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Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by Nobody: 9:33pm On Jul 29, 2017
ibkayee:

Lol not your fault

Haha, not this time cheesy

What were you cooking the last time you got something burnt? tongue

Did you ever finish watching the samurai jack show? Aku was quite hilarious at the final series than i can recollect though grin

Are you preoccupied?
Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by ibkayee(f): 12:40am On Jul 30, 2017
Gwaihir:


What were you cooking the last time you got something burnt? tongue

Did you ever finish watching the samurai jack show? Aku was quite hilarious at the final series than i can recollect though grin

Are you preoccupied?
Lol probably stew cheesy

I didn't, still have some episodes to go! You did?
Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by Nobody: 2:31am On Jul 30, 2017
ibkayee:
Lol probably stew cheesy
I didn't, still have some episodes to go! You did?
Yea I did, nice ending I must say.
Got something to ask you tho.
Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by ibkayee(f): 3:29am On Jul 30, 2017
Gwaihir:


Yea I did, nice ending I must say.

Got something to ask you tho.
Nice, ok what?
Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by Nobody: 3:41am On Jul 30, 2017
ibkayee:

Nice, ok what?


please don't quote.
Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by ibkayee(f): 6:53am On Jul 30, 2017
Gwaihir

Nah I wasn't
Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by Nobody: 7:27am On Jul 30, 2017
ibkayee:
Gwaihir

Nah I wasn't

May i ask who or what you were referring to? I actually thought you were.
Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by ibkayee(f): 9:24am On Jul 30, 2017
Gwaihir:


May i ask who or what you were referring to? I actually thought you were.
Don't actually know which convo you were referring to to be honest
Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by Nobody: 12:36pm On Jul 30, 2017
ibkayee:

Don't actually know which convo you were referring to to be honest

It's on page 697, guess you were just being your enigmatic self.

Concerning the sexuality thread,don't be offended, don't you find it uneasy when you read how women are treated or subjected to for money on there?
Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by ibkayee(f): 1:04pm On Jul 30, 2017
Gwaihir:


It's on page 697, guess you were just being your enigmatic self.

Concerning the sexuality thread,don't be offended, don't you find it uneasy when you read how women are treated or subjected to for money on there?
697 of what? Which thread?

I don't always agree with everything said but for the most part they aren’t really ‘subjected’ since the encounters are consensual so not really, but if anything scandalous pops up i.e. pedophilia, trafficking, sexual assault/harassment etc most people make it a point to speak up against it and/or report it

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Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by Nobody: 1:31pm On Jul 30, 2017
ibkayee:

697 of what? Which thread?

I don't always agree with everything said but for the most part they aren’t really ‘subjected’ since the encounters are consensual so not really, but if anything scandalous pops up i.e. pedophilia, trafficking, sexual assault/harassment etc most people make it a point to speak up against it and/or report it

I get what you mean. I guess it's just how I see the money for pussy part, it makes me queasy although thinking about it now, watching porn is also no different. Tricky world.

The "what are you listening to now" thread.

Did you go to church? If so, how was it?
Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by ibkayee(f): 1:42pm On Jul 30, 2017
Gwaihir:


I get what you mean. I guess it's just how I see the money for pussy part, it makes me queasy although thinking about it now, watching porn is also no different. Tricky world.

The "what are you listening to now" thread.

Did you go to church? If so, how was it?
Oh ok, I was talking generally, not about anyone or anything going on in my life at the time

Lol watching porn makes you queasy? I guess it depends on the genre?

I didn't
Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by Nobody: 2:05pm On Jul 30, 2017
ibkayee:

Oh ok, I was talking generally, not about anyone or anything going on in my life at the time

Lol watching porn makes you queasy? I guess it depends on the genre?

I didn't
Oh ok.

No it doesn't, my point was that if reading sexcapades where women are paid for, for sex, porn should too since its pretty much the same thing and it's seen by all. The discourse just put light to something i never thought about porn before.

Speaking of genre, do you have any sexual fetish and what are they?

Why didn't you?

Funny we discussing porn and church at the same time. lipsrsealed grin
Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by ibkayee(f): 2:22pm On Jul 30, 2017
Gwaihir:

Oh ok.

No it doesn't, my point was that if reading sexcapades where women are paid for, for sex, porn should too since its pretty much the same thing and it's seen by all. The discourse just put light to something i never thought about porn before.

Speaking of genre, do you have any sexual fetish and what are they?

Why didn't you?

Funny we discussing porn and church at the same time. lipsrsealed grin
Lol I don't

No particular reason sha, did you?

Haha contrasting topics cheesy
Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by Nobody: 2:33pm On Jul 30, 2017
ibkayee:

Lol I don't

No particular reason sha, did you?

Haha contrasting topics cheesy

Really? I would never have expected that answer. shocked you giving me butterflies in my tummy oh

Yea I did, guess am the more naughty one *covers face*

I read somewhere you did ushering in a church, why did you stop?
Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by ibkayee(f): 2:36pm On Jul 30, 2017
Gwaihir:


Really? I would never have expected that answer. shocked you giving me butterflies in my tummy oh

Yea I did, guess am the more naughty one *covers face*

I read somewhere you did ushering in a church, why did you stop?
Lmao where did your read that please?
Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by Nobody: 2:44pm On Jul 30, 2017
ibkayee:

Lmao where did your read that please?

I swear i saw something like that, i think on the introvert thread or so. Maybe i had it mixed up with someone else?
Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by ibkayee(f): 2:52pm On Jul 30, 2017
Gwaihir:


I swear i saw something like that, i think on the introvert thread or so. Maybe i had it mixed up with someone else?
Lol cant see why I'd mention it in the introvert thread, I did usher but if I'd mentioned it, it would've been years ago lol

I don't know why I stopped, I guess I moved on
Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by Nobody: 2:56pm On Jul 30, 2017
ibkayee:

Lol cant see why I'd mention it in the introvert thread, I did usher but if I'd mentioned it, it would've been years ago lol

I don't know why I stopped, I guess I moved on

The reason i saw was that you wanted to reduce your introversion and you then picked it up to socialize more. Perhaps it was someone else.
Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by ibkayee(f): 3:07pm On Jul 30, 2017
Gwaihir:


The reason i saw was that you wanted to reduce your introversion and you then picked it up to socialize more. Perhaps it was someone else.

Lol probably me since there's no other way you would've known
Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by Nobody: 3:08pm On Jul 30, 2017
ibkayee:

Lol probably me since there's no other way you would've known



Okay then. I see you watching Insecure.
Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by ibkayee(f): 3:12pm On Jul 30, 2017
Gwaihir:

Okay then. I see you watching Insecure.
Yes I do, though didn't watch every episode of the last season
Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by Nobody: 3:13pm On Jul 30, 2017
ibkayee:

Yes I do, though didn't watch every episode of the last season

The last season was nice, though this season started off on quite a bit of nudity. What do you think of Lawrence and Issa relationship?

Are you really interested in this chat I bring to you or you doing it out of courtesy? Please be honest.
Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by ibkayee(f): 3:35pm On Jul 30, 2017
Gwaihir:


The last season was nice, what do you think of Lawrence and Issa relationship?
Hmm, I don’t know if Issa actually wants him back or she just feels guilty that he caught her cheating, it’s not like their relationship was great prior to the breakup, neither were perfect sha but Lawrence was just…lazy lol, as per what he contributed to their relationship.

I'm not even just talking about finances, sometimes you can't help not having a job, it's just his lack of drive. Didn't he forget her birthday or something? Ontop of him just being useless generally smh grin

You?

Edit: Just saw your second question, some questions are very random I won't lie but lol I don't mind most of it
Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by Nobody: 3:52pm On Jul 30, 2017
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Hmm, I don’t know if Issa actually wants him back or she just feels guilty that he caught her cheating, it’s not like their relationship was great prior to the breakup, neither were perfect sha but Lawrence was just…lazy lol, as per what he contributed to their relationship.

I'm not even just talking about finances, sometimes you can't help not having a job, it's just his lack of drive. Didn't he forget her birthday or something? Ontop of him just being useless generally smh grin

You?

Wow, i knew chatting with you about this series would be fun. Your criticism is scathing but true.

Yea, Lawrence seem too laid back for a dude who wants or should be a man in the relationship. I don't know how dudes are convenient with babe shouldering much of the financial burden in a relationship. I think most women are more inclined to be loyal to men who sort of take charge where they should take charge. Even when the job is not forthcoming, normally a dude should be agitated in such circumstance exploring all possibilities out, he just narrowed the whole thing to his computer stuff of which he didn't even get in the end. And wasn't Issa the one always cleaning the house when she gets back?

Except i am forgetting something, i think Issa should have been more vocal about what she wanted from Lawrence even before the cheating happened.

I don't know how someone would forget his babe birthday tho, not that i ever bother to celebrate mine.

If you rather not answer the very random ones do say or if you want to know why i ask them.
Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by ibkayee(f): 4:10pm On Jul 30, 2017
Gwaihir:


Wow, i knew chatting with you about this series would be fun. Your criticism is scathing but true.

Yea, Lawrence seem too laid back for a dude who wants or should be a man in the relationship. I don't know how dudes are convenient with babe shouldering much of the financial burden in a relationship. I think most women are more inclined to be loyal to men who sort of take charge where they should take charge. Even when the job is not forthcoming, normally a dude should be agitated in such circumstance exploring all possibilities out, he just narrowed the whole thing to his computer stuff of which he didn't even get in the end. And wasn't Issa the one always cleaning the house when she gets back?

Except i am forgetting something, i think Issa should have been more vocal about what she wanted from Lawrence even before the cheating happening.

I don't know how someone would forget his babe birthday tho, not that i ever bother to celebrate mine.
grin

I personally don't even think there's anything wrong in her shouldering a lot of the financial burden, granted he was genuinely out there looking and wasn't taking advantage of the situation, he seems to be comfortable just doing the bare minimum which is really unattractive and isn't very encouraging.

Yes o I think she still had to clean when she got back lol

Issa's problem is that she can be too passive aggressive and doesn't say anything, not that it's her job to but sometimes you've got to be vocal in such situations

What do you think of his relationship with Tasha?
Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by Nobody: 4:42pm On Jul 30, 2017
ibkayee:

grin

I personally don't even think there's anything wrong in her shouldering a lot of the financial burden, granted he was genuinely out there looking and wasn't taking advantage of the situation, he seems to be comfortable just doing the bare minimum which is really unattractive and isn't very encouraging.

Yes o I think she still had to clean when she got back lol

I am not against a lady shouldering financial responsibilities, but dudes who are 'convenient' with it. Given, circumstances can arise for that to happen but if she too see you bursting your ass the best and legal way you can, at least she won't feel taken advantage of or like she is the only one putting effort. This at least buys you some pride as a man.

Issa's problem is that she can be too passive aggressive and doesn't say anything, not that it's her job to but sometimes you've got to be vocal in such situations

What do you mean "not that its her job to"? Stating things in clear unequivocal terms helps alot because you don't know which way the wind may blow. I guess she was just being that way so as not to break the relationship or put a strain on it, you just hope the other party gets the drift without saying it.

What do you think of his relationship with Tasha?

I don't think he holds her in that much high regard or loves her. She is just someone who seem to tolerate him for who he is without pushing for a better him. Plus the steady supply of pussy which is sure to keep him hooked, how long is what remains to be seen.

Concerning Tasha, i am cant really tell her person for now but i think she strikes me as someone who see men as a trophy of sort, as long as he is there or gives her attention, it's fine.
Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by ibkayee(f): 5:53pm On Jul 30, 2017
Gwaihir:


I am not against a lady shouldering financial responsibilities, but dudes who are 'convenient' with it. Given, circumstances can arise for that to happen but if she too see you bursting your ass the best and legal way you can, at least she won't feel taken advantage of or like she is the only one putting effort. This at least buys you some pride as a man.



What do you mean "not that its her job to"? Stating things in clear unequivocal terms helps alot because you don't know which way the wind may blow. I guess she was just being that way so as not to break the relationship or put a strain on it, you just hope the other party gets the drift without saying it.



I don't think he holds her in that much high regard or loves her. She is just someone who seem to tolerate him for who he is without pushing for a better him. Plus the steady supply of pussy which is sure to keep him hooked, how long is what remains to be seen.

Concerning Tasha, i am cant really tell her person for now but i think she strikes me as someone who see men as a trophy of sort, as long as he is there or gives her attention, it's fine.
I agree with everything you've said grin

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Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by Nobody: 9:47pm On Jul 30, 2017
ibkayee:

I agree with everything you've said grin

I hope you declining my request to chat offline has nothing to do with the debacle?
Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by ibkayee(f): 9:53pm On Jul 30, 2017
Gwaihir:


I hope you declining my request to chat offline has nothing to do with the debacle?
Nah it isn't
Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by Nobody: 10:05pm On Jul 30, 2017
ibkayee:

Nah it isn't

Ok, can you drive a manual gear?
Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by dareerah(f): 1:01am On Jul 31, 2017
Someone should talk to me!!

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