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Men Still Want To Have Unprotected Sex With Esnath, An HIV Prostitute by donogaga(m): 12:42am On May 05, 2016
A HIV-positive prostitute has revealed that men still want to have unprotected s*x with her even after telling them of her status.HIV-positive Esnath Sikweyala who is a prostitute has revealed that men still demand to have s*x with her without condom even after disclosing that she is HIV-positive.

The woman who has accepted her status and is living well has now started to educate other s*x workers on the need to use condoms to avoid contracting the disease.

 According to Weekend Post, Sikweyala’s main challenge is the desire by some of her “clients” to have unprotected s*x with her.

“I look well as you can see, to an extent that some men demand to have unprotected s*x with me. I end up showing them my pills, but some do not care about my medication and continue to demand unprotected s*x. So, sometimes I do not understand the logic behind these men’s thinking,” Sikweyala said.

She said what keeps her going for now is the fact that she was taught on how to live positively, adding that it is her right to deny unprotected s*x.

She talks about the importance of teaching her colleagues the need to use condom during s*x.

“I am a peer educator and I also distribute condoms to some of my colleagues.

“My policy is no condom, no s*x, and I do not risk by sacrificing myself having unprotected s*x for money, otherwise I will die early and leave my children suffering,”she said.

Speaking further, Sikweyala revealed that as part of the s*x education initiative, they had printed T-shirts to push the no condom, no s*x agenda. She said in most cases she refuses having unprotected s*x.

“When I refuse unprotected s*x, I am trying to protect my client’s life and mine because I do not want to be re-infected. We were taught that if you continue having unprotected s*x, you end up getting re-infected,” she said.

Revealing how she got involved in prostitution, the woman revealed that she entered the trade after the death of her husband in the year 2000 as it was the only way she could take care of her family. The 42-year-old mother of three is not ashamed of her trade and opened up on how this has shaped her life, from ensuring her children attend school to earning a “descent” life.

Her first child is now married and lives in Cape Town, South Africa, while the second born is doing “O” Level.

She gave birth to her third child, who is now 13 years old, when she was already HIV-positive. The child is HIV-negative. Speaking to journalists who were part of a recently-conducted National Aids Council tour, Sikweyala, said her children have been very supportive in that they urge her to take her tablets.

“But it’s not all rosy,” she said.

The woman who narrated the difficulty she passes in the hands of clients, revealed that some men deliberately break the condoms, in order to have unprotected s* with her, while some demand their money back after s* or assault her for refusing unprotected s*x.

 

“We are at the risk of contracting sexually-transmitted infections,” she said.

Her dream is to find an income-generating project in order for her to retire from the trade.



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Re: Men Still Want To Have Unprotected Sex With Esnath, An HIV Prostitute by Gebbson007(m): 1:21am On May 05, 2016
there is power in vejayjay chai men n pu**y .only death cn separate men n pu**y.cll me later
Re: Men Still Want To Have Unprotected Sex With Esnath, An HIV Prostitute by ireneony(f): 5:15am On May 05, 2016
this is serious shocked

Wonder why south africans are number carrier of HIV/AIDS undecided

Black south Africans are really fuuukked up.

My Nigerian brothers travelling to south Africa, pls if you want to flirt, make sure you wear coat in order to avoid stories that touches the heart

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Re: Men Still Want To Have Unprotected Sex With Esnath, An HIV Prostitute by donbenedict(m): 6:18am On May 05, 2016
Wait till u visit Kenya or Gabon....


Na babe go dey toast u. grin
Re: Men Still Want To Have Unprotected Sex With Esnath, An HIV Prostitute by chriskosherbal(m): 6:22am On May 05, 2016
I thick those men are psychologically and emotionally sick.

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Re: Men Still Want To Have Unprotected Sex With Esnath, An HIV Prostitute by Nobody: 6:26am On May 05, 2016
Humans are truly higher animals.
Re: Men Still Want To Have Unprotected Sex With Esnath, An HIV Prostitute by mikool007(m): 7:03am On May 05, 2016
Are we goin to js accept dis sex working tin *is it nw a legitimate job 1 shud be proud out cuz i don't understand o
Re: Men Still Want To Have Unprotected Sex With Esnath, An HIV Prostitute by Akposkool(m): 7:35am On May 05, 2016
I believe those men also have hiv. So what's there to fear again. It's not as if the disease will go away. Oya woju oooo. Muje mana
Re: Men Still Want To Have Unprotected Sex With Esnath, An HIV Prostitute by MasterBaiter: 7:53am On May 05, 2016
Abeggi,those guys already get am too,so dem no dey fear again.
Re: Men Still Want To Have Unprotected Sex With Esnath, An HIV Prostitute by swaggzo(m): 8:43am On May 05, 2016
"MEN AND SEX" undecided
Re: Men Still Want To Have Unprotected Sex With Esnath, An HIV Prostitute by Nobody: 9:22am On May 05, 2016
[quote author=MasterBaiter post=45325922]Abeggi,those guys already get am too,so dem no dey fear again.[/iquote]exactly
Re: Men Still Want To Have Unprotected Sex With Esnath, An HIV Prostitute by sheunsheun(m): 9:47am On May 05, 2016
Konji na bastard, na wen dem don do am finish their face go clear
Re: Men Still Want To Have Unprotected Sex With Esnath, An HIV Prostitute by hardcorevin(m): 10:02am On May 05, 2016
Gebbson007:
there is power in vejayjay chai men n pu**y .only death cn separate men n pu**y.cll me later

hahahahahhahahaha....men and pussy are like lies and Mr lie mohammed....na death go do us apart
Re: Men Still Want To Have Unprotected Sex With Esnath, An HIV Prostitute by hardcorevin(m): 10:05am On May 05, 2016
swaggzo:
"MEN AND SEX" undecided

are like lies and mr lie mohammed,the Father of lies

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Re: Men Still Want To Have Unprotected Sex With Esnath, An HIV Prostitute by Fourwinds: 10:19am On May 05, 2016
ireneony:
this is serious shocked

Wonder why south africans are number carrier of HIV/AIDS undecided

Black south Africans are really fuuukked up.

My Nigerian brothers travelling to south Africa, pls if you want to flirt, make sure you wear coat in order to avoid stories that touches the heart
some men are so foolish dat they are suppose to be called PVSSY because their lives depend on it
Re: Men Still Want To Have Unprotected Sex With Esnath, An HIV Prostitute by teekay213(m): 11:29am On May 05, 2016
skin to skin is too sweet.
Re: Men Still Want To Have Unprotected Sex With Esnath, An HIV Prostitute by joey150(m): 12:01pm On May 05, 2016
hmmmmmmmm....

illeteracy is to blame then

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