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Re: Am Just 19&confused Already by Annapecky(f): 10:49am On Jun 18, 2016

Gerrard59:

@OP, forget about marriage and go get an education. Marriage will come later. 10 men? And you still collect gifts from them? Is the word NO not in your dictionary?

Tnx 4 ur advic bt wots wit d insult

Re: Am Just 19&confused Already by tayadof9ja(m): 10:50am On Jun 18, 2016

Annapecky:
God help me...now i wana brk up wit al of dem am sure d wil al curse me..SOBZ

Anita Ese Aisuan...is that you?

Re: Am Just 19&confused Already by Annapecky(f): 11:02am On Jun 18, 2016

Please dont insult me because i tld d truth,cos u dont wot ur chick is doing or ur sis jst advic me n dats al

Re: Am Just 19&confused Already by Annapecky(f): 11:04am On Jun 18, 2016

tayadof9ja:
Anita Ese Aisuan...is that you?

Am nt anita

Re: Am Just 19&confused Already by Annapecky(f): 11:06am On Jun 18, 2016

mjay4luv:
Babes for NL no dey even drop there number make fine dudes hit them up. anyways, me I'm bored o and I need cute babes to chat me up. 2348062286654 my name is M'Jay

Drop ur num elswer ok?

Re: Am Just 19&confused Already by Annapecky(f): 11:08am On Jun 18, 2016

Drop ur num elsewer jay

Re: Am Just 19&confused Already by AyamBlaze: 11:18am On Jun 18, 2016

Drama queen.

Re: Am Just 19&confused Already by tayadof9ja(m): 11:30am On Jun 18, 2016

Annapecky:
Am nt anita

dey dciv ursf

Re: Am Just 19&confused Already by Honesty007(m): 11:49am On Jun 18, 2016

Annapecky:
Really nid help...i have like 10guys currently...4 aboard,promising me marriage when the come back.and 6 in Nigeria but different states...but u know whats strange? i dont love any of dem..even d ones that send me money..i thought it was al pretence bt i found out dat i dont have emotions anymore..i could hurt sum1 2 day nd wont feel it...al dis i gues was caused by d hrtbrks i got at my tender age...d question is am i still human? wil i eva b in love?...tel ur experience if u have 2

how do u feel @ first?? Getting all the attention is quite normal for youthful exhuberance.But flee youthful lust ok!!!
Also ,they cn not marry you? They are only after sex!!
You are way too immature for such advances,tho its part of life.Guide ur thoughts with the word of Godok.
Don't hate them.the only love you can have now is the Love of God.
All other love of men=lust,passion and romance never last.they always make you confused

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Re: Am Just 19&confused Already by Nobody: 11:54am On Jun 18, 2016

I won't yell at op for what's said.
This dude has spoken

nonjebose:
19 yrs. I think you should be focused on your academics, trade or something more engaging. Admirers scattered all over nigeria and abroad is not a medal. Get off social media and face your career path for a change

Re: Am Just 19&confused Already by Allisonrichy(m): 12:01pm On Jun 18, 2016

Annapecky:
Really nid help...i have like 10guys currently...4 aboard,promising me marriage when the come back.and 6 in Nigeria but different states...but u know whats strange? i dont love any of dem..even d ones that send me money..i thought it was al pretence bt i found out dat i dont have emotions anymore..i could hurt sum1 2 day nd wont feel it...al dis i gues was caused by d hrtbrks i got at my tender age...d question is am i still human? wil i eva b in love?...tel ur experience if u have 2

My dear I think what should be more important to you right now is going to college finishing with a good GPA and make your parents proud after that you can settle for a man your heart truly accepts and in most cases u can still meet a guy u truly love in college and both of u can take it to the next level if it's Gods wish
But your studies first you are only 19 I think that should be your priority

Re: Am Just 19&confused Already by NLjona(m): 12:05pm On Jun 18, 2016

Annapecky:
Really nid help...i have like 10guys currently...4 aboard,promising me marriage when the come back.and 6 in Nigeria but different states...but u know whats strange? i dont love any of dem..even d ones that send me money..i thought it was al pretence bt i found out dat i dont have emotions anymore..i could hurt sum1 2 day nd wont feel it...al dis i gues was caused by d hrtbrks i got at my tender age...d question is am i still human? wil i eva b in love?...tel ur experience if u have 2

I do experience this too.. I choose to become a player because I don't have emotions either.. due to hrtbrks as uve stated.. even upon the attention. from girls I'm even dating one now who is ready to. do anything ..I still don't know have feelings for them.. shit happuns

Re: Am Just 19&confused Already by lovean: 12:19pm On Jun 18, 2016

u need to open ur heart to love dough ur still too young, go study and make yah self a better future first....and note... u might actually be in love with one of them without know....wen he hurts u or breaks up,uile know then..

Re: Am Just 19&confused Already by Annapecky(f): 12:58pm On Jun 18, 2016

Am rweli hapi...and i say a big thank u 2 thos who insultd nd thos who saw me as ther kid sis or so...thanx alot

Re: Am Just 19&confused Already by UyiIredia(m): 1:13pm On Jun 18, 2016

Annapecky:
I meant d serious ones

Don't tell me it's more than 10 guys u screwed shocked

Re: Am Just 19&confused Already by holygoat(m): 1:17pm On Jun 18, 2016

Annapecky:
Please dont insult me because i tld d truth,cos u dont wot ur chick is doing or ur sis jst advic me n dats al

See just forget abt all of them.. face ur book or if na trade u dey learn, learn am well.. All those guys just wan chao ur chinchin!

Re: Am Just 19&confused Already by Tori46(f): 1:18pm On Jun 18, 2016

Hmmm.. I advise u concentrate on your studies or better still invest your time in postive things and also try to make yourself a better person. You are still young, just take your time and have fun. Also learn to let go

Re: Am Just 19&confused Already by trilobite: 2:35pm On Jun 18, 2016

Hmm....a "soon to be" runs babe.

Listen, this is just the beginning, your are a late bloomer. In my experience the attention confusion starts at 15, so 19 seems late to me.

Look, you are being washed. They all want to sleep with you. As in, " chop clean mouth".

I want you to focus on yourself, if in school, read, make the best grades. Ignore your peers and men. Do not waste your potential on men.

Re: Am Just 19&confused Already by OlayinkaM1(m): 2:38pm On Jun 18, 2016

you didn't have feelings for any of them cos of the heartbreaks and all of them are still online chatters and callers, maybe when you start meeting them or when a guy woo u physically and u meet regularly Sha, d feelings will come

Re: Am Just 19&confused Already by Nobody: 2:42pm On Jun 18, 2016

True love doesn't exist except the love of Christ

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Re: Am Just 19&confused Already by Annapecky(f): 4:46pm On Jun 18, 2016

UyiIredia:

Don't tell me it's more than 10 guys u screwed

Dat wasnt involved its a distance relationship am talkin abt

Re: Am Just 19&confused Already by Annapecky(f): 4:49pm On Jun 18, 2016

Plz dnt get me rong...tnx alot tho

Re: Am Just 19&confused Already by STENON(f): 5:13pm On Jun 18, 2016

You are the architect of your Future.

Choose wisely,and think of other great things to accomplish in life at your very tender age, rather than thinking on how to successfully date 10 different guys.

Re: Am Just 19&confused Already by kuchikau: 5:19pm On Jun 18, 2016

Annapecky:
God help me...now i wana brk up wit al of dem am sure d wil al curse me..SOBZ

....

Why do I find it difficult to believe your crap, sorry story.?

Stop menstuating.

Re: Am Just 19&confused Already by oscarlloyd(m): 12:51pm On Jun 22, 2016

ha ha ha ha,, wait... am i the only one here who saw 4 are ABOARD[i][/i] ..... grin

Re: Am Just 19&confused Already by Annapecky(f): 10:46am On Jun 23, 2016

kuchikau:
...
Prostitute @19.

U MEan ur mum rit? dats hw she got u xo sowi

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Re: Am Just 19&confused Already by foolinlove(f): 10:54am On Jun 23, 2016

Oh wow I feel so sorry for you (not). You're 19, get over it. If you don't love these guys, don't marry them - have some consideration for others' feelings.

Yes, you will fall in love on day. You may or may not marry that person you love - they may drop you and marry some other girl. Be glad you still have peace and happiness for now.

It's called dating. People have their hearts broken. You are breaking hearts now, so be considerate and tell the truth to those guys and let them find someone good for them that doesn't double/triple/multiple date. Then, when someone breaks your heart maybe they will do you the same courtesy.

For the record - multiple dating is the worst and you shouldn't do it. If someone asks you for marriage and you've never dated them, then that's stupid. Don't be stupid.

Re: Am Just 19&confused Already by chigoizie7(m): 12:01pm On Jun 23, 2016

From this thread, it kinda feels so normal that a 19yr old girl has about 10 (serious) boy friends and God knows how many (un serious).

U complained of being heart broken once, but here u are, breaking the hearts of more than 10 guys all @ once, check am nah, is it fair?

Annapecky, if u know what is good for u, please try to dis-engage all of them from ur life.

U are still human dear, u kinda felt otherwise because all these men in your life has be clouded ur mind and heart that u have shut out the possibility of loving again out of ur heart. Trust me, u can't find love if u still keep these men around (it might be fun to u now). Trust me, it will come to hunt u when u least expect it, u will wish u never existed when ur unpleasant past come knocking.

This is still early to amend ur life style. There is no other way someone turns to a professional olosho ooh, na like this ee de take happen, u will love it now because u are still very young and desirable, u will enjoy the attentions u get, but with time, the law of diminishing returns will set in. And u will try to do anything humanly possible to make sure you are still the game. That is when u will start making grievous decisions that will hunt u for the rest of your life.

My dear, u still have a lot of years ahead of u, please use it well, make Ee no enter ur head abeg.

Many ladies made mistakes because of BlackBerry bold2, a mistake they still cry to for help. Please don't make such mistakes.

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Re: Am Just 19&confused Already by Chuksemi(m): 2:18pm On Jun 23, 2016

Annapecky:
Really nid help...i have like 10guys currently...4 aboard,promising me marriage when the come back.and 6 in Nigeria but different states...but u know whats strange? i dont love any of dem..even d ones that send me money..i thought it was al pretence bt i found out dat i dont have emotions anymore..i could hurt sum1 2 day nd wont feel it...al dis i gues was caused by d hrtbrks i got at my tender age...d question is am i still human? wil i eva b in love?...tel ur experience if u have 2

When next you want to lie. Type in English and make it look believable

Re: Am Just 19&confused Already by Chuksemi(m): 2:19pm On Jun 23, 2016

foolinlove:
Oh wow I feel so sorry for you (not). You're 19, get over it. If you don't love these guys, don't marry them - have some consideration for others' feelings.

Yes, you will fall in love on day. You may or may not marry that person you love - they may drop you and marry some other girl. Be glad you still have peace and happiness for now.

It's called dating. People have their hearts broken. You are breaking hearts now, so be considerate and tell the truth to those guys and let them find someone good for them that doesn't double/triple/multiple date. Then, when someone breaks your heart maybe they will do you the same courtesy.

For the record - multiple dating is the worst and you shouldn't do it. If someone asks you for marriage and you've never dated them, then that's stupid. Don't be stupid.

Bae, she is trolling.

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