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Top Relationships Problems And Solutions. Pls Share Your Issues by OEmiohe: 5:14am On May 27, 2016 |
There is no such thing as the perfect couple no
matter how good things may seem. Every couple
will experience some sort of problem in their
relationship.
Let’s take a quick look at some of the top
relationship problems .
1). Cheating - Cheating is a very common
relationship problem. Being unfaithful can lead to
further problems and a lot of times causes many
relationships to end.
2) Lack of Trust - Another common relationship
problem is lack of trust. A lot of people find it
hard to trust the person they are with. With this
lack of trust, it can make the relationship
complicated and cause further issues.
3) Little to No Communication - It takes
communication to make a relationship work. when
there is little or no communication in the
relationship, the relationship itself can’t thrive and
become something greater. Other problems may
also occur because of little communication.
4) Jealousy - A lot of people may not think
jealousy
is a big problem but it can grow into a big issue
enough to where it can destroy a relationship. If
one or both partners find themselves in a jealous
rage all the time, the relationship can’t grow into
a healthy one and more problems can occur.
Constant Arguments - If you are in a relationship,
there is a good chance that you have argued with
your partner before. It isn’t always a bad thing
because making up after the argument can help
to build a stronger bond and strengthen the
relationship itself. However, some couples
constantly argue. They may argue over any little
thing at any given time. This is when there really
is a big problem and sadly, there are many
couples out there that constantly argue with each
other.
5) Abuse - Unfortunately, physical, verbal, and
mental abuse can be present in a relationship.
when it is, it is a big problem, especially physical
abuse. In any case, any abuse should be dealt
with immediately.
6) Being Controlling - A partner can become
controlling and want to control the other partner
and the relationship. This is a big problem. A
relationship can’t grow when one wants to control
everything and the other spouse has no say in
anything.
6) Negativity - A lot of negativity in a relationship
is
an issue. A partner may always look at the
negative side of everything or constantly criticize,
nitpick, and nag.
7) Gossiping & Confiding in Everyone Else But The
One They Are With - A lot of times, a partner may
talk about what is going on in the relationship to
friends, family, and other people. It is not always
a bad thing but it can get out hand especially
when the stuff that is said is negative, spiteful, or
just dishonest. Sometimes, they may talk about
what is going on in the relationship to seek some
advice or input , which again isn’t all that bad
but it can be when they can’t even go to the one
they are having the problems with and discuss it
one on one. They make it a habit to confide in
others first and then their partner last.
The Blame Game - Sometimes one or both
partners like to play the blame game. They may
put the blame on the other for various things.
Some examples of this goes something like this.
“It’s your fault we don’t get to go out much” “You
are the reason I am angry”, I blame you for
causing me to not be able to trust you”.
sometimes a partner may put the blame on their
partner for no valid reason at all or they do it out
of spite.
9). Lack of Affection and/or Intimacy - Showing
affection and being intimate in a relationship is
something that should be done. Intimacy isn’t
necessarily needed in some cases but sometimes
when there is little to no intimacy, it can be a
problem. Even though sex isn’t something that
makes a relationship it can help to strengthen
bonds and fulfill desires. Showing affection also
helps to express feelings and strengthen each
other bonds. When either is lacking or not present
at all, it may impact the relationship in a negative
way because for a lot of couples, affection and
intimacy are indeed important.
10). Money - Sometimes a couple can experience
some
financial problems in a relationship. Sometimes a
partner may want more and more money from
their partner. In any case, having money issues in
a relationship can cause conflicts.
11) Family & Friends - Family and friends can
have a
negative impact on a relationship. They may be
against the relationship, may give bad relationship
advice, may be too nosy, or even be more
important the relationship itself.
12) The Past - It is hard for a relationship to
move
forward when the past has some influence on it.
Often, a partner may have some issues with the
past which can often affect their current
relationship in a negative way. Bad past
relationship experiences have been known to be
an issue in new relationships when one is stuck in
the past and having a hard time making the
relationship they are in work to the fullest.
13) Relationship Not a Big Priority - There are a
lot of
things that can get in the way of a couples time
they can spend together. Work, kids, hanging with
friends, etc. It is OK if this happens every now
and then but when other things always come
before the time a couple can spend together, this
is a problem. To sum it up, when a partner puts
everything else before the relationship, this can be
bad.
So let's talk about what your going thru and offer
the best advice possible to you. so kindly share
don't die in silence pls oooo especially the
ladies /wives.. |
Re: Top Relationships Problems And Solutions. Pls Share Your Issues by HungerBAD: 5:21am On May 27, 2016 |
Paragraph it properly and then I can add my quota. 1 Like |
Re: Top Relationships Problems And Solutions. Pls Share Your Issues by firstking01(m): 5:27am On May 27, 2016 |
Op, i swear nobody will have the patient to read all these things cos the write up is too jampacked...i'm so sure there's space bar and paragraph bar on your phone...i skipt all through cos it was too jampacked tho i saw some few good points there...just do the needful. |
Re: Top Relationships Problems And Solutions. Pls Share Your Issues by feldido(m): 6:23am On May 27, 2016 |
Guy please do as you want men to do you Paragraph this thing d way u de see other people own, no be by force to copy and paste. No Vex oo, na joke I de oo... But I mean am |
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