I'm currently in a relationship where I don't quite have feelings for my girlfriend but she does have intense feelings for me. I entered the rship with her cos at that time I was single (for a long time) heartbroken ( from my last rship) and she was there all the time for me. Even in my former rship she hinted several times that she really liked me and it sickened her to watch me suffer in the hands of someone else.

So after we started dating I felt the vibe for say two weeks and the whole thing died down later like cold ash. I'm seriously looking for an excuse to opt out cos i can't just leave and risk hurting her deeply. But the excuse never seemed to come. And each day I just sit, watch and lick my fingers like a caged animal.

Now I'm considering call it quits - I don't care if hell freezes over or fuel sells for 1k- this weekend. Help me nairalanders; would I be making a huge mistake?

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LMAO LOL NA WAO, U GO FEAR ENGLISH. SIGH!! @OP my advice is forget about relationships for now, and concentrate on your studies.

Nigga, there's no way you can break up with someone that loves you without hurting them. I wonder why people keep asking this question. Now you can reduce the hurt, but you can't eliminate it, can I punch you without you feeling the pain, nah.

Now how do you reduce the pain, don't waste time, the relationship is still young, the faster the earlier she can heal. Next,

Fifthcolumnist:
I'm currently in a relationship where I don't quite have feelings for my girlfriend but she does have intense feelings for me. I entered the rship with her cos at that time I was single (for a long time) heartbroken ( from my last rship) and she was there all the time for me. Even in my former rship she hinted several times that she really liked me and it sicken her to watch me suffer in the hands of someone else.

So after we started dating I felt the vibe for say two weeks and the whole thing died down later like cold ash. I'm seriously looking for an excuse to opt out cos i can't just leave and risk hurting her deeply. But the excuse never seemed to come. And each day I just sit, watch and lick my fingers like a caged animal.

Now I'm considering call it quits - I don't care if hell freezes over or fuel sells for 1k- this weekend. Help me nairalanders; would I be making a huge mistake?

Pls kindly tell us what she is doing wrong and what is the problem with your relationship other than your selfish interests and opinion. Remember if you dump her now... She may become a bad girl to any other guy she dates and you ain't making the world A better place.

Please break up, relationship is not by force. You are doing her more harm than good staying in the relationship.

Abeg free her so that bae can locate her soonest.

show ha ur ATM card & pin

Fifthcolumnist:
I'm currently in a relationship where I don't quite have feelings for my girlfriend but she does have intense feelings for me. I entered the rship with her cos at that time I was single (for a long time) heartbroken ( from my last rship) and she was there all the time for me. Even in my former rship she hinted several times that she really liked me and it sicken her to watch me suffer in the hands of someone else.

So after we started dating I felt the vibe for say two weeks and the whole thing died down later like cold ash. I'm seriously looking for an excuse to opt out cos i can't just leave and risk hurting her deeply. But the excuse never seemed to come. And each day I just sit, watch and lick my fingers like a caged animal.
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Now I'm considering call it quits - I don't care if hell freezes over or fuel sells for 1k- this weekend. Help me nairalanders; would I be making a huge mistake?

It's simple and I want to help by getting the girl from you. Bros introduce her to me and let me continue it from there. She will break up with you easily... Help a bro. Pls send me her contact o

Fifthcolumnist:
I'm currently in a relationship where I don't quite have feelings for my girlfriend but she does have intense feelings for me. I entered the rship with her cos at that time I was single (for a long time) heartbroken ( from my last rship) and she was there all the time for me. Even in my former rship she hinted several times that she really liked me and it sicken her to watch me suffer in the hands of someone else.

So after we started dating I felt the vibe for say two weeks and the whole thing died down later like cold ash. I'm seriously looking for an excuse to opt out cos i can't just leave and risk hurting her deeply. But the excuse never seemed to come. And each day I just sit, watch and lick my fingers like a caged animal.
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Now I'm considering call it quits - I don't care if hell freezes over or fuel sells for 1k- this weekend. Help me nairalanders; would I be making a huge mistake?

It's simple and I want to help by getting the girl from you. Bros introduce her to me and let me continue it from there. She will break up with you easily... Help a bro. Pls send me her contact o abeg

There's no how u can break up with her without hurting esp. If she loves you.




But it's better to break up with her than you pretending to love her.

SAINTSAMURAI:
LMAO LOL NA WAO, U GO FEAR ENGLISH. SIGH!! @OP my advice is forget about relationships for now, and concentrate on your studies.

Through with studies

tripplephi:


Pls kindly tell us what she is doing wrong and what is the problem with your relationship other than your selfish interests and opinion. Remember if you dump her now... She may become a bad girl to any other guy she dates and you ain't making the world A better place.

She an introvert- quiet, not chatty, hardly keep up a conversation - each time na me dey talk like radio while she go dey laugh.

how can u breakup without her hurting her?....she loves you,she was there when u needed someone to lay on...now u are strong n want to push her away....she will definitely be hurt.... am feeling for her already....lemme ask u....but u just have to let her know now..the earlier the better...now the r/ship is still fresh...make her understand how u feel

flexyfit:
how can u breakup without her hurting her?....she loves you,she was there when u needed someone to lay on...now u are strong n want to push her away....she will definitely be hurt.... am feeling for her already....lemme ask u....but u just have to let her know now..the earlier the better...now the r/ship is still fresh...make her understand how u feel

Telling her would make it worse. Tried that b4. She practically moved me to tears

greatnaija01:


It's simple and I want to help by getting the girl from you. Bros introduce her to me and let me continue it from there. She will break up with you easily... Help a bro. Pls send me her contact o abeg

;DD PM me

Fifthcolumnist:


Telling her would make it worse. Tried that b4. She practically moved me to tears

....try staying away from her...u just have to tell now...so she can move on...let her fell the pain n move on....

flexyfit:
....try staying away from her...u just have to tell now...so she can move on...let her fell the pain n move on....

I'm working with that strategy now. She's in a different state.

If u are in a place both of u see maybe probably all the time, if she calls pretend to be moody and she come over to ur place tell her that why didnt she inform u before coming and in the process u begin to drag it with her that u dont welcome un-invited gesture but if she is far from u, the simplest just be ignoring her calls gradually

Fifthcolumnist:


She an introvert- quiet, not chatty, hardly keep up a conversation - each time na me dey talk like radio while she go dey laugh.

Make sure you tell her the truth or allow someone else make her happy since you want something more.

You don't care even if she die or hurt all you care is you want to wicked her abi?
I put it to you that you care if not you will not be here seeking for advice.
I must tell you not to intentionally do evil to your fellow human being be it man or woman

tripplephi:


Make sure you tell her the truth or allow someone else make her happy since you want something more.

I even encourage her to go out with others more

alobright17:
You don't care even if she die or hurt all you care is you want to wicked her abi?
I put it to you that you care if not you will not be here seeking for advice.
I must tell you not to intentionally do evil to your fellow human being be it man or woman

By trying not to hurt her, I'll keep displeasing myself

Fifthcolumnist:


By trying not to hurt her, I'll keep displeasing myself

Guy Hurt her then you can even invite her to your house and poison her so you can please yourself.
This is a girl that was there for you as you said.
Watch out for the next girl you must cry come back here oneday.

You do like Nike & Just do it!

The longer you wait, is the longer you're wasting both yours & her time. I just hope she's the type that knows how to handle her feelings well & wont run after you with a sledgehammer

Fifthcolumnist:


I'm working with that strategy now. She's in a different state.

...now she's not around...it's easy .....do the thing. let her move on....