goldbim:
No, it's not proper because it could backfire.if eventually the man is not even half of what he pretends to be..besides,you'l be the one to live with the man not your mother...one's happiness should always come first !.follow your heart.

goldbim:
No, it's not proper because it could backfire.if eventually the man is not even half of what he pretends to be..besides,you'l be the one to live with the man not your mother...one's happiness should always come first !.follow your heart.

Bishops10:
My mum matched me with King.CheezyPuff

*Then she doesn't like you very much
...I'm gon give you wahala many!!

KingCheezyPuff:
*Then see doesn't like you very much
...I'm gon give you wahala many!!

Bishops10:

She did it because of your wahala




she said her son is too quiet

Bishops10:
My mum matched me with KingCheezyPuff

itstpia8:

Op mind your own business if it doesnt concern you.

halfricanadian:
My happiness i will not marry anyone because someone says so NEVER EVER WILL I

except if God says yes

I follow suit

pinceprinz:
if you ask me it could be cool sometimes esp if the girl won't just marry and she's getting too old... They don't have to force it tho , that will be too awkward and could spoil everything. Simple gestures like Have u met James Nancy? James meet Nancy, fullstop is just enough for any sharp parent...

However, I'll like to add that this kind of thing is not new ; in traditional Africa ; I know of the Yoruba's for sure for sure. Its peculiar to Muslims too I think, most of the time , it ends up well.

rose54321:
Well I don't see anything wrong with it so long as its not been imposed. If one is cool with their folks doing the match making then pls ride on.
Whether you find the person yourself or ya mum does the finding, its all a means to the ultimate end "marriage".
Most times people don't care about the means.

makydebbie:
here to read comments

demzylahot:

Talk your own make Nigeria better

jmoore:
You are single and not in a relationship, then your mom introduces a lady to you. As time flies, you find out that this lady got what you need in a wife.

Are you going to let her go because it was your mom that found her, huh?

There is nothing wrong with matchmaking, just make sure the person is your type before you can go ahead for marriage.

PunkyV:
No, that's weird. Ha! Her taste in men might be off for starters. She might choose some fatherly type

demzylahot:
Lwkm....is she aware?

demzylahot:

What if the husband doesn't show up early enough?won't you give matchmaking a chance?

Quintee:
Well, I won't say it is right or wrong. Although, I can't consider going into such a relationship because there is already room for third party interference which I detest. If the guy's mother is the matchmaker, then directly or indirectly, the lady will likely be married to both mother and son.

halfricanadian:



Why will i do dat

Wen God created Adam he told him he wud send him an helper bt before dat he presented adam all d animals Adam named then saw d way d animals treated their partners it was a message to Adam dat d partner im bringing for u is nt to b stepped on nor ignored bt to b loved nd cherished as u love nd cherish ursef

The next verse he created eve took by her right hand to meet adam

Meaning if God never created u for a man

Nd u go behind God to get d man cos he is rich cute nice accent tall with a perfect body

He wud treat u like an animal treated d animals adam saw first

Dats why some women get treated like animals because God never took dem to d man dey did by themselves

So even if husband is delayed wen he comes i will wait been treated like an animal ENOF IS ENOF
i want to b loved nd love nt me dating an imaginary person I WILL WAIT WISH ALL THOSE WHO PUT ME ON A IMAGINARY DATING MAKING ME APPEAR LIKE A FOOL BEFORE FRIENDS COURSE MATES CHURCH MEMBERD HOSTELS FACULTY

GOD AND KARMA WILL VISIT U NO ONE HURTS ME ND GO SCOT FREE U FORGOT TO ASK PEOPLE U ENQUIRED INFO ABOUT ME DAT *PEACE*