2016
Gbam
finalboss:
* Act confidently. ... *strt talking if you dnt before *Make yourself vulnerable. ... *Practice displaying confident body language. ... *Be mindful. ..nd stp masturbating
Re: How Do I Stop My Personality Ruining My Dating Life by iamdurent(m): 9:37am On Apr 30, 2016
finalboss:
* Act confidently. ...
*strt talking if you dnt before
*Make yourself vulnerable. ...
*Practice displaying confident body
language. ...
*Be mindful. ..[b]nd stp masturbating|/b]
Rubbish.

I thought u were making sense until i read d bolded,
How does masturbatin correlate with shyness!
Nigerians neva seize to amaze me.

OP be urself, nothin wrong in being shy, if u put on a facade personality, you'd not look real.
You cant kill ur shyness though.
Re: How Do I Stop My Personality Ruining My Dating Life by keenn: 10:05am On Apr 30, 2016
Brother!

I was once in your shoes, being shy, introverted, insecure, inferiority complex... In short when I speak or make contributions among guys they laugh or signal them self in light of 'here comes another stupid remark'.

I discovered that what makes a man speak aloud is being independent(not necessarily rich) and being able to have ladies come over.

Of what use is a big boy or extroverted if u aint independent in a way and have array of girls coming and leaving ur room.

So this was the plan, I worked out(gim) as a form of counter mechanism of being inferior, I try to get materials as regards opposite sex and how they tick...

Fast track to this present time...u need to believe I spent quality time with three ladies at different times yesterday... And of course another is coming to spend the night evening today with me.

In short my so called bigboys/extroverted friends get so bewildered at my level of success with girls.

Its so amazing how transformation can be.

Remember life is so short, and pls masturbate when u need to...virtually everyone does
Re: How Do I Stop My Personality Ruining My Dating Life by nigeriancritic1(m): 10:14am On Apr 30, 2016
shyguyy:
I am a quite guy by nature, Its hard enough even making guy friends, With girls its worst, I am not really lonely but I want to have too many girls around, I got a few now but these ones got attracted to me first.

How can I kill my shyness.
You are made already. Try and get someone that fits your personality.
Re: How Do I Stop My Personality Ruining My Dating Life by shyguyy(m): 11:00pm On Apr 30, 2016
thanks guys.

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