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Experience Advice Please by clemmonce(m): 11:01pm On May 23, 2016
Here is my ordeal guys. I need advice please if you don't have anything to say just be an observer.
Me and girlfriend are having this issue. Suddenly she stopped being attracted to me. Maybe because I showed her more love recently I wanted her to be happy so I showed more love and care.
I just noticed some changes in her. Which I was quick to notice. Doesn't chat me up like before. She rounds up our chat too early and so on.
Then I read a lot of articles on how to revive a relationship . one of the rules was that trying to make her jealous. I followed the rule which was okay.
I posted a pix online of my female friend telling happy birthday and so on.. Lo and behold she posted a write up on her Bbm status. I quote You are awesome too Boo Boo. I knew this was to make me jealous which I decoded. Thats is to say she is doing what I am doing. Immediately I accosted her about it that what does she mean by Boo Boo. That is it because I am posted something about my female friend that made write this to make me jealous ? She was kind of angry but got nothing to say... Then I told her I want sleep then went offline.
Please note: while trying to get her attracted I tried not to chat for two days my long plan was to reduce our chat and call for a long time. But amazingly she did chat me either amazingly. I am just confused got no one to talk to just me.
What should I do.. Experience advice please.
Re: Experience Advice Please by kiddakush(m): 11:13pm On May 23, 2016
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Re: Experience Advice Please by hungryboy(m): 11:14pm On May 23, 2016
You never get money you dey ask why your girlfriend is no longer attracted to you.
Bros,
Chris Brown don already talk am say,
'Just get rich and take a broke nigga's bit*ch.
A rich nigga has entered into the life of your girlfriend.
My only advice for you is,
Go and make money.
Re: Experience Advice Please by Smellymouth: 11:15pm On May 23, 2016
Who mess for hia?


Re: Experience Advice Please by clemmonce(m): 11:18pm On May 23, 2016
We have dated for a year and some months. Maybe I made a mistake by showing her more love.
Re: Experience Advice Please by MRBrownJ: 11:22pm On May 23, 2016
very childish, and she called your bluff anyway... what about telling her exactly what is bothering you?! why dont you try that for a change?
Re: Experience Advice Please by AfroKnight: 11:24pm On May 23, 2016
grin You almost won the game but you spoiled everything when you challenged her bbm status. You should have ignored it and left your dp showng that new girl.

Next time just put the new girl's pic and add a hug smiley with no words. Leave it for like 24 hours. Don't react if she changes her dp. Just ignore. It is not easy but as a man you must have high capacity to tolerate uncomfortable situations.

It's a pity she doesn't have the sense to appreciate a guy like you who treasures her. Just give her some time. If she gets worse just look for a new babe.
Re: Experience Advice Please by clemmonce(m): 11:27pm On May 23, 2016
AfroKnight:
grin You almost won the game but you spoiled everything when you challenged her bbm status. You should have ignored it and left your dp showng that new girl.

Next time just put the new girl's pic and add a hug smiley with no words. Leave it for like 24 hours. Don't react if she changes her dp. Just ignore.

It's a pity she doesn't have the sense to appreciate a guy like you who treasures her. Just give her some time. If she gets worse just look for a new babe.
what should I do next now ? I am thinking of just staying away for some time bbm WhatsApp and the rest. What should I do ?
Re: Experience Advice Please by AfroKnight: 11:32pm On May 23, 2016
clemmonce:
what should I do next now ? I am thinking of just staying away for some time bbm WhatsApp and the rest. What should I do ?

Just keep your cool. If she remains difficult then you should prepare your mind to lose her. That's life. She no longer feels like she needs you.

Get closer to 1 or 2 female friends of yours and keep in touch with them regularly. Their company will help you manage the hurt that the absence of your girlfriend causes you. With time you'd know if you should end the relationship or not.
Re: Experience Advice Please by clemmonce(m): 11:38pm On May 23, 2016
AfroKnight:


Just keep your cool. If she remains difficult then you should prepare your mind to lose her. That's life. She no longer feels like she needs you.

Get closer to 1 or 2 female friends of yours and keep in touch with them regularly. Their company will help you manage the hurt that the absence of your girlfriend causes you. With time you'd know if you should end the relationship or not.
Thanks bro. I was thinking of going off those social media stuff like bbm and WhatsApp in order to make me get over her recent attitude.
Re: Experience Advice Please by KINGinVAHALA: 11:39pm On May 23, 2016
Sorry op, but your gf has found us, six packs, broad chest, muscular, etc and there is nothing you can do about it.
Re: Experience Advice Please by clemmonce(m): 11:41pm On May 23, 2016
KINGinVAHALA:
Sorry op, but your gf has found us, six packs, broad chest, muscular, etc and there is nothing you can do about it.
I doubt this ... But I can't really deduce her change of attitude
Re: Experience Advice Please by vicstar(m): 11:42pm On May 23, 2016
clemmonce:
Here is my ordeal guys. I need advice please if you don't have anything to say just be an observer.
Me and girlfriend are having this issue. .

[img]http://pbs.twimg.com/media/CLv6zhBWgAA7cNO.jpg:large[/img]
Re: Experience Advice Please by rosalieene(f): 11:46pm On May 23, 2016
lmaaooooo
op that was a childish act na. Just sit her down face to face and ask her if she is still interested in the relationship. If she says no, move on.
Re: Experience Advice Please by KINGinVAHALA: 11:47pm On May 23, 2016
clemmonce:
I doubt this ... But I can't really deduce her change of attitude
You can doubt me, but never you doubt our ladies, they are capable of fucking another dick immediately after fvcking yours.
Re: Experience Advice Please by KINGinVAHALA: 11:55pm On May 23, 2016
rosalieene:
lmaaooooo
op that was a childish act na. Just sit her down face to face and ask her if she is still interested in the relationship. If she says no, move on.
Would have replied according to your comment, but am not doing it because you complained of guys clicking on female profiles, check their pics, quote them unnecessary and end up sending random PM's.

What you said years ago could be use against you till thy kingdom come.

Don't mind replying because you won't get a subsequent reply from me.

Cheers sweetie!
Re: Experience Advice Please by rosalieene(f): 12:07am On May 24, 2016
KINGinVAHALA:

Would have replied according to your comment, but am not doing it because you complained of guys clicking on female profiles, check their pics, quote them unnecessary and end up sending random PM's.

What you said years ago could be use against you till thy kingdom come.

Don't mind replying because you won't get a subsequent reply from me.

Cheers sweetie!
lol wetn concern me? My main point there was about d guys going about calling Nl ladies ugly. I don't have a problem with ppl clicking on others profile I do that too. Where I have problem is when you go about checking ladies dp and comparing and contrasting, saying this one is fine and that one is ugly. don't know why you people fail to understand my point. I don't have issues with PMs, its just that comparison and those opening threads calling NL ladies ugly.
sorry if I provoked anyone, I didn't have any bad intention.
Re: Experience Advice Please by Chuksemi(m): 12:37am On May 24, 2016
Guy, have you shagged her? If yes, let her go.
Re: Experience Advice Please by skywalker240(m): 7:30am On May 24, 2016
as long as she aint ur wife, there is every possibility dat u gat to start searchin 4 greener pastures..no time to waste on a silly BITch(no offense) jus dont and i mean show her that much love...it shows u loving with ur heart when u should be loving with brains.

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