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Relationship Advice by Actor101: 12:54pm On Jun 17, 2016
Hello, I got myself in trouble, and I need your help and advice to fix the situation. I am desperate to get help.

My name is Amina. I am very young, just turned 18. By this time, I had a share of troubles in my life. I had to be a survivor, so I got a sugar daddy, and he is in his 50ss. I also have a young boyfriend of 21 years of age.

The boyfriend has not a clue about the sugar daddy. I really love this guy. He is good looking and has all the chances of entering college and giving me a good life in the future.

He wants to have sex with me, but every time he hints at it, I tell him I am a virgin yet. So, I say “no.” At the same time I sleep with the sugar daddy, and he provides for me in return.

I have no idea of how the boyfriend would react to me not being a virgin or having a sugar daddy. I am scared to death to tell him the truth. Surely, he will not understand me or what I had to go through to do that and have this kind of life.

Advise me, please, what should I do? It cannot last like that forever. What if the boyfriend proposes me? Can I become a virgin again, if I stay out of having sex for a long while? I need your help!
Re: Relationship Advice by toocutehector(m): 12:56pm On Jun 17, 2016
angry make person hold me Abeg..

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Re: Relationship Advice by Nobody: 12:59pm On Jun 17, 2016
Yes, of course.

Quit sex dear. Your hymen will grow back.
You'll be a virgin again. You wicked soul. SMH...
Re: Relationship Advice by Nobody: 1:12pm On Jun 17, 2016
Hell No!!


No offence,there are other ways of earning a living apart from having a sugardaddy....Moreover you should have told your boyfriend you ain't a virgin...Being a virgin isn't the ultimate.


There is always a consequence for every action taken...I hope you will learn your lesson from this...
Re: Relationship Advice by Nobody: 1:31pm On Jun 17, 2016
toocutehector:
angry make person hold me Abeg..
oboy u don kill me dis afternoon..lwkmd
people dey cap ooo
Re: Relationship Advice by Nobody: 1:33pm On Jun 17, 2016
Aprime:
Yes, of course.

Quit sex dear. Your hymen will grow back.
You'll be a virgin again. You wicked soul. SMH...
ehn...bcus say na seed wey dey grow
Re: Relationship Advice by toocutehector(m): 1:34pm On Jun 17, 2016
nnamdiokere45:
oboy u don kill me dis after...lwkmd
just be like say make beat krase comot for her body... I wonder why people dey even advice am sef. My advice na to woze am slap..

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Re: Relationship Advice by ivyT(f): 2:00pm On Jun 17, 2016
Pls make money first,save and then invest.

Then further your education,no man is worth it these days,have it in mind UV lost ur boyfriend cos he'll eventually find out and seeing ur sugar daddy.

The future is promising and no one is perfect
Re: Relationship Advice by Nobody: 2:11pm On Jun 17, 2016
Wooo.. See gobe


Well: I can understand the reason why your keeping a sugerdaddy ( just to earn money abi?). But you know that ain't right.

If you truly love the young dude as you claim, just be bold and tell him the truth: if he really loves you, then he will accept you the way you are.

Remember: No man is worth your worries

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