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Clear Signs That Your Girlfriend Is Cheating On You by finalboss1(m): 9:36pm On May 16, 2016
its quite alarming that there are a lot of kids
out there that are being raised by men who
think they are their biological fathers but are
in fact not. In an age of birth control, abortion
and the fact that only a small percentage of
acts of unprotected intercourse result in
pregnancy, imagine how big the percentage of
women probably is.
You can’t trust any statistics, cause only a
few will admit this fact when they are asked
by a stranger.
Women cheat for several reasons; some are
not contented ad for others it might be the
because they are just curious, perhaps they
crave a bit of adventure.
Whatever reason it may be, the question is :
How do you know if your girlfriend/fiancee/
spouse is cheating on you?
Lets explore the most common signs that can
help you tell whether your woman is cheating
on you or not.



he Stops Showing affection

Most women are fashioned in a way that they
fuss about the most minute details. Whether
it is you forgetting her birthday or perhaps
your anniversary, or probably when you stop
calling her as you used to….
But when she stops caring and rarely makes a
fuss about the things she used to get angry
over, then you have a cause to worry


interest in intimacy lost The basis/ foundation of a relationship is
intimacy and couples build intimacy by
intercourse. If she begins to show less
interest in intimacy then chances are that
she’s getting it from someone else.

She avoids commitment
Most women want a man who is willing to
commit to them for life. They will drop hints if
not directly ask their boyfriend what his plans
for their future are.
So if your woman is being dodgy whenever
you bring up the topic of the future of your
relationship, it may be a sign that she’s
cheating on you and has other options to
explore.

She is always busy

Perhaps you text her in the morning and she
gets to reply at night. Or maybe you have
plans to take her out in the evening and she
begs you to reschedule to another time
(perhaps a time of her choosing).
You try to confront her as to why she doesn’t
give you time as she used to and then she
says ‘baby am sorry. I am just always busy’
Nah nah nah! That is all sorts of wrong!
The level of our ‘being busy’ is directly
proportional to the person involved. Its
simple: If she values you, she will make time
for you. If she does anything short of that
then you should be concerned.


change In Appearance When you were dating, your woman went to
great lengths to look amazing for you and
consistently made your heart stop. But after
dating for a while or after marriage it seems
that she doesn’t care so much like before,
which is normal.
Has your woman started again dressing a
little more special out of the blue? Does she
suddenly seem to pay extra attention to her
appearance while leaving to meet up her girls,
more than when going out with you? She may
be out to impress and catch the attentions of
another man.



Her phone This is one of the most obvious clues! Does
she keep a password on her phone which she
hasn’t shared with you? Does she walk out of
your presence while receiving calls from time
to time?
Perhaps she’s mostly with her phone probably
smiling and giggling while she texts and when
you ask her about it she doesn’t give you
satisfactory answer. If she hardly drops her
phone and she often asks for privacy when
making calls then you should be worried.



Avoiding questions some say most women don’t know how to lie
but in contrary i have met girls that’ll make
the devil look like an angel.
Whenever she is doing something behind your
back she’ll feel uncomfortable when you ask
her simple questions.
If she hesitates to answer, or she avoids your
questions entirely then you need to watch out.


defensive approach This is the oldest trick in the book. You might
simply ask her ‘Where have you been?’ And
then she’ll reply with an outburst of rage.
Once your woman begins to escalate simple
conversations to an aggressive level then she
probably has a motive.


.


Always complaining When she starts to nag often then you should
take that as i sign. In my own personal
experience i realised that girls tend to do this
as a kind of defence strategy. So that way
when the die is finllay cast it’ll look like the
relationship ended because it simply wasnt
working out (not the fact that she was
cheating).
Everybody nags quite alright. But when your
woman starts doing it on a daily basis you
should know that either you are really messing
up(lol) or she’s got another boo somewhere.
(Its more often the latter)





Her body language When you are in public, dining, at a bar any
social function. Do you see her eyes darting
about more than usual… is she scanning the
room? If her attention to you seems less
intense, it probably is. Even if her new partner
is aware of you, she will always be “casing”
the situation, always trying to be prepared for
the unexpected encounter… Another sign to
look for: You are sitting across the table from
her and the topic of your feelings for one
another comes up.
Is she looking you straight in the eyes hanging
on your every word – or is she looking down
or past you or maybe her gaze is glossy and
unfocused. Her sincerity towards you is in her
eyes, especially when she utters the phrase “I
love you.” If she is not looking you straight in
the eye when she says that, there could be a
problem.
These signs are a clear indication that your
woman is cheating on you, or intends to do
so.
If there is no cheating, the same signs may be
a suggestion that the relationship is not
where it should be, but don’t get paranoid
unless there is a combination of the above
signs that make you feel like something is
wrong.
Re: Clear Signs That Your Girlfriend Is Cheating On You by hero01(m): 10:42pm On May 16, 2016
trash, rubbish, gabeage.
Re: Clear Signs That Your Girlfriend Is Cheating On You by Vinshu(f): 11:31pm On May 16, 2016
Trash. Rubbish. Crappy and senseless thread.

So because I secure my mobile phone with a password means that I am cheating? Or because I dress to kill when going out means I am cheating ? Or because I nag at every bull fvcking sh!t means I am cheating? I thought I have seen it all
Re: Clear Signs That Your Girlfriend Is Cheating On You by makydebbie(f): 2:02am On May 17, 2016
i smell counter thread
Re: Clear Signs That Your Girlfriend Is Cheating On You by Hannysmilez(f): 2:12pm On May 17, 2016
True. But I scan the room whenever we go out,just to make sure there's no one I owe there.

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